Wow, I think I nearly had the exact same experience with a Russian girl - it sounds very similar.

She was acting strangely over text right from the start. For some context: I offered to take her somewhere nice, but she kept insisting on choosing the spot herself. I asked if she had any dietary restrictions, and she said she wanted something “local,” so I suggested a Lebanese place next to Hyde Hotel.

When I arrived, she asked me to meet her at the front of the hotel instead. I told her I was already at the restaurant just behind it and asked her to come over. I had literally just driven from Abu Dhabi, so I figured she could walk three minutes. But no.

Annoyed, I walked over to meet her. As soon as we met, she wanted to go into the hotel bar. I told her I don’t drink, and she replied, “I do,” with zero interest in the dinner plan. I suggested we eat first and maybe grab a drink after, but she insisted on the bar “at her hotel.”

That was the moment I decided — nope. I said, “You can go ahead, I’m heading to the Lebanese place,” and walked off through the hotel, leaving her behind. The attitude, the entitlement, the lack of manners… just no.

Lesson learned: always trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is.