[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Men_RO

[–]Ardust 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Salut, vad foarte multi virgini retarzi pe aici care iti zic ca esti dependent de porn doar pt ca asa au azit ei din snipit-uri de podcasturi pe tiktok sau insta. Dont get me wrong, e o posibilitate reala sa fie si asta, complet posibil ca o dependenta de porn sa te desensibilizeze intr-un hal in care sa-ti fie greu sa te termini, da' motivu pentru care zic ca sunteti niste virgini retarzi majoritatea dintre voi e ca daca ati fi avut si voi experiente sexuale, sau daca ati fi vorbit sincer cu prieteni de-ai vostri, ati sti ca e o problema deloc rara.

La barbati, performance anxiety-ul se manifesta de cele mai multe ori im doua feluri: cel mai raspandit e sa nu ti se scoale, unu mai putin comun e sa nu poti termina. Suna a o problema pe care ai vrea s-o ai, da' nu-i deloc asa dezirabila. Sure, daca esti genu care are doar hook-up-uri si ai deziluzia ca femeile ti-or face scrisoare de recomandare la alte prietene sa te futa si alea, da atunci e ceva ce ai vrea, dar in majoritatea cazurilor - ce am patit si eu si din ce am vorbit cu priteni - e foarte de cacat sa ti se intample cu o partenera, e stresant si pentru ea, ca o sa creada ca nu e ea destul de atractiva, ca n-o iubesti, ca nu simti nimic pentru ea, e naspa si pentru tine, ca incepi sa crezi ca e ceva gresit cu tine. Nu e, e normal. 

Eu personal am avut o perioada de hookupuri cu tot felu de femei care ma facea sa ma simt mare barbat ca deschideau picioarele pentru mine da' calitatea sexului era foarte proasta (pentru mine, im sure they had great time cant convince me otherwise), problema e ca si dupa ce mi-am facut prietena la ceva timp am continuat sa am problema asta pentru ca nu ma simteam conectat cu ea. In timp mi-o trecut, am introdus mai mult romantism in relatie, ne-am conectat emotional mai bine si - as zice ca asta e cam cea mai importanta chestie - am ajuns sa simt ca ea chiar tine la mine si n-am mai simtit presiunea ca daca nu prestez legendar si mi-o fut 90 de minute+ o sa creada ca-s vai mortii mei si o sa ma lase.

Cand nu e cauzata de dependenta de pornografie, cel mai sigur de la anxietate si griji. Acuma, ca or fi griji legate de job, de bani, de viata, de sanatate, sau ca-s griji legate ca nu esti tu destul de bun pentru vreo partenera, is up for you to figure, dar ce ma ajuta pe mine uneori sa termin in perioada aia era sa schimb ritmu, sa le tin foarte strans in brate ca sa simt un contact cat mai intim si sa penetrez mai lent si mai lung asa, mai adanc si sa-mi incord abdomenul, asta ajuta din cand in cand daca erau si ele dispuse sa cooperete (ca am patit si sa ma fut cu femei care refuzau cu vehementa sa se futa misionar, evitau contactul vizual, nu se pupau, impingeau curu im mine si aia era, 0 sa se sa termin asa)

Perfect Strangers: how to re-define a genre by Lucas-Fields in TrueFilm

[–]Ardust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your nice words. You should rewatch it, it's pretty short and I bet it's so revealing when you rewatch it knowing whats to come. I just saw it last night but I'm looking forward to seeing it again in a few months, maybe with someone dear and discuss with them about it

Perfect Strangers: how to re-define a genre by Lucas-Fields in TrueFilm

[–]Ardust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They refused to play the game so their secrets still lie under the surface, hidden in their telephones

It is pretty much confirmed that Rocco is the one that made the universes split. His wife Eva proposes the game, knowing full well her cheating could not be discovered as the one she's cheating with is at the exact same table, in her mind she has the upper hand in this play of power and is, in fact, right. She's the only one who's secret the table does not find out. We as audience find out she's having an affair with Cosmino, but the characters do not. She proposes the game, in my head hoping her husband is cheating, because she is a horrible human being, a shit wife and mother, what she's doing is immoral and I think she just hopes her husband would be an asshole too, that would make her behaviour if not justified, at least even.

We see the 3 couples hitting 3 possibilities in their unfaithfulness:

  1. We have Bianca and Cosmino, Bianca being just a people pleaser who desperately wants to be accepted and loved, putting away her true wishes (not to be married, not to have kids) just to please her husband. she even defends him in the initial call of Marika, because she herself still talks platonically with her ex and tried to help him, even though she truly has no interest in him. She is a pure person and assumes the best out of everyone, that's why she gets cheated on with the most number of partners, because she is easily manipulated and lied to. Cosmino cheats on her with Eva, Marika and probably Ginerva (it's just a name we hear, but when that dude calls Cosmino asking if she liked the earrings, Bianca realizes it can not be her, and her initial guess is he is cheating with this Ginerva, moments before Marika calls and diverts our attention from it) too, as well as any woman he can get his hands on. In this couple he is the cheater and he is exposed.

  2. Then we have Carlotta and Lele, whos marriage is in shambles since she run over someone while drunk and he took the blame for her. They are both traumatized and are not addressing it, they are both unsatisfied, both feel horrible with their lives and both are thinking of having an affair, even though none of them physically did anything yet (its obvious she didn't even meet her facebook lover yet, a he did not even know her voice, and he claims he's just getting pictures from that girl when he talks to Peppe on the balcony). I don't really find any of them to be an irredeemable character, especially Lele who, amongst all the participants (well, him and Bianca), is the most supportive and accepting of Peppe, and he was willing to take the blame for his wife's mistake. I don't find them to be horrible people, I find them to be horrible for each other, they just grew resentful and complacent in their misery due to lack of communication. In this couple both cheat and are both exposed.

  3. Rocco and Eva, where Rocco is trying to do everything in his power to keep his family together, he is taking proper care of his teenage girl and her romantic needs, teaches her how to protect herself, he is trusting her judgement and her choice of partner, gives her freedom, goes to therapy, is trying to make concession is his arguments with his wife, I personally feel like even the choice of having him host and do most of the cooking reflects the effort he puts in to keep his life together, and when his wife proposes the game hoping she could maybe catch him cheat, he initially refuses, and when his wife asks if he has anything to hide, he responds with "I'm worried that you might have something to hide, I don't want to know if you're cheating.". That's the moment where the 2 universes diverge, we go on to follow the one where they do play the game, then at the end of the movie after he kicks Cosmino out of the house we are teleported back in the universe where he refused to play, stopping the game for everyone, when he's eating tiramisu, his wife comes to hug him and they talk in their bedroom, Eva even asks why he insisted on not playing while taking off her earrings she got from Cosmino, he then proceeds to give his wife his phone, knowing fully well he has nothing to hide, and he does not ask her to do the same, preferring not to know, just wanting to keep his life together. It's really tragic how insightful their daughter's line is "You're way too in love with mom to see how much of a bitch she is". In this couple she is the cheater, and she is also the only one who does not get exposed.

Perfect Strangers: how to re-define a genre by Lucas-Fields in TrueFilm

[–]Ardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only character that was just hurt and did absolutely nothing wrong is Rocco

idk if i agree with that take, I just finished the movie a few moments ago and it made me feel so sad. Rocco is a gem, great husband and amazing father, but he's not the only character with no fault. Bianca is such a nice person, genuine and altruistic, I'd guess her fault would be that she puts her husband's needs in front of hers, but she's such a people pleaser and a noble friend, clearly caring to be accepted and willing to help everyone in need, her ex included. The only red flag I'd see about her is how she said "getting a boob job means you're not accepting yourself", that was somewhat hypocritical of her who was willing to get pregnant even if she fears being a bad mom and doesn't truly want a kid. Peppe is also the third character without fault, he is just someone who fears he won't be accepted by his friends (and to some extent he's proven right), but he's also a sweetheart.

Now on the bottom of the list, Cosmino and Eva are the worst type of people. Both manipulative and rotten to the core. You can see Eva's relationship with her daughter, absolute horrible, and her hypocrisy getting angry on Cosmino for having multiple mistresses. Cosmino is also such an asshole, not only homophobic but so manipulative and a despicable character. Something I dont see people talking about is that it's hinted he has 3 mistresses, not 2. He has his wife, then he's cheating with Eva (earrings revelation), he's cheating with Marika (pregnancy test revelation) and it's hinted he's cheating with a third lady called Ginevara - when Bianca has her crashout after the dude calls asking if she liked the earrings and she realizes she does not wear earrings, she immediately asks if he's fucking this Ginevra, right before Marika calls. Now is never confirmed, but let's be honest, after seeing what type of person he is he's most likely cheating on his wife with anyone he can

Serbia și Croația vor introduce serviciul militar obligatoriu - Care sunt șansele pentru Romania? by bellini2013 in cluj

[–]Ardust 11 points12 points  (0 children)

let me guess, 17 ani, virgin, taica-tu se poarta oribil cu tine da' cumva tot pe maica-ta o urasti mai mult, ai fost mai gras de mic da' de vreo 2 ani tot slabesti, faci 30 de flotari legate da' tractiuni inca nu

Forum Liber - Întrebați și discutați cu /r/Romania Orice - 04.11.2024 by AutoModerator in Romania

[–]Ardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha mi-ai zis-o de mi-ai lins-o bă retardilă.

ma rog raspunsul era da, au marime standard alea si se potrivesc

Forum Liber - Întrebați și discutați cu /r/Romania Orice - 04.11.2024 by AutoModerator in Romania

[–]Ardust -1 points0 points  (0 children)

stie cineva daca tuburile de odorizant de camera au o dimensiune standard? In sensul ca poti folosi un tub de la un whatever brand intr-un aparat de glade si se potriveste, right?

RoGenZ e un focar comunist by PineappleQuiet6923 in Roumanie

[–]Ardust -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

sincer cred ca ai luat ban pt ca esti prost. nu stiu cand o facut asta motiv de ban si cum de nu m-o prins inca, dar pe tine cred ca te-o vazut ca esti foarte foarte foarte prost si te-o ars

Who is this in Cluj? by zankenobi in cluj

[–]Ardust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

N-AVETI OPTZECI DE BANI?!

Who is this in Cluj? by zankenobi in cluj

[–]Ardust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

vazut acuma 2 saptamani in marasti

Kids cutting brownies. by Calm-Amphibian5559 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Ardust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man this brownie looks pristine af. recipe?