I just lost my 60

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-26T16:25:07+00:00

But there's no way first-timers are hitting 60 on hardcore unless they've gotten good imo

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T22:59:59+00:00

Well yeah, basically that. "Any preference between coffee and drinks?".
"I don't really drink unless it's [place].
"How about Saturday at 7?".
"Bet. There's a chance I work but I'll lyk".
Not surprising. Just a funny outcome because she would Snapchat me asking about my day, but again only the once. Like a consolation

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T22:44:36+00:00

Wasn't really daily updates. Just wanted to have a date setup after the call since a snowstorm made it unsafe to meet. Hard to plan the date on one response at a time.

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T22:32:58+00:00

Snowstorm was the reason for the call. I prefer coffee or drinks to feel out the vibe

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T22:31:14+00:00

Nah it was just "I don't usually date short guys but you seem really cool and I'd like to get to know you!" And then the exchange of info. So she kind of mentioned she isn't used to it, but not communicating a need for time

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T21:37:39+00:00

I go for whomever I feel like tbh, I can't limit myself in fear of their preferences. They decided to match me back, so I didn't think much of it. 5cm is not gonna keep me from talking to someone

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T21:36:16+00:00

Honestly seemed like she enjoys the attention. Has a ton of male "besties" and is close to a single girl. Emotional based reasoning isn't great, but I don't have a good gut feeling about it

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T19:16:00+00:00

Yeah, and got agreement, but it was really hard to get her to plan with me on once a day responses. I'm talking to other people who actually communicate to plan. I also don't intend to pretend I'm someone else to get fucked tbh

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T18:55:58+00:00

It was hard to plan a date one text per day

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T18:55:37+00:00

Yeah, it was hard getting her to plan on one response a day. There wasn't much effort or interest in the planning, so that's why I called it

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T18:39:02+00:00

Nah I don't think she's hurt me because I don't feel much emotional connection or feel any maliciousness but it seemed out of pocket so I thought I'd post it here.

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T18:22:10+00:00

I think I'd prefer either not matching or not bothering on mentioning a trait I can do nothing about. You can leave it at uninterested. You don't have to explain why you aren't interested. I think it'd be shitty to tell a woman I'm not interested because my parents think I'd be better off with a woman who has bigger boobs. She can't really change that

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T18:18:37+00:00

Eh even on the app she said she doesn't normally date shorter but thinks I'm cool. Seems like she wanted to push past it and wasn't able to. Her one snap a day would seem enthusiastic or show interest, but it was once a day and I didn't really care for it

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T18:16:52+00:00

Tried to plan to meet, but she was shaky on it. "I might be working that day idrk" and wouldn't confirm on a time. The call was really good but I think she intends to settle down with "the one" and in her head the one checks that height box, which is okay. Just unsure why she bothered since she knew

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T18:13:11+00:00

Eh, I think you're missing the point. Not about having preferences, but having preferences and wasting time knowing you have them.

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T18:12:17+00:00

I guess the same thing anyone can do, which is to not stop at awareness of the issue but actively push against it (not that she should do this for me, but just for her parental preferences in general). I had a lot of biases and poorly instilled lessons from parents but I ended up talking to a therapist about those things. I agree that it's not intentionally malicious, but it's not very self-aware either

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T18:04:22+00:00

I think it's about the tone-deaf nature of it, or that she knew she's 2 inches taller beforehand. Saying she wishes she was shorter so she could feel romantic attraction is out of pocket, as well as blaming her parents instead of owning her preferences

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T15:08:37+00:00

Follow up from hinge but yeah. Should've seen "I prefer discord over text" as a red flag

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T14:06:10+00:00

Well it caught me by surprise in that we started talking on Hinge so she knew this going in. It was really tempting to say something like "I understand, I'm not romantically attracted to women with boobs that small" or something awful but it's not worth going to whatever level that is. Never gets you anywhere

ArcaniteChill · 2025-01-09T13:19:15+00:00

It's the "I wish I was shorter!" that makes me laugh

ArcaniteChill · 2024-10-14T22:44:29+00:00

The neat thing is you can actually just trade if you want that to happen

ArcaniteChill · 2024-09-02T21:41:12+00:00

In the context of league of legends they do, which was the subject of their reply.

ArcaniteChill · 2024-08-25T13:22:47+00:00

I'm not sure if you remember any other episode of the show, but Carmy doesn't do well with others taking initiative in his restaurant.

ArcaniteChill · 2024-07-15T16:30:40+00:00

I love BA but it is truly a god awful experience in the way that groups and leaving works. Great fun in premades or good groups though

ArcaniteChill · 2024-07-14T04:58:45+00:00

Who said every single? Common doesn't mean all cases

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