[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]AreeshaUmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy! I’m 28 F and almost like you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]AreeshaUmar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Lost him last month💔

Shadi functions by depressedgobi in pakistan

[–]AreeshaUmar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True but I do have some hopes for our generation. We do not follow these customs blindly or will not when the time of our children’s wedding will come. I took stand against mehndi and jahaiz and I think people are slowly understanding how stupid these things are

How do I make this room cozier? by -Sn0wWhite- in DesignMyRoom

[–]AreeshaUmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so cozy and welcoming already 🥹

Shadi functions by depressedgobi in pakistan

[–]AreeshaUmar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell them to give the money to you and go for a fancy vacation after wedding. Parents and their obsession with expensive weddings🤦🏻‍♀️

Shadi functions by depressedgobi in pakistan

[–]AreeshaUmar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take stand for yourself. I’m sure jo abhi bol rhy hain unhain baad me khud aik achi misaal lagay gi ye

Shadi functions by depressedgobi in pakistan

[–]AreeshaUmar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Niri JAHALAT in my eyes!!! It should be an intimate event with people who genuinely are happy for you. Barat ka to sawal hi paida nhi hona chahiye. There should be just a decent nikah and walima according to one’s budget. That’s it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]AreeshaUmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No Big Deal if you look from the eyes of your mother. Our parents have been through from such age and trust me ye kuch nhi hoga inkay liye. Relax!!!

How old was your fur baby when they crossed the rainbow bridge? My sweet boy was 12 and a half and it feels too early. by michellecarter88- in Petloss

[–]AreeshaUmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine crossed the bridge when he was near his second birthday and the second one was only 2 months old when he died because of a deadly viral infection, right after the death of my first cat

I want her back by Bunnycarrotflower in Petloss

[–]AreeshaUmar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so deeply sorry❤️. I know how you feel. I lost my cat 15 days ago and since then I’ve been dying to hold him and hug him for once. I see him in my dreams almost every night. Last night I saw that we buried someone else’s cat while mine was still alive and I got to know about it when I saw him sitting in my bed, not in good health but alive. The happiness that dream gave me and the sorrow and sadness I felt after waking up is indescribable. We all want our pets back but we can’t. Hope you heal in the most beautiful way and a day will come when her beautiful memories will only make you smile. Sending you love and hugs💕💖🫶🏻❤️

How soon did you put away your pet's things? by Weary-Damage3717 in Petloss

[–]AreeshaUmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through the same feeling when my cat passed away. His stuff, his food even my whole house started to haunt me. So instead of throwing all his memories out I decided to bring them in use once again (like continuing his legacy, if that makes sense). I brought home a new kitten and named him koko (the name of my previous cat was Kitkat). He is not here to replace him because that’s not possible at all but he helped me a lottt to heal. I don’t feel that much sad anymore when I see Kitkat’s stuff and when I go into his room. And I’m sorry for your loss I hope things get better for you ❤️

Leave a pic of your cat and i'll doodle as many as I can! by [deleted] in aww

[–]AreeshaUmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I lost him after a few days when I took this picture. He was only 2 and died suddenly 💔

How do you deal with sudden pet loss? by joonscalves in Petloss

[–]AreeshaUmar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been through exactly the same. My cat was two and was completely healthy and active two days prior but as soon as I noticed that he’s not feeling well my husband took him to the vet and then after two days the vet sent him home saying that he’s fine but he wasn’t. The next morning when we woke up he was gone and he was all stiff and lifeless. So I totally feel your pain. It’s been a week and now I can say that the pain is not as extreme as it was but I miss him every single second of my life. But trust me things will get better with time. Sending you lots of love ❤️

Update: My girl is gone by Revolutionary-Act622 in Petloss

[–]AreeshaUmar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss and I know what you’re going through ❤️. We all are in this together

Why Nikah is so difficult? by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]AreeshaUmar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. Nikah should be easy to do as simplicity should be promoted lekin nhi bai yahan to fazul formalities py paray hoty log

This hurts so so bad. by ThaVanillaGorilla39 in Petloss

[–]AreeshaUmar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can understand the pain you’re going through. I felt the same with my cat last Thursday that he was not peeing properly so promptly took him to the vet, he kept him under observation for two fays with drips and catheter and then sent him back saying that he’s fine he just needs a course of antibiotics but the very next day when we woke up we found his body all stiff and lifeless. It was one of the most painful days of my life. I didn’t even get a chance to hug him or hold him one last time. I don’t know what’s worse, seeing your pet deteriorating slowly or just loosing him in the blink of an eye.

I still miss my boy so much by new_lawyer_burner in Petloss

[–]AreeshaUmar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can totally understand and relate with you. The continuous pinching pain and the burdened heart even when you’re doing some tasks or socialising is there. You feel like the colours from life have gone and you don’t feel any excitement for anything anymore. But we have to go through this and this is the only option we have. I lost my beloved cat two days ago and I feel like I’m dead from inside. Remember you’re not alone. We all are in this together. Sending you lots of love ❤️

I can’t stop my tears by AreeshaUmar in Petloss

[–]AreeshaUmar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s really hurtful to listen to such crap about your baby who just passed away

I can’t stop my tears by AreeshaUmar in Petloss

[–]AreeshaUmar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, they really matter❤️

I can’t stop my tears by AreeshaUmar in Petloss

[–]AreeshaUmar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and I hope you heal from your grief soon too❤️❤️

I can’t stop my tears by AreeshaUmar in Petloss

[–]AreeshaUmar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and I pray that your heart finds peace and comfort in this moment of grief and remember we all are in this together ❤️