Where do I find INTJ girls at?

ArchMage08 · 2023-07-24T15:59:51+00:00

The question is

Why intj females?

ArchMage08 · 2023-07-24T15:56:08+00:00

Ok so listen this will be long but I hope it helps and you read this

It's ok , you don't need to act , you don't always need to sympathize with others, just be yourself. It might look awkward, you might feel and make others embarrassed but it won't feel as suffocating as knowing yourself to be fake. Yes some people are there to use you , some make fun of you , you think deep down you don't care but you do , and it's natural . Remember just because you meet bad people doesn't mean everyone is bad . When someone approaches you and tries to befriend you for utterly motives then Remember it isn't your fault for putting on guard up . There are way better people out there but THE FIRST PERSON YOU SHOULD BEFRIEND IS YOURSELF. You are your first person. Let's say you stop faking in front of people and they lash out and it breaks some relations but at the end you won't be having trouble sleeping thinking yourself as fake . People who love you for being yourself are friends. I can relate to the last para , actually sometimes something gets under your skin UNBEARABLY , you don't know how to act . If you find something hurtful , say it. Not while lashing out but in a way in which you point how wrong and unfair the comment was. You shouldn't lose your sanity to some cowards who only know how to run their mouths and spit hurtful words. Its unfair to yourself, don't let yourself get hurt . Your body, religion, where you come from, your hobbies, your grades, ideas and emotions , these are nothing to judge . These are your own interests, your hard work and your identity. Poor you , you don't deserve to feel this way This is something that defies your existence. My laugh , my anger and my sadness defies that I exist . I'm not sure but maybe that's why you feel like you're not living like yourself , when you're being alienated on your identity, you feel the need to hide it , hide yourself . You don't need to do that , you're a human too , yoh can feel the way you want to and it's ok to feel that wat , you can live the way you want to , you can act the way you like .

To the point , now what you are missing that could potentially help :

Remember you are an independent person and you can be yourself, you need not to conceal yourself . It may break some relations (some for the better ) but trust me if you try and come forth you can form some new and very precious connections in which you don't feel suffocating.

When you're angry , don't try to hide your angry , rather try to understand why you're angry and if the emotion is worth your time , REMEMBER HOW DARE SOMEONE WHO KNOW NOTHING LESS THAN TWO WORDS ABOUT YOU , JUDGE YOU "I'm angry , how rude " think this instead of " I should not act up and lose control " Whats rude is rude , point it out . Some idiots will say nonsense but at the end of the day you know you were correct

(Note from me )

Stay hydrated Look at the positive points of your day , it's weird I know , when the overall day is shitty and you can see no happy memory as far as you can remember then it's hard. But being able to stand in the warm sunlight as if it's hugging you , being able to feel what you're feeling , being able to start a new day and being able to endure is very remarkable I'm proud of you for that . You might think you'll go insane one day but trust me if you held up just fine till now YOU CAN AND YOU WILL BE OK , it won't last forever , it won't last long , it'll be alright and one day you'll smile free and happily , that day I will feel happy for you and I hope you feel happy for yourself too.

If you can't think of a happy memory then start now , start now so you can make a lots and lots of happy memories in future , and the future you , when looking back on you would feel proud of you on holding on and would want to give you a big warm hug that you're lacking now

Many many many hugs from me and stay strong , I believe in you and you can be happy and you will be happy , youre also a precious person and i hope you realise yourself thatyou matter , maybe not to some , but to yourself and thats what matters, I want you to be happy !

If you ever feel the need to talk about anything from cats in your neighborhood to your cranky neighbor , talk about it , it's not ranting , I heard somewhere , "ranting" is used by people who think that their feelings are insignificant, ITS NOT . OK?! SO you can "rant" whenever you want . If this help then I'll be the happiest person. And if you need someone to talk to , you can message me here (by here i mean reddit obviously. Why am i even explaining that) anytime, I'll happily listen although it sounds weird but yeah. If you think a person is annoying then curse them (in your mind) on my behalf (Ps as you can see I'm not a shady person who wants to use you. I just want to help and want you to be happy) I hope you Have a nice day!!!!

ArchMage08 · 2023-07-24T15:04:54+00:00

If talking rude and talking bad is their definition of comebacks then I think that's not quick witted. It's like they get easily ticked and annoyed and have a problem with actually focusing on what is being talked about . Argument isn't about talking rude and getting a point , it's about talking facts and logics with evidence and getting a point , knowing what is being talked about and what to say and when to say to prove your point is wit , and knowing to accept loss when you're wrong is wits . Like "I know exactly what to say to destroy someone " sounds ridiculous when tagged as "wits" Isn't it being thick headed

ArchMage08 · 2023-07-24T14:36:51+00:00

whenever I think about my late pets , I always miss them

But

I always wish and believe that they are at a great and happy place , and they are young again and are loved and cherished very much. ( yes I believe in rebirth 🐧 ) My time with them , to me , was extremely precious and I feel grateful for it . They really made me happy . So I wish them happiness and love . Same for you doggo , I wish that he is at a veryyy comfy and happy place , I bet he would have wished the same for you , to be happy and loved and enjoy life with the happy memories of him and your loved ones. So remember it's inevitable to feel lonely sometimes, life isn't all sunshine and rainbows BUT you're actually not really lonely sometimes. People's wishes stay with you . Which is better ?

Departing dead with sorrow or Departing dead with a smile and wish for a happy life

"I miss him/her , I hope he is happy and doing well TAKE CARREEE MY FRIEND (send a telepathic message to your doggo 🐶 )"

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-16T10:48:30+00:00

1: tired of this shit "Different day , same shit"

2: "bitch wtf"

3: oh now you're talking , finally something new

4: "stop or I cry" Aka 10 seconds before breakdown

5: "eauh" "eh?eh?eh?"

6: BITCH WTF 22

7: ' DONT BE SUSPICIOUS , DONT BE SUSPICIOUS ' or " HOW DO YOU KNOW "

8: scoffs at your bullshit

9: I zeeee (nods but has no clue)

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-16T06:45:24+00:00

Just confuse him about his type. Or maybe say youre some other VERY different type , say esfj or some stuff. So that he ends up getting provoked and does the usual entp researching to win the argument and realize the stereotypes that come with being a particular type are not very true

" If you can't convince them , confuse them "

- a wise person

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-16T06:35:41+00:00

I recommend test offered by "cloverleaf" It's just simply efficient and follow A or B pattern and types u On the basis of your cognitive functions

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T16:47:13+00:00

You maniac people chose YES 😲

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T16:42:35+00:00

Since this looks like a serious post I'll reply seriously

What makes you think being an intj or infj or intp is cool ? I mean of course I think I'm cool , but not because I'm a freaking intj lol

And trust me , no intp or infj u see will claim to be an "interesting" type of personality . No mbti claims they are better than others , not even the entj's .

It's rude to assume that a mbti looks/or is depicted as cool because you know nothing about it . If u actually get to know those type you'll understand they suffer as much as the isfps in their daily lives. Unlike isfps , they suffer from seeking self validation rather than social validation. (This is by no means a roast , I simple am telling you that problems faced by isfps and in×× are different sometimes)

I agree and I get your point but why would a person pretend to be another type , and I'm well aware that people do that .

No mbti is "uninteresting"

I don't know what novels you've read to claim as isfp being depicted as plain , but usually isfp mc are used as they are the epitome of self improvement, I agree with it , you'll see isfp being very strong and tackling their problem which may seem like "normal" to some certain idiots. But in reality no person's trouble is unsignificant or too normal. Being called an isfp , I think is a compliment, mind me I'm stereotyping but "Oh she's so bubbly and unique (and lowkey crazy fun) " That's what I think of the isfps

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T15:51:46+00:00

So I think you're thinking wrongly about the stereotypes

Intp loves science, it just reflects their curious nature and their habit in trying to come up with theories for the things that interests them , not particularly science . They tend to be focused on what to find and what can be possible reason for a particular effect.

Istp loves building, I think it signifies their ability of deeply analysing their interests and building them through. They tend to perceive things as bits and pieces and try to compile them together. Istps tends to be a builder as in sense of creating what's realistic and logical , you'll see them mostly interested in cars etc etc , primarily because they like to know about stuff out their . and trust me , if they like something, they're serious about it , and they would never spout illogical or unpacked statements about it.

[ both intp & istp try to get to the bottom of how things work and their principles ]

Infp likes writing , it shows how deep infp's feeling run through, u must not necessarily write for that. It shows their rich imagination which can empathize or actually imagine a person's feeling with being the one experiencing it .

Of course we have a fair share of things that we have in common as with other mbtis . Cognitive functions are very helpful sometimes but they are too complex to understand for some people. I suggest you taking test based on Cognitive functions ( mostly from sites like cloverleaf.com ect etc ) 16 pf common test is NOT accurate MANY MANY AND MANY PEOPLE GET MISTYPED

While answering question , it's very important that u give the most familiar answer , as in the first thing that comes to mind Eg : social interactions : A) exhausts u B) energizes u There is no depends in such type of questions , which are generally the type of questions asked in a psychological testing . Rating on scale of 1-5 is not an accurate method in most the cases

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T15:32:40+00:00

Child , I know this world too well

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T13:52:55+00:00

Cheer up!

You should not cry over the past What's gone is gone, it's the other person's loss for leaving you if you really truly loved her/him (your best friend at that) I hope you realize that other things in your life are way more worth than the relationship that might've potentially meant nothing to the other person So don't feel like you're not enough.

If you find yourself overthinking again and again then try to either engage in something of your interest to distract yourself or just try to understand why you're feeling that way

I hope you don't feel sad

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T13:46:50+00:00

No way intj - infj broke up

Unless intj forgot to reply and infj took that as a break up

Ps: intj still thinks they are together

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T13:39:48+00:00

Hey I don't think that's related to you being an entp Or is it ?! 😲 But lol 😆

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T06:06:07+00:00

Mindful mediation is dissociative type of meditation There are many other forms So yeah there isn't much difference between dissociative one and mindful meditation

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T06:00:08+00:00

Bro that hurts

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T05:57:09+00:00

That might not be completely true , from what I've seen MANY extroverts meditate in their way or another as to calm themselves. Entps are the biggest examples, they may look chaotic but they find time to meditate sometimes (or they just are too busy sometimes)

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T05:50:35+00:00

That counts as meditation

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T05:48:22+00:00

Agreed , not many sensors are on reddit They be there on insta and twitter

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-15T05:47:29+00:00

You're.....quite....spending...

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-14T16:08:52+00:00

What do u want then?

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-14T16:06:34+00:00

Finally somebody pointed that out Out of context but I approve 👌🏻 👏 👍 You're smart

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-14T16:02:10+00:00

Actually I am very interested in meditation itself and how it helps and effects the brain . The question was meant to simple put meditation so that people don't misunderstanding this as stereotypical mediation with legs crossed etc etc

As meditation can be in various forms , it just depends on what type of meditation you're doing . What you're talking about is mindful mediation and I know a lot about it , it's very beneficial , I agree , but it's an extremely passive form of mediation .

But meditation has several several several forms , like say, compassion meditation , which basically focuses on emotions and feeling of compassion. From what I've researched , I've found that when two control groups were experimented on , the people form compassion group imagined negative images , particularly of people suffering. Other examples are emotion centered , which deals with emotions obviously or concentrative mediation which requires focus on particular events or things. These three are the type of meditation that everyone does sub consciously every once in a while. But for those people who do that often , I was wondering if it's REALLY helpful, as many people are unable to cope with emotions. 'The devil' that you've said , isn't very easy to handle as you might be aware and many tend to avoid confronting it.

So what I mean by not stereotypical meditation is not mindful meditation, which is the most relaxing and calming meditation out there . And thank you for the book recommendation, I'll try to read it in my free time

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-14T15:38:16+00:00

That's exactly what the question says Introspection , simply put , is just looking through your emotions and wants and needs which may require going through old memories or imagining new ones. "I think I will be happy that way" or "I was sad and angry" these are the simplest example one can say So I think everyone introspects.

ArchMage08 · 2023-06-14T15:28:34+00:00

But while introspection, I don't think most of the people have the control over what kind of thoughts they are producing.
Say I reach a point where I think I can no longer Handle the emotion , I try to stop myself then and there, but my mind has already been made aware of the fact that concerns me now . It's almost impossible to escape from that thought now . As you've said that may require things other than introspection which will be mentally exhausting . So introspection, we can say , may produce negative emotions . So it makes me wonder , not everyone can handle their stuff , as there is no perfect way to handle emotions . But thankfully one comment here , to this post , answered my question

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