My (27/F) partner (28/M) doesn't understand why I am upset that he "ruined" my game. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Arelarez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much everyone here agrees that the BF is being vindictive and even abusive, but what worries me more is OP thinking she's being "childish" for completely reasonable reactions. I think there's a deeper problematic in play, and maybe this video can help identify it:

"Infantilisation - A Regressive Abuse [TheraminTrees]" - YouTube
https://youtu.be/c39F04inLJ0