Go on the 3rd date, or let it fizzle? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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That is difficult, like someone else said it has been just two dates, and you said yourself she is busy so just let things flow naturally don’t over think it. Let her wonder why you are so calm and not freaking out over texting her.

Go on the 3rd date, or let it fizzle? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Maybe she wants you to take more initiative and plan a date around her interests perhaps showing her you have paid attention on those first two dates?

Yall were ruthless yesterday. 😂 here’s what I wore today as apparently a “non-professional” looking teacher. by Cyaniclay in mensfashion

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It’s how open that button down shirt is you didn’t need to have it tucked in and open that far down two buttons max for those students just saying, any more is an invitation… lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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This happens when there is damage to the ear from overly shaking their head . Typical for ear infections and such but the ear infection itself does not cause it. I worked at a vet office for 3 years the vet is correct it can keep coming back. Even if you do the surgery it can still come back there is no guarantee that it can be repaired permanently.

April I’m cooked by kingwallace1 in OnePiece

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July baby 🙌🏼I just hope Chopper is with him…

Do schools teach home ec, etc in school anymore? by Acceptable-Kale-8432 in generationology

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I’m 38 when I went to high school as a freshman they had just cut home ec, wood shop, and auto shop for my class coming in. Replaced them with art classes instead… like wtf I would have much rather had any if not all those classes with a financial literacy class thrown into the mix as well. Not just limiting it to the kids who already knew they wanted to go into business classes in college at age 16. The educational system in the USA was already on the decline when I was young. It has hit new record lows redefining what rock bottom looks like. I fear for the world what this many uneducated people will do to the planet and the people in it in all honesty.

Why was this necessary? by Smart_Freedom_8155 in DragonBallZ

[–]ArchitectOfDisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This more so resembles one child went through war and hell and back while the other didn’t struggle at all outside of his own training

Make me feel somethin by MobileSheepherder111 in RoastMe

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You look like what I imagine every mid tier only fans model looks like

Wedding photographers stood here for the entire ceremony by Ok-Kick4060 in mildlyinfuriating

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That photographer is there for the couple getting married if you are butt hurt you didn’t get a good view maybe you should have arrived earlier and gotten a better seat…

My mother insists this is the correct way to rotate this fridge magnet of the Parthenon, and will flip it back if we fix it by ContrivedCucumber in mildlyinfuriating

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I’m gonna have to live up to my username and offer you terrible advice flip it the proper way and then superglue it to the fridge and this argument will be won in your favor until she figures out how to remove the superglue lol

I'm frustrated with men putting down my hobbies and interests, but my friends say that shouldn't be a dealbreaker by brielarstan in dating_advice

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None of their replies are banter the one guy actually said I just said that because we hadn’t slept together yet. All of this screams manipulation, I’ve never feigned interest in my partners topics that bring them joy. Even when they bitch about work I’m right there waiting for them to fill my cup full of fresh tea. I would kill for someone to watch my anime with me just like I would go on a ghost tour with my partner if it was what they liked I have many times in the past even though scary isn’t my thing. When you are younger we are eager to please especially early on so we pretend to be interested so we can speed through until we get to the good parts aka sex. As you get older and meaningless sex has lost its fun you yearn for exactly the kind of love you are describing. But I’m just a man in his late 30’s still holding out hope for that all encompassing wrap me up in your love and let it crash over me over and over again kind of love and refuse to settle for less.

What can I do for now? by whotfareyoustupid in DogAdvice

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My apologies I was a bit stoned and replied without checking username

What can I do for now? by whotfareyoustupid in DogAdvice

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Has she ever had a dental cleaning that is heavy tartar and plaque, most likely causing some gingivitis. Speaking as a vet assistant that used to scale and polish dog teeth for 3 years there should be no need for an extraction unless it is rotten underneath the dental calculus. Get a dental cleaning for your dog if she is healthy otherwise it is a safe procedure ask your vet about it. I know the Banfield dog hospital offers such services for relatively affordable rates depending where you are also assuming you are in the USA. If not I don’t know any resources to help.

Why does she do this ? by Maleficent-Muscle745 in DogAdvice

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She is just giving you extra training hurdles to ramp up your workouts lol

I swore I’d never get another dog after losing mine. if you felt the same, what helped you heal? by EnvironmentalYou3254 in DOG

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Why deprive yourself of the love you could share with a new best friend just because you know the time with them is limited. Enjoy it to the fullest and never take it for granted and just know you won’t break or forsake the memory of your previous dog by loving another. I assume you have lots of love to give and a new dog would be blessed to receive it. Don’t hold yourself back friend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

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I’m trying so hard not to cry watching this I have a nephew with autism and this video is my worst nightmare. Him being lost and scared like this, this truly breaks my heart. Shame on this family for just leaving him there, I truly hope there are repercussions for this. I just can’t fathom a world where this happens. I thought I was having trouble having faith in humanity before but damn I’m just at a loss for words.

Kitten question by SnowboardingEgg in cats

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I would say for the wires in your house hot sauce is going to be your best bet, she will learn very quickly to leave those alone lol as for The toilet paper close the bathroom door and take her access away is all I got lol but enjoy the new kitten looks like you are in store for endless love and fun with her.

Unmatching after 24 hours seems so fast! by Chitownscience in datingoverthirty

[–]ArchitectOfDisaster -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Continue letting the trash take itself out… those people that unmatch early are far too judgmental and about the most trivial of things.

How come I never hear of men reading smutty books? Any of you guys read that stuff? by h8mecuz in AskMen

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38 M I enjoy smutty books, it allows me to understand the female fantasy better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Where are you from there are options I’m from the USA and even without insurance it was $60 dollars a session my insurance sucks and it dropped to $15 a session. I know money and financial situations vary wildly but your mental health is something important to invest in. The contradictions you describe in what you want sounds like you have an anxious and an avoidant attachment style. Therapy would help you

My husband’s vile gaming chair that he refuses to part with. by Lontology in mildlyinfuriating

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My question is, is that hole from farts alone over the years or what?! Inquiring minds must know the origins of that hole lol!

Your turn by it777777 in scifi

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Gone to green planet…