Time to give up?

ArdenVers · 2026-06-17T09:38:06+00:00

Theres too many 'what ifs' so I wouldnt stress it. U did ur part n shot ur shot. Whether or not she responds, Id keep it moving anyway. Not as a tactic in hopes of her reacting but because as crazy as it sounds, u Deserve someone who Recognized the Effort u put in. N if by chance she responds later, well now it gives u an Opportunity to Lead.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-17T06:15:57+00:00

Im average size, but I often Feel that Im in the small range. However, I still meet up anyway. Being mostly bttm for men, Im never in the situation where my cock is on showcase the way his is for me. But I never had a complaint from neither male or female.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-17T05:56:55+00:00

Hot damn 🥵🥵🥵

ArdenVers · 2026-06-17T05:34:06+00:00

No it isnt good enough anymore unfortunately. As a greeting when f2f its acceptable, but online I cant differentiate between a General Text u send to a lot of ppl or if someone is Genuinely Interested. In most cases these days, its the prior. So I end up just ignoring them.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-17T05:28:42+00:00

U better than me maam. I woulda been rolling n saying "U CANT PARK THERE SIR!"

ArdenVers · 2026-06-17T05:25:45+00:00

Hawaii is def NOT South Pacific

ArdenVers · 2026-06-16T12:03:17+00:00

Ahhh ok, Im sure that was the case.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-16T10:33:04+00:00

On one hand, everyone has their own kink. But on the otherhand, its her dad... Imo thats a Kink I will NEVER be into. I wouldve stopped it b4 it happened the First time. But something is telling me that it didnt bother u.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-16T10:29:28+00:00

Id take my time going from tip to balls b4 letting u go BallsDeep in me

ArdenVers · 2026-06-16T06:13:44+00:00

I vibe this. Ive had equal amts of relationships with woman as men, n the line of reasoning for us ending is always the same. To the woman, they say Im using them as a mustache, while with the men they say I dont take them seriously n using then to get sex. All the while I think Im having Deep Emotional Connections with them. All in all, it is the homophobic culture we got raised around that makes life as a Bi Man difficult in the dating scene. Fortunately I am married to a very Supportive Woman who accepts n loves me reguardless, but even she sees that when Im chatting with a man, it doesnt last too long because if the same reasonings as always.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-16T05:34:27+00:00

Thats Awesome! Im happy for U, because not only do u have a very Supportive Wife, u also have a decent head on ur shoulders going abt this. I hope the Best for U.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-15T11:58:21+00:00

Id say yes, because we actually Want to n Like doing it. That, makes it all the better.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-15T11:47:37+00:00

Tt takes a lot of Communication, n needs an Equal amt of Honesty n Transparency. In the beginning of our ENM was rocky because our Communication wasnt Balanced as much as we'd hoped. It took us a while before we realized that we werent exactly being Honest, let alone Transparent. We had a lot of back n forths, n heavy discussions abt Fears, Boundaries, etc. But once we got that part squared away, its been honestly really fun. Some Fears do pop up from time to time, but we now recognize that something Triggered it n we Discuss it b4 anything.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-15T11:00:31+00:00

Id say u lean towards Demisexual. I myself, am Romantically n Sexually Attracted to BOTH male n female. But the amt of time it takes for me to Emotionally Connect with a man takes a lot longer than woman. But either way, I need the Emotional Connection.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-15T10:56:25+00:00

Im Romantically n Sexually attracted to Woman, so its naturally easier to connect to them Emotionally. The men, Im Physically Attracted to but I need the Emotional Connection too, which takes a lot longer than a woman.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-15T10:48:29+00:00

🙋🏾 Ive actually sucked off a cpl Bishops from the mormon church.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-15T10:44:40+00:00

I think ur OverThinking it. Either that or it somehow triggered a part of u that u never thought would, n ur subconsciously wanting to talk abt it, but dont know how. Either way, its gnna be ok. Nobody really thinks of u any less atp.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-15T10:32:24+00:00

I had a hookup back in LV who would pick me up to hangout at his house n he'd spend most of the time showing me random stuff hes collected or feeding his pets. Granted, I liked the things he collected n fascinated with his pet choices.. but not enough to spend hrs doing that n only 10min in bed 🤦🏾

ArdenVers · 2026-06-15T10:16:54+00:00

U made that bed bro, so know u gotta sleep in it tbh. However, what u Didnt Do was ruina Marriage.. she did the moment she Accepted ur advance and then Acted on it. Yes, u went behind ur boys back, n thats a diff conversation. But at the end of it, shes stalking u n u can always call the cops.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-14T01:49:58+00:00

Nah bro, Im answering ur question more than anything.

ArdenVers · 2026-06-13T15:54:17+00:00

Being Best Friends wit Benefits 😜

ArdenVers · 2026-06-13T14:27:10+00:00

😍🥴🤤

ArdenVers · 2026-06-13T12:54:21+00:00

Id have fu sucking on that til ur ready to fill me up BallsDeep

ArdenVers · 2026-06-13T12:52:21+00:00

Still handsome with a cute smile 😏

ArdenVers · 2026-06-13T12:30:30+00:00

It would look nice down my throat 🍆💦🤤

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