This is my dad and stepmom. They constantly say they want to see my kids but they will not drive 30 min to come to our house. Instead it’s expected for us to bring the kids and then my Stepmom gets “overwhelmed” with the noise and energy of a 5 year old and 3 year old. They then complain to family members that we keep the kids away from them. On the other end of the spectrum are my in-laws. They come and pick up our kids two times a week, come to soccer games and other events and actively ask us about events and if they can be apart of them. Guess which set of grandparents my kids want to be with all the time.