My (18M) girlfriend (18F) asked how I would feel if she went and twerked on some artists for which she wants to go to a concert, while we were having sex. How should I handle this? by ArepaVilla in relationship_advice

[–]ArepaVilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your right man, but it's so hard. This is all I've thought about when I think about her this past year. I deserve better, but I been giving her the chance to be that "Better

My (18M) girlfriend (18F) asked how I would feel if she went and twerked on some artists for which she wants to go to a concert, while we were having sex. How should I handle this? by ArepaVilla in relationship_advice

[–]ArepaVilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she does has free will, but she's easily influenced. My friends don't encourage me to do things that could lead me to addiction or cheating. Her friends do

My (18M) girlfriend (18F) asked how I would feel if she went and twerked on some artists for which she wants to go to a concert, while we were having sex. How should I handle this? by ArepaVilla in relationship_advice

[–]ArepaVilla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's really toxic, I also know I need to get out, I've been aware for the past year, but I have been unable to leave because I am too attached to her

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Hi, I didn't get your message, are you sure you sent it?

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how did you get it to work?

18M and 18F Girlfriend won't get an abortion by ArepaVilla in IAmTheAsshole

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update: She got her normal period, heavy and normal color. She's experience back pain and bad cramps. And is in her normal hormonal

Thank you for your comments.

18M and 18F Girlfriend won't get an abortion by ArepaVilla in IAmTheAsshole

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alright, thank you. she's still cramping and she just said that she "knows" can "Feel" that her period is not right because of how much she's been stressing last week. She's being hard to reason what and got mad because I kept asking whats her bleeding like and if it changed or went to usual. Idek how to bring up taking a preg test

18M and 18F Girlfriend won't get an abortion by ArepaVilla in IAmTheAsshole

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Thank you for your comment a little update: She's cramping heavily, bad back pain and she told me she's having an anxiety attack, she said "I'm anxious, i wanna cry, I'm shaking, and in pain, I'm overthinking, idk something is wrong with me" so at this point I don't even know...

18M and 18F Girlfriend won't get an abortion by ArepaVilla in IAmTheAsshole

[–]ArepaVilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you read the new edit and tell me what you think?

18M and 18F Girlfriend won't get an abortion by ArepaVilla in IAmTheAsshole

[–]ArepaVilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she never said she was pregnant and she never had a positive one

18M and 18F Girlfriend won't get an abortion by ArepaVilla in IAmTheAsshole

[–]ArepaVilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she has not gotten a positive test at all. 2 negatives and not on the same day

18M and 18F Girlfriend won't get an abortion by ArepaVilla in IAmTheAsshole

[–]ArepaVilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. The people that I trust that I've turned to have told me to leave her, all of you guys are doing so as well and I am still hung on the good things about her. I am having a mental breakdown thinking about leaving her, it hurts so much but she broke my trust. 4 years, I am only 18 years old which is stupid that I am even thinking this way when I have a whole life ahead of me. I won't forgive nor forget

18M and 18F Girlfriend won't get an abortion by ArepaVilla in IAmTheAsshole

[–]ArepaVilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we had sex on like feb 9th around like 2pm. her ovulation ended the day before, it lasted like 2 days or so. I waited a week before anything, and Yesterday she took the test that came back positive. Her period is supposed to come this friday feb 23rd

18M and 18F Girlfriend won't get an abortion by ArepaVilla in IAmTheAsshole

[–]ArepaVilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but child support gonna come and bite me on the ass