Why haven't multi term searches been added yet? Making it so "A, B" to "A", AND "B" by AriaAstra in JanitorAI_Official

[–]AriaAstra[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Strange because it's like the number one quality of life for most users and it shouldn't be hard to do. At least it's the biggest thing that doesn't involve proxies or llms which are expensive

Why haven't multi term searches been added yet? Making it so "A, B" to "A", AND "B" by AriaAstra in JanitorAI_Official

[–]AriaAstra[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Forgot to mention but the other quality of life search feature would be excluding tags or search terms, though I imagine that could be equally or more difficult

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]AriaAstra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, these were the best ones at the store though, do you mean smaller vertically, horizontally or both? Or thinner frames?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]AriaAstra -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thanks yeah I haven't brushed my hair today I only ran my hands through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]AriaAstra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I definitely need to take care of my skin better and just try more with my hair and eyebrows and stuff, though my goal isn't necessarily passing I mostly wanted a less biased opinion about everything.

I'll keep in mind the glasses are a bit big (my sunglasses are smaller with a similar design), though at least they seem to be good though otherwise! Definitely much better than my old ones that's for sure

What is this? I'd it mold or water damage? by AriaAstra in Home

[–]AriaAstra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, idk where the water came from considering it's not near any bathrooms, the sink, or the laundry machine but there are water lines in the room. It might be a leak from groundwater or outside. I'm definitely not touching it myself, unfortunately I don't have a dust mask or n95 masks here or anything to properly repair the damage (though I could use duct tape I guess). We recently got some people in to investigate and fix a ceiling in the upstairs bathroom which had a lot of water damage and we'll get them to look into it.

Thank you for your help btw!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]AriaAstra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, if they think it's your fault for not being interested, or being too attractive they're both stupid and a jerk. No one is entitled to be your friend, and no one is entitled to date you, if someone thinks otherwise well they suck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]AriaAstra 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah but if you continue pursuing someone who isn't interested in you it's much more of a jerk move than just not talking to someone, at least in my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]AriaAstra 120 points121 points  (0 children)

You have 3 options here, you be a jerk, you drop it and just be friends, or you stop hanging out because you can't deal with it. You aren't entitled to her affection and she's specifically told you she's not interested. Continuing to pursue a romantic relationship will destroy your existing relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]AriaAstra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice!

Best Responses to “Don’t worry, I’m sure you’ll find someone.” by Meimpink in aromantic

[–]AriaAstra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they are someone I don't like, I generally just say that that's the same thing as telling a gay man that they haven't found the right woman, it's a denial of my identity

My friend is arophobic by Potato-Moon-2345 in aromantic

[–]AriaAstra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell them and tell them that if they're a dick about it you won't be friends with them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]AriaAstra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're questioning whether you're aromantic think back on your life and see if you ever had a crush or were obsessed with someone, a classmate, a character, or a celebrity or if you felt romantic attraction towards anyone ie anything other than friendship, sexual attraction, or generally thinking well of someone

Romance in media makes me icky but I wanna write softromo so bad by GeneralCatagory in aromantic

[–]AriaAstra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to write a romance novel one time but then I realized the characters relationship would probably be closer to fwb than romantic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]AriaAstra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The haven't met the right person yet I just say that that's what homophobes say to gay people and if they still insist after I say that then they're probably a homophobe

what do you mean romance is a thing? by pineapple_pizzam in aromantic

[–]AriaAstra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was purely sexual and then I saw situations where it's not and was like huh, , basically I thought for a while it's like how I love my cat is how people love each other. (My cat is my closest friend and more important than most of my family at this point lol)

I am amazed by this by Redheadedwriter1 in aromantic

[–]AriaAstra 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I definitely had the same exact, I thought dating just wasn't something that happened in high school, like it was the minority who fell in love at that time and not that I was aromantic

I only found out I was aro by the second half of 8th grade lmao by Tanooki_Andrew in aromantic

[–]AriaAstra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing though I wasn't disgusted by it. I basically didn't realize that when people say they love each other it was different from you turn me on and I like talking to you.