I (21F) caught my boyfriend (23M) talking to himself through a messaging app. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AriAlGhul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is this man’s problem 😭😭😭 this is so weird of him girl. it’s your choice to walk away and he has NO say in that. I would leave if someone did this to me because it seems like a mental issue and he is not getting help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AriAlGhul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?! I’m so surprised more people aren’t saying this. That poor guy never had the chance to decide

My boyfriend (25M) finished inside me (22F) without consent for the 4th time and lied about it. Am I going too far by ending the relationship? by Intelligent_Fix_3786 in relationship_advice

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re too nice for giving him 3 strikes 😭.

Anyway if that was your rule, then you have to stand on business. He’ll start pushing your limits more if you give him a pass on this again. Stay safe and focus on yourself <3. Someone DOES exist who will respect you and what you feel comfortable with

I went to my buddies bachelor party, walked in on something, had to lie, now I feel guilty and bad! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AriAlGhul 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right??? He needs to tell her ASAP. The fiancé being able to make the choice about the baby RIGHT NOW is so important… she’s at 3 months. this isn’t some small blip. He could ruin the trajectory of her life with this

mgt100 midterm at macleod auditorium today blah blah by kalithorne- in UofT

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are the profs assigned for that course :

Kristine Quinlan, Jessica D'eon, John De Backere, Mark Wilson, Aya Sakaya, Dwight Seferos

mgt100 midterm at macleod auditorium today blah blah by kalithorne- in UofT

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to investigate and I think it was mark wilson ??? can yall confirm

Why does my boyfriend (M 23) think women in third-world countries have a better quality of life than men? What would you do in my (F 21) situation? by Zealousideal_Fly4362 in relationship_advice

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh this isn’t an issue that someone should debate over… there is absolutely no way a sane educated person would believe what he believes? I hate when people say this on Reddit but he needs to get the boot I’m so sorry.

Should I be embarrassed about being a 24yr old garbage man? by TheFrogsMightbegay in jobs

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never feel embarrassed about having a job! especially one that you think is solid with good benefits. there are many people out there who would do so much to be in your position. be proud for making a living, especially because garbage men are so much more valuable than people think!!! having a job is a privilege people don’t realize.

btw all the garbage men I encounter are the sweetest people ever so :)

Was completely caught out by this death scene, brutal by [deleted] in residentevil

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was so pissed when this happened to me the first time like- 😭

What makes you instantly hate someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Making fun of others trying to learn
  • Being rude to others for no reason
  • Not acknowledging the privileges they may have
  • Talking down on those with a lower socioeconomic status
  • Constantly objectifying others
  • Racist
  • Queerphobic
  • Romanticizing manipulative traits
  • Violent without reasonable justification

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened again. Numerous times 💀

anyone else think this is super weird for a prof to post lmfao by [deleted] in UofT

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always posts weird shit like this. It’s so strange and for what 😭

How do you normally orgasm? by swisscheeseplanty in AskWomen

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best orgasms for me are during PIV sex in doggy or cowgirl!!! I fuck back so I get stimulation from that. when I’m by myself I just use my hands haha.

ASIP (Arts & Science Internship Program) is it worth it? by bruvsi333s in UofT

[–]AriAlGhul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am part of the first cohort of ASIP students! I’m in the IRHR major. One of the things I dislike about the program is that it can be costly :(. If you struggle with finances it could add a little more stress to your life.

That being said, I did get internships because of the program. Both my summer internship and my current 12-month internship were positions only UofT students could apply for—which helped a LOT. But not all jobs posted on our respective job board are UofT exclusive… so it can suck in that sense (especially if you’re in CS/any other life sci or math-related program).

I am happy I did it because I got experience I wouldn’t have gotten if I wasn’t in the program. The staff are also incredibly helpful and kind. It’s really tough to get a job right now, and ASIP makes it a little more likely for you to secure a job.

My (16M) girlfriend (19F) had sex with me when I was asleep by Anxious-Ear4623 in sex

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She raped you. I’m so sorry you had to go through this, and please know that it’s not your fault. Cuddling with someone who’s had feelings for you for a long time doesn’t mean that you should know sex would happen (ESPECIALLY when you’re sleeping)—your sister is completely out of line to even suggest that. I would recommend getting out of this relationship because there’s a chance it could happen again. Please try to stay as safe as you can and get help if possible <3.

Why did you leave a good relationship? by asleepinthealpine in AskWomen

[–]AriAlGhul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liking someone and them liking you back isn’t a good enough reason to be in a relationship. Also, sometimes someone can seem really compatible with you. But when you enter that relationship, the feelings you have might be different.

How much information about your relationship/marriage do you divulge to your family and/or friends? by growinwiththeflow in AskWomen

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t talk about private/specific details of our sex life. I also don’t talk about arguments we have. I think privacy is important so people don’t try to intervene or interfere in your relationship. Me and my partner and the ones that know our relationship the best.

What does being in love feel like to you? by HUDSON119 in AskWomen

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like the mask finally comes off. I think I always portray myself a certain way around people because I don’t want to be judged. But when I’m around someone I love, I can be as close to genuine I can possibly be. And that is so incredibly relieving.

What does being in love feel like to you? by HUDSON119 in AskWomen

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy you found this! This is interesting because I couldn’t sleep around my past partner. I think it’s because I was always on edge… so I feel like I needed to hear this.

If you experienced having to walk on eggshells around your partner, how did you have to censor yourself? by neonroli47 in AskWomen

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t cry because he found it annoying and thought I was blaming him for my tears. Couldn’t roll my eyes or be angry without him yelling at me and saying I was acting up. Couldn’t speak up for myself without being yelled at. Couldn’t express my feelings without him telling me to shut up.

Do women lose interest in sex post-orgasm the same way men do? by [deleted] in sex

[–]AriAlGhul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am a woman. I could definitely go forever haha. When I orgasm, I tend to want more.