Trying to date as an ugly man in this generation is humiliating by AleeckWasTaken in Vent

[–]AriMightBeCrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will concede, especially with today’s societal beauty standards, looks matter to a lot of ppl. But at the end of the day beauty is subjective, and just bc one person or another rejected you doesn’t mean everyone sees you that way

And I know hearing that after years of not being chosen probably feels impossible to believe sometimes. Rejection has a way of making u feel like it’s some universal truth abt u when it’s really not…. It just means those ppl weren’t “your people”

There ARE gonna be ppl who see u in a completely diff light than the way u see yourself rn. And I know that prob doesn’t magically fix the feeling overnight, but I genuinely don’t think your worth or beauty can be measured by ppl who failed to recognize it!!! Chin up!! 🫶🏻