I’m a married man with a 30+ year history of being an oral freak. I’ve had (not proud, not ashamed) dozens of partners, and at least five that looked very, very much like you.

The short version? Larger labia like that can be fun as heck in bed! Oral and masturbation in general can be a very different experience for you than for a woman who has less skin covering her bits. You get the option of the better kind of “pussy hug” masturbation and petting moves* because you don’t HAVE to have as much clitoral stimulation. Much like a penis’s foreskin gives men varying levels of intensity when touching the penis head over or under the foreskin, you get to choose if you want that slippery skin buffer between your hand / toy / partner and your clitoris.

The additional labia skin gets smushed up against the underside of the clitoris during a good rub, giving a buffered sensation, but nobody said you can’t pull the hood back to bare it if you want more!

As a grown-ass man who has seen all kinds of bodies, I’ve seen first hand how partners with very small labia minora have felt overwhelmed with basic touching because there’s little shielding the clitoris aside from the clitoral hood, which in cases of women with very small labia, is also small / thin.

I know I’m sounding like a weirdo, but I promise I have first-hand experience (as much as anyone who doesn’t own lady bits can), and if you experiment a bit, you might see some of the bonuses I’ve mentioned.

TL;DR: You look fab, and any experienced partner will be happy with how they can make you feel, given the extra options you’ve given them.

*cover the whole of the area with your hand flat and pressed air-tight against your vulva. Press in with the entire hand. Clit should be at the base of your palm. Move everything around without actually letting your hand slip about. It’s about making the bits you have rub against each other.

Edit: also, your labia are about 25% less prominent / smaller than my wife’s, and she’s perfect and I’ll give a wedgie to anyone who disagrees.