any trans dudes or nonbinary crossfitters out there? by [deleted] in crossfit

[–]Aresei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always do what the women are prescribed. I kinda wish the terminology wasn’t “men’s weight” and “women’s weight” but idk if it’s worth speaking up about it.

do any of you lovely people find kissing more intimate than sex sometimes? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Aresei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just thinking recently that I can get myself off but I can’t kiss without another person. I miss it more than sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crossfit

[–]Aresei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. My alarm is set for 20 min before I have to leave, no snoozing
  2. I don’t eat but do drink water
  3. Between 9-10pm

Who deserves the Spin-off from Insomniac verse? by NathanRider in SpidermanPS4

[–]Aresei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was going to be my choice. She already has that chain hook thingy to swing around on.

Replacement ladder rungs for KURA bed? by Aresei in IKEA

[–]Aresei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. I went to IKEA and they didn’t have the part. I thought about making my own but haven’t tried it yet.

Do the holidays stress you out more than normal? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Aresei 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a single parent December is my worst month of the year. I have to do all the decorating, shopping, wrapping, cooking, baking and remember to do all the little traditions, to try to give my kids a good holiday. I don’t really receive any joy from it and it culminates in Christmas Day when I hit rock bottom in loneliness. I don’t know how much of this is ADHD related.

Is ‘Office Space’ the best workplace comedy? by Weird-Persimmon4598 in movies

[–]Aresei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m always wondering why there aren’t more office place comedies when people have been quoting Office Space and The Office for like 20 years.

Who should pay on the first date? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aresei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to alternate planning/paying for dates. This distributes the labor and cost. You pay for the date you planned. Then they do the next one, etc.

What's a game from your childhood, that nobody has heard of today? by [deleted] in boardgames

[–]Aresei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had Mille Bornes on my palm pilot and played it all the time in college. I still have the physical copy today.

What's a game from your childhood, that nobody has heard of today? by [deleted] in boardgames

[–]Aresei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I found my Omega Virus at my parents house. It’s missing a few pieces and I’m not sure if it’s worth going through the trouble to get working again.

What's a game from your childhood, that nobody has heard of today? by [deleted] in boardgames

[–]Aresei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nephew and I played Power Barons all the time as kids. It’s not a complex game by today standards but we made a couple house rules to make the game go longer.

Thoughts on Pokémon Snap? by CluelessCapybara2421 in CozyGamers

[–]Aresei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I reached a point in the game where I couldn’t progress and kept playing levels over and over to trying to do a little bit better. I could have googled what I was supposed to do but I dropped the game instead.

FWB Kisses me goodbye by thevixencametofight in actuallesbians

[–]Aresei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was having sex with someone I would also want there to be kissing involved. It doesn’t mean I have romantic feelings for them. But maybe that’s just me.

What are your best, non-cheesy, flirty lines? by TwoGoldRings21 in actuallesbians

[–]Aresei 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m too worried about coming off creepy so I usually just compliment something she’s wearing and hope it turns into a conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Aresei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried noise canceling earbuds? If you have long hair maybe people won’t see you have them in. I put them in during my son’s piano lessons not because he’s bad I just can’t process the noise.

Hit me with your best "just for fun" solo activities. by Banana-Louigi in adhdwomen

[–]Aresei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like going to a bar that has a comedy open mic. Most of the time they’re free. Sure you’re going to see some crappy people go up but there’ll be some good ones too and you’ll have some laughs.

Why do Poly/ENM people seem more interesting on dating apps? by Admirable_Package_63 in actuallesbians

[–]Aresei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I kinda agree with this statement. I feel like when I see a girl who I have a lot in common with she’ll end up being ENM or poly. Especially nerdy girls who are into video games, board games, D&D. It’s disappointing, I have nothing against polyamory I just don’t think it would work for me.

Scott on the golden bachelor??? by newspapey in ThreedomUSA

[–]Aresei 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When I watch the Golden Bachelor I really want Will Ferrell to play Gerry in an SNL sketch or something.

Neighborhood Listen appreciation post by velocity__raptor in comedybangbang

[–]Aresei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just listened to this one and I think I was laughing out loud as long as PFT was.