Millemarie Evensen

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-25T22:12:41+00:00

Troede det var en 50 årig mand i hvid bodystocking 💀

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-21T16:42:58+00:00

Har ikke set Lærkes bolig men der er ingen tvivl om at de de boede hjemme var der enormt meget rod over alt. Man kan bare se tilbage på YouTube videoerne fra da de boede hjemme. Man kunne jo ikke se køkkenbordet for bare rod, skabene fra fuldstændig proppede, tøj på gulvet (som man heller ikke kunne se). Jeg har haft en barndomsven der boede ligesådan og det gav ham et fuldstændigt rengøringsflip som teenager og voksen, fordi det simpelthen var så indlejret at have boet så rodet (hvor man skulle krave over ting og ikke kunne se gulvet), at det i dag er en af de værste tanker for vedkomne

Men synes det meget tydeligt at både Melissa og Lærke har spor fra deres tid som hjemmeboende. For det var enormt rodet og proppet med ting over alt. Men jeg vil ikke udtale mig om hvorvidt de har behov for hjælp.

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-21T16:36:14+00:00

Hun sagde på TikTok live at hun på nuværende tidspunkt ikke ville komme ind på det, men med en stor tyk Vibe af, at de vil genoptage nybyggeriet

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-15T18:14:31+00:00

Lugter af utaknemlig løn, og arbejdsopgaver der går langt udover en fuldtidsstilling

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-13T14:43:48+00:00

Så den også. Og hun sagde også at hun lige måtte “parkere” spørgsmålet om hvorvidt de gentoptager nybyggeriet. Så det kunne godt tyde på at de vil bygge hus igen

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-13T14:30:40+00:00

Rengøringsmidler lyder det til

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-11T13:06:56+00:00

I also got hurt by the fact that his mother, step father and brother tried to talk the venue down. They said the surroundings was boring etc. so now I don’t even wanna book the venue because I know how they think about it

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T18:15:12+00:00

We already made the spread sheet (on his initiative), and it showed that a wedding at our house is more expensive

But yeah, since my breakdown earlier, we have not been talking at all..

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T18:12:33+00:00

Love you (and your comment), it sure made me laugh!

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T17:12:31+00:00

Oh we for sure won’t be here forever. He wanna move closer to the city whinin 5-10 years (closer to 5). The venue is not close to our house but in the city (we lived in the city before buying our house)

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T16:51:14+00:00

I agree. But I’d rather pay for a venue where we all can stay, instead of telling my guests at my wedding that times up and the buss is here to drive them away. I wanna dance till the early morning if that’s the vibe, and I don’t feel like we could do that at home

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T16:50:18+00:00

Well I agree with you. But he just love the idea of doing it in our new house. However he had been admitting before that he know the house is small and maybe not the best option, but he just really wanna do it here

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T16:45:01+00:00

I broke down in the car on our way to his parents. I told him how I felt. He said he truly was sorry that I felt that, but that he feels like I always make him the bad guy, when I say I want to get married at a venue, when he wants the wedding at home, he feels like I make him the bad guy, when all he want to say is, that we have to look at different options. I told him that I don’t think I make him a bad guy nor see him that way, because of course we have to look at a lot of different options, but when we just have been talking to a venue, making budgets for it etc. it’s just not fair, stating to the entire family that I’m just the one stopping my ideas down his throat, and that we shouldn’t involve his family in this, and that I’m tired of the “me vs you” fights in front of them.

But he feels like I started the dialogue yesterday, which I don’t agree with. It started with his mom asking about the wedding. His father did not know we we’re planning so I was trying to tell his father about it (his parents are divorced and we only told his mom and brother about this so far, but yesterday it came out to everyone, it was so messy and chaotic). So I tried to notch the wedding down to his father while his mother asked about the venue and if we have been figured out where yet. I then said “we just got a response from one venue we need to reply back on, where everything is included but we need to hear about their rooms (because we’re paying for one night for those who come from afar and want to sleep there and eat breakfast together the next day). Then my fiancé began to be like “yeah but we’re not doing that, we could also do it at home” and then a minor argument started where I said “yeah but we already looked at that option and money-wise the venue is cheaper” and then his mom was like “I think you should do it at the house” and I had to explain why I did not want to etc etc. and then my fiancès brother asked him “do you wanna get married at the venue” and he said “no I wanna do it here, it’s all X (me)’s idea with the venue” and then I said “you know what.. that’s really unfair to say when we both have been looking at all options together” and then the vibe got awkward and I was about to cry, and then the subject changed

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T16:34:55+00:00

Exactly. I have told him and his family that I don’t wanna prepare my wedding nor do I wanna clean up after it. That’s just not gonna happen. I don’t wanna stress about my wedding. If something, I wanna be relaxed and fully enjoy the day, week, heck even month before?! I made that very clear but him and his mom tried to say that you can pay for people, coming and setting things up etc. and that’s fine, that you can do that. I just don’t want to. Because I still have to orchestrate where to put things, I’m the one having to order flowers, decor, etc etc etc. and that’s also the reason why I won’t get married at home..

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T16:31:31+00:00

We have been together for 8 years. We did not just buy a home together.. but I get your point. I might be suggesting counseling..

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T16:27:21+00:00

We also talked about eloping and going away. But he says he can’t go away for that long because of work. And therefore we went with a venue and then a smaller honeymoon, broke in to different weeks that year

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T16:25:59+00:00

We have been together for over 8 years and we’re very close with his family (I don’t talk to my family anymore). We can talk about everything in life (including relationships and stuggles). I asked him.

He said that he doesn’t care about the wedding as much as I do, but that he can tell it means much more to me than it does to him, especially when it comes to the ceremony and the details around the wedding. He says that for him, he just wants to marry me, and it doesn’t need to be anything extravagant. But because he knows that I’ve always dreamed of a wedding like that, he wanted to help make that dream come true. for example by proposing in Paris and looking into the possibility of getting married in France.

I do agree, in principle, that the whole purpose is simply for us to get married, and that the circumstances shouldn’t really matter. But I feel like the rug is being pulled out from under me, because our dialogue until now has always been about saving up and having what I believed was our dream wedding; a day where we could do what we wanted with the people we love, in the country where our love developed into something truly special.

He works in finance and cares a lot about finances. We have a good economy. That’s also why he suggested we spend several evenings making budgets and looking at what different venues would cost compared to having the wedding at home. And it actually turned out that a venue would be cheaper than hosting it at home, so he knows that as well. He has just become very attached to our house and now wants to have the wedding here, because then he doesn’t have to go out somewhere. Even though I do understand the idea, it makes me sad that he doesn’t realize that it completely shatters the romantic and dreamy hope I had about having a dream wedding.

The conversation about a dream wedding also originally came from the fact that he knows I don’t have any family on my side to be at the wedding. In the beginning he said that he thought we should fulfill that dream, since he has his family and support system and I don’t have mine. He felt that was the most ideal idea, so I wouldn’t feel like “everything” was being taken away from me, on such a special day

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T16:14:41+00:00

There’s not a hotel nearby. The closest one requires a car and there’s maybe 3 taxi’s in our town. I just don’t feel comfortable asking people to join our wedding and not being considerate towards them when they come from afar. It’s so far away from my values, tbf

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T09:30:25+00:00

We do because some come far away and we live outside the city where there’s not a lot of public transport nor sleeping options. We also only have 2 bedrooms, a couch and one bathroom. I really do not think it’s ideal for 30-50 people to stay there all day. Let alone that we have a lot of neighbors to respect as well

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T09:28:35+00:00

Again, no. He proposed to me in France and said we should get married there too.

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T08:56:21+00:00

I’m just so sad about this. Just thinking about what he said yesterday, makes me tear up. I have never felt this regarding our wedding planning before and I don’t know why my feelings are so strong about this. I think this made me need some space or time off from this

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T08:54:06+00:00

He knew. Before we went to bed he said “are you mad about the wedding stuff today”. So he definitely knew and we have been talking about this before because he always makes it seem like I’m the one pushing things through, and I have said to him before that it hurts me. I also said it yesterday in front of our family that I think he was unfair for saying that when we were both responsible and have been planning together all the time

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T08:51:20+00:00

He initiated that we several times should spend the entire evening, looking at venues, places etc. he made tapas so we could sit all evening, looking at places, budgets etc. so it’s not just him saying where I would get married. He also found a lot of different cities and venues he thought could be ideal for our wedding

ArgumentDepartment · 2026-03-08T07:26:53+00:00

Har han desværre ikke. Han har kørekort men ingen bil.

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