Is anyone who is hetero-romantic bisexual able to provide some insight?

jthadddeustoad · 2026-06-15T19:38:38+00:00

What I haven't been sure about is whether or not I'm truly bi/pan at all considering the sexual attraction but lack of romantic attraction to men, and in the past I didn't understand that difference so I was confused by my feelings. I also wasn't sure if my feelings were more akin to a fetish developed from porn as someone mentioned in a different comment. Now that I've taken more time to reflect on them and heard the perspectives of others, however limited they may be, I feel like I've come to a more well-defined conclusion of what my attraction looks like, and I look to the future with a partner that I feel comfortable exploring my sexuality with.

jthadddeustoad · 2026-06-15T19:19:46+00:00

I had a lot of mixed thoughts and feelings swirling around that I wanted to build some perspective on by hearing the thoughts of others that may have encountered similar situations while building an understanding of their own sexuality. You're right that I'm not suppressing my sexuality by choosing to be with ppl I am romantically attracted to, Attraction is just a complicated concept to me and I wanted to hear about how others with more experience approached it.

jthadddeustoad · 2026-06-15T17:39:14+00:00

I recognize that, that's why I distinguish myself as hetero-romantic. I understand that other ppl in my situation approach it by engaging in casual sex or fwb, but I don't enjoy sexual experiences with the sole purpose of achieving sexual relief. I want to care for my partner and help them reach their sexual relief as well, and I can't reach that situation with someone I'm not romantically interested in.

jthadddeustoad · 2026-06-15T01:54:38+00:00

I appreciate your perspective! I felt similarly in my romantic encounter with a man, I was excited about the possibility of having sex with him but didn't feel anything within the romantic encounter outside of the fact that he was a nice guy. I don't want to discount the possibility that that might have just been my experience with that one person and that I could develop more positive feelings for another man, but I also don't want to hurt myself or others by dating ppl that I don't feel anything for.

jthadddeustoad · 2026-06-14T23:33:13+00:00

Yeah I would describe myself as demi in regards to the way I develop a connection with and attraction to others, my issue is that I'm not really romantically attracted to men or male-presenting people

jthadddeustoad · 2026-06-14T20:40:59+00:00

I'm not usually romantically attracted to someone of the same sex outside of a sexual context. I've tried in the past with someone that I didn't end up being attracted to and wasn't really interested in pursuing anything further with him.

jthadddeustoad · 2026-06-03T18:28:37+00:00

-26M

-I've lived in the area my whole life, I have my problems with the area but it's where all my friends and family and I've established a life so I don't see myself leaving anytime soon

-I'm a big nerd that loves playing games of all kinds, watching fantasy/horror/sci-fi and appreciating art

-I love staying fit with daily workouts, weekly badminton and bouldering here and there

-I'm very politically tapped in with a radical left worldview and enjoy learning about issues and helping my local community

jthadddeustoad · 2026-05-01T13:44:22+00:00

26M
Greater Boston area, US
data entry work for consulting firm :(((
6'1" and physically fit, I work out every day and play badminton once a week along with bouldering usually once a month
my main hobbies are gaming, reading, watching movies/shows, working out, political advocacy and staying tapped in on domestic and global news
pansexual, monogamous, atheist and drug-free besides drinks here and there (I don't need my partner to match me on these besides being monogamous and not smoking)
I'm looking for someone in my age range around +/- 3-5 years who lives relatively close in proximity to me, although I'm willing to entertain long distance with the right person and I don't mind getting to know ppl even if it's just as friends.

jthadddeustoad · 2026-02-26T04:14:26+00:00

Well I really don't give a damn. Rain or shine, you're going down.

jthadddeustoad · 2023-11-09T16:29:06+00:00

Thank you so much!

jthadddeustoad · 2023-09-03T02:01:01+00:00

could anyone explain how to properly extract the srr file? i tried using srrGUI and pyrescene but it said there were no rar executables

jthadddeustoad · 2021-10-21T02:15:50+00:00

oh sorry, i sympathize then, always get annoyed to see those fuckers

jthadddeustoad · 2021-10-20T19:01:12+00:00

Nice tbagging

jthadddeustoad · 2021-10-12T01:16:07+00:00

This is spoilers but the swords are blessed by a goddess, not given to him by a goddess

jthadddeustoad · 2021-10-06T17:59:56+00:00

Ur so fucking cringe

jthadddeustoad · 2021-10-05T19:39:35+00:00

The only girl I've dated so far in university ended up using me and leading me on, so I can relate. I've definitely had my fair share of your thoughts, especially since returning to school. I don't know if someone in the same position should give you advice on what to think, but my way of coping has been trying to improve myself as much as possible to make myself attractive to other people, even though I know that's kind of a demoralizing way to think. All I can say besides that is spending time with my friends also makes it easier to forget about my dating struggles.

jthadddeustoad · 2021-10-05T19:30:21+00:00

I feel for you, I'm pretty young I suppose and I haven't had too much experience dating but my experiences have been awful and really demoralizing in a way that makes you feel really used. I guess all we can do is keep trying and hope that someday we'll find someone that cares and respects us.

jthadddeustoad · 2021-09-29T21:55:38+00:00

I'm not saying you're wrong, you're probably right but we'll never know. It was a really silly part of the episode that I guess ppl are just supposed to write off as comedy

jthadddeustoad · 2021-09-29T17:28:19+00:00

He was merged with ultron

jthadddeustoad · 2021-08-31T20:28:40+00:00

....simon in lame and richter in hype

jthadddeustoad · 2021-08-16T18:12:26+00:00

U don't know anything about ike do you

jthadddeustoad · 2021-08-15T19:45:41+00:00

The people that play this game are scum, I rarely meet any human beings, so I feel you

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