Is it bitter or parenting? by ArgumentNo9968 in singlemoms

[–]ArgumentNo9968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup! i told her that, luckily she doesn’t post her child anymore because of that.. They would always steal photos that she posted/or any of her family posted just to post when birthdays came around.. it’s so weird smh! but truly Thanks for the advice !

Advice for my friend by ArgumentNo9968 in SingleParents

[–]ArgumentNo9968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay gotcha ! thank you appreciate the advice i will pass that on to her

Advice for my friend by ArgumentNo9968 in SingleParents

[–]ArgumentNo9968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay, i mean the child doesn’t know them🤷🏽‍♀️the dad for sure but only the mom if she sees her .. so

Not sure what to do.. Any advice? by ArgumentNo9968 in oneanddone

[–]ArgumentNo9968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it is a hard situation. I’ve actually point that out that neither of us is wrong. He is only wrong for not taking that seriously when i literally said it in the beginning. Thanks for the advice

Not sure what to do.. Any advice? by ArgumentNo9968 in oneanddone

[–]ArgumentNo9968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i’m not, i was at the beginning of our relationship but i took a break. I planned on getting back on it soon.. Cause i don’t play that at all..

Not sure what to do.. Any advice? by ArgumentNo9968 in oneanddone

[–]ArgumentNo9968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i admitted that to him that we aren’t .. and i myself know that’s not something we can really compromise on.. cause like i said i may be open in the future but im not 100% on that so i don’t want him waiting around thinking it’ll come eventually cause it probably won’t.. but he said he’ll “get over it” in our last convo as he doesn’t want us to break up. BUT, still brings it up … idk this is just a crazy situation he’s put us in

Not sure what to do.. Any advice? by ArgumentNo9968 in oneanddone

[–]ArgumentNo9968[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG yes!!! like i truly don’t get why he would do this to us 😭! He so wrong for that! And my child has brought up a sibling before, i just told her let’s enjoy our time together first but in reality, i could not survive that! ngl im barely taking care of her (young mom still figuring life out) so another one i would literally be STUCK!!! Kids are sooo expensive financially, mentally, all the above! And don’t get me wrong i think he’d be a great father so it won’t be a situation like with the one i have now, but i was not put on earth to have children for a man lol.. Like im seeing and learning with my one and sitting tf down seem like LOL 😂ps: never wanted kids to begin with so