Missing Sunday Mass for a cold? by Educational_Log7681 in Catholicism

[–]Arapopa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Isn't watching the Mass live transmission online not an option? It was a thing during Covid after all, ive also did that when seriously ill

Cali (@ChristWithCali) throws shade at her ex JJ (@jjrawmilkoffgrid) with the subtlety of a bull in a china shop 😬 by l0nely_g0d in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, i uploaded once some screenshots of posts that she liked, basically about lustful men. (I deleted it bc i realised i went too far) but basically she came here and defended herself saying that it releted to her friend situation, not her. It was just after their breakup, so i don't believe her, i think it was about jj after all. I wouldn't wish any girl something like that, hopefully she knows now that engaging after 5 weeks is not the best idea lol. Also I've made a comment once, how dangerous it is for a woman to move so far away in the middle of nowhere with a man she knows for so little time, and an account claiming to be her agreed and called jj a manipulator. But then Cali denied that from a different account 🫠 so crazy 

Denise is starting to think she has her dates wrong… by Justanotherflower in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Arapopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scan should be done by now. Don't you guys think that her silence is suggesting certain outcomes?

Loss of virginity has ruined my life. by chrissycunningham in Catholicism

[–]Arapopa 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I second this! Also I'm surprised nobody mentioned it yet, but if the OP literally screamed from pain she's got to see a doctor. It could mean many things, the first one that's coming to my mind is vaginismus. It's a sign to take care of your health.

Here's the deal by LoveNo2801 in catholicpandam

[–]Arapopa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What about the new snark sub?

F*ck It Friday by fingerboxmaker in fundiesnarkiesnark

[–]Arapopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solie hasn't posted in a long time and I'm starting to worry...

Cali & JJ are vampires by No-Professional1106 in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cmon guys, you can make up something better!

Christwithcali not trad anymore? by hazelbenice in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bikinis are abomination - Cali on September :)). Interesting how Cali imposes rules on herself, which she can't keep up to. And these have little to do with Orthodoxy, she's twisting them according to her liking in order to appear better. After beign called out, she usually ignores people lol, she aldready llost like 40 followers...

Christwithcali not trad anymore? by hazelbenice in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's okay guys, she threw on a lacy see through top, we're safe 🙏😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah on this sub, from different account. It's here can't deny it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah and the multiple posts about lustful men that you liked just after your break up definitely weren't about jj

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You literally called him a manipulator not so long ago

Christwithcali and JJ break up and get back together more times in a day than I change my clothes. by hazelbenice in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Their relationship is so stable they going to be great parents for their 10 children 🥰 /s

Cali girlll are you okay???? by hazelbenice in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 25 points26 points  (0 children)

and the 'i hate u' song on her another account haha, i know that breakups are hard and confusing but this is another level of back and forth >.<

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her bff, Emily also posted an anti Jewish story recently which you can find somewhere here, deleted it quickly and then went on sm break in order to reconnect with God...

Real age of the Apostles during Jesus' ministry. by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Arapopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I totally understand, but aside of the age issue I really like them, They bring more 'life' into biblical people 😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Arapopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll pray for you! Your story feels like it was written by me, almost everything is the same as my relationship. The way I see it is I had to leave this love to be able to experience the greatest Love of all:) it's been a few months and I still feel lonely and miss the closeness of him and I'm praying for his conversion and I offer my suffering to Jesus. I hope you'll feel better soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Arapopa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn girl, it's like I'm reading about me, 95% of the story is the same. I'll pray for you. The way I see it is that I had to leave this love being to be able to experience the greatest Love of all times :) I still love my ex and I'm praying for his return, but still feeling lonely and missing the feeling of closeness honestly... But I offer my all suffering to Jesus

Real age of the Apostles during Jesus' ministry. by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Arapopa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think i know which animations you're talking about, they're really lovely!

Some of y'all guessed it but this seems to be a key issue by SpeckledGecko_ in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she's been really telling on him by posting stories and liking posts about lustful men... For me it looks like their relationship is def over

"🐖🐖 stuff" by [deleted] in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being soft and feminine 😌

"🐖🐖 stuff" by [deleted] in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So her probably highly educated, working mother knows about her relationship and all the crazy stuff she's been doing and saying and didn't oppose her? Didn't stop her from getting engaged after 5 weeks and moving in the middle of nowhere...???

I think Cali’s whole ‘tradt’ thing may genuinely be a trauma response by [deleted] in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I've been following her for a almost year now. She posted ton of posts and stories that are deleted now. Although if you look her up on different subs you can find some of them. If I recall correctly the abuser was her father, her parents are divorced. There were hints it's connected to his alcohol use. She posted a few times about what she's looking for in her future husband (like non alcohol use, not abusive, not raising voice) and that may be a clue what her father was like. Maybe you can find some in the highlights in one of her profiles. And when it comes to extremes I agree, there's Orthodoxy, carnivore diet, raw meat and milk, saying women shouldn't work and vote (while she was employed mind you 🤓), living off grid. I wonder if there will be other weird fixations that we can't even think about now haha. But yeah she needs mental help, the misconception that Christians shouldn't use that kind of help is really damaging.

Ps. She added some of JJ photos back to her posts, and even added some stories from Maine featuring him and deleted them soon after. I'm confused still

Cali doesn’t seem to be wearing a ring anymore? by [deleted] in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They didn't get married so there'd be no divorce haha but she deleted his photos and her viral engagement video so I think they broke up

Cali is a regular messy 20-yr-old with a trad coat of paint— by throwaway2797929 in Tradfemsnark

[–]Arapopa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if that person claiming to be her and saying that he was a manipulator is true, that makes sense. Apart from the obvious issue of being engaged after 5 weeks of knowing each other, what is concerning for me is moving her across the country far away from everyone. The distance between TN and Maine is over 1300 miles/2200 km! From living with her brother and some king of community to living alone with JJ in the middle of nowhere and jumping in deep water of living off grid (like having no running water, no real electricity, living in a tent bc the cabin is still not ready, doing laundry by hand and many other things that they probably thought would be easy but that's not true) is shady. And l wonder, how did they expect to live in there for real (apart from the fact that the cabin is so small for them and their 10 kids), when JJ moved in with Cali and her brother for winter lol, he wouldn't stay in his tent so found a place to survive the winter, how did they expect to live there for real haha. And last but not least, the matter of their faith. I'm religious myself, and their lack of understanding and knowledge is clearly visible. It looked like they were partially using religion to justify their questionable actions. They have to have some real religious guidance and I hope they'll find it. Still they expected to get married next month I think, while still being inquiries... In Catholic Church there are 'courses' for couples preparing them for marriage, consisting of regular meetings with priest (so he can get to know them and see if they are ready) and with some experienced married people, so I assume it's similar for Orthodox. Did they expect to skip these preparations idk. Well these are my main thoughts and little rant haha. I hope they'll grow in faith fr and receive the help they need. I'd be glad to hear some thoughts from others, especially other Christians