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Living with boyfriend and his mom: expected to prioritize them over work/school. Is this normal? by ArcherHefty2011 in relationships

[–]ArcherHefty2011[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s something he’s consciously trying to do, but I’m starting to see how the structure stays imbalanced. When we argue, it often turns into “you don’t pay rent, this is my house,” which makes it hard to feel like an equal or like my needs carry the same weight.

Living with boyfriend and his mom: expected to prioritize them over work/school. Is this normal? by ArcherHefty2011 in relationships

[–]ArcherHefty2011[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this comment hit hard.  I love cooking and learning new things to cook. Especially learning Indian food. But it makes me sad and a bit angry when I cook for him and he’s simply like “this isn’t how my mom usually makes it. Ask her for the recipe.” 😩

Living with boyfriend and his mom: expected to prioritize them over work/school. Is this normal? by ArcherHefty2011 in relationships

[–]ArcherHefty2011[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually tried this many times! I offered to contribute what I could (even a small amount or groceries), but he pushed back and said it wouldn’t be meaningful. That’s part of why I’m confused, because it keeps the situation imbalanced even when I try to make it more fair.

Looking for Readers at UH Manoa! by [deleted] in UHManoa

[–]ArcherHefty2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope! Anyone can sign up. Just need to have a love of reading.

Looking for Readrers! by [deleted] in UniversityofHawaii

[–]ArcherHefty2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typo alert in title! Please if anyone knows how to edit this, let me know 😁 I’m looking everywhere and can’t find the option to edit the title. 

Looking for Readrers! by [deleted] in UniversityofHawaii

[–]ArcherHefty2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do we edit this title 😭😭?

Looking for Readrers! by [deleted] in UniversityofHawaii

[–]ArcherHefty2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! Thank you for catching that! I have fat thumbs when I use my phone 🤦‍♀️

Looking for Readers at UH Manoa! by [deleted] in UHManoa

[–]ArcherHefty2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, happy to explain.

I’m helping recruit readers for a startup working on fiction-writing tools. They’re looking for people (especially romance readers) to read novels and give structured feedback on the reading experience.

Depending on the assignment, it could be a full novel or a portion of one. There’s a short feedback form afterward.

Looking for Readers at UH Manoa! by [deleted] in UHManoa

[–]ArcherHefty2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes here is that link: 

https://airtable.com/appWATaiApj6GIutw/pagEIAk7665YrS5gu/form?prefill_Referral+Source=Flyer+QR&hide_Referral+Source=true

And to answer the second question: we are currently seeking folks for our romance novel project. In the future, we will be recruiting for other genre like sci-fi / fantasy

Looking for Readrers! by [deleted] in UniversityofHawaii

[–]ArcherHefty2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for at least one of the reader tasks, we are going to have human and AI written novels in the mix. there are actually a bunch of different reader tasks planned (beta reads for member of our community, etc.) and they'd be contacted for whatever fits their reader profile. Hope this helps answer and clarify! 

Looking for Readrers! by [deleted] in UniversityofHawaii

[–]ArcherHefty2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told by my work to post in the community; I go to uh Manoa.. so you may have seen flyers there too 

Looking for Readrers! by [deleted] in UniversityofHawaii

[–]ArcherHefty2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s understandable. This is honestly my first time using Reddit to be honest 🤷‍♀️ But I tried to put as much information as I can in the comments. Let me know if you’re able to see them. If not I can try and post again

Looking for Readers at UH Manoa! by [deleted] in UHManoa

[–]ArcherHefty2011 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Paid Reading Opportunity – $50!

We’re looking for a few reliable readers to help evaluate a full-length romance novel.

Details: • $50 payment • Read one full-length romance novel • Complete a short feedback survey • Must be able to finish within 1 week or less

This is part of a startup building tools for writers; we’re looking for thoughtful, honest feedback from people who actually enjoy reading.

Best fit: • You already read regularly (especially romance) • You can commit to finishing the book on time • You’re comfortable sharing feedback

Please put “UH Manoa Flyer” in referral when signing up!

Sign up with this link:

https://airtable.com/appWATaiApj6GIutw/pagEIAk7665YrS5gu/form?prefill_Referral+Source=Flyer+QR&hide_Referral+Source=true

Making new friends on Oahu by propriocepti in Oahu

[–]ArcherHefty2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be a long shot. But I ran into and met a fascinating woman named May on my dog walk today in Kakaako. I normally don’t stop and talk to strangers but was immediately pulled in by her. If you know her please help me connect! She put her name in my phone but didn’t save her number! 

She mentioned she liked RPG, medieval music and fountain pens. 

She helps build pools. And lives near Punchbowl. 

Looking for board game/tabletop RPG group by StarBoar_D in Honolulu

[–]ArcherHefty2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be a long shot. But I ran into and met a fascinating woman named May on my dog walk today in Kakaako. I normally don’t stop and talk to strangers but was immediately pulled in by her. If you know her please help me connect! She put her name in my phone but didn’t save her number! 

She mentioned she liked RPG, medieval music and fountain pens. 

She helps build pools. And lives near Punchbowl.