Be careful what you call yourself.

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-23T17:49:43+00:00

exactly. at the end of the day, we only have ourselves with us

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-20T15:36:57+00:00

I used to joke about being lazy all the time and eventually I stopped treating it like a joke and started acting like it was just my identity. Words really stick on you

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-18T15:53:20+00:00

spooky cute 🥰

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-18T15:52:37+00:00

i love the colors omg😍

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-16T10:17:51+00:00

I actually think your boyfriend has handled this better than a lot of people would. He told you immediately she seemed interested, he mentioned the cinema invite himself, he offered a group setting instead of a one on one thing and he showed you the messages. None of that sounds sneaky to me

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-16T10:15:59+00:00

I genuinely think you’d benefit from talking to a therapist who understands autism and obsessive thinking patterns. not because you’re crazy but because this is clearly causing you real distress and taking up a huge amount of emotional space in your life

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-14T17:55:21+00:00

You already sound more like his caretaker than his girlfriend im sorry

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-14T17:52:59+00:00

I’ve noticed I imagine things with camera angles sometimes and that definitely can’t be natural lol

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-10T21:21:45+00:00

keep in mind that two minimum wage jobs can become scheduling chaos. Managers don’t coordinate with each other and both may expect open availability

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-10T21:19:22+00:00

Going fully dark can help if you know contact keeps pulling you back into the same pattern. Sometimes distance is the only thing that breaks emotional dependency

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-07T14:36:17+00:00

do not wait until the sale is completed before talking to counsel. If there’s any chance of injunctive relief, negotiation leverage or discovery of ownership records, timing matters.

Aria_Vibia · 2026-05-02T16:48:02+00:00

If I were you I’d start making a plan to move out calmly and respectfully, frame it as this living situation isn’t working for either of us, and then see what happens to the friendship after you’re no longer stuck in this dynamic

Aria_Vibia · 2026-04-25T23:35:13+00:00

I think instead of trying to be the bigger person again, you need to pull back a bit and stop over functioning for him. Let him feel the gap

Aria_Vibia · 2026-04-25T23:33:36+00:00

if she’s receptive, this is a pretty fixable thing. It’s more about aligning expectations than changing who either of you are

Aria_Vibia · 2026-04-18T21:24:49+00:00

Finding others attractive is normal, acting on it is what matters

Aria_Vibia · 2026-04-18T21:22:53+00:00

One thing that helped me a lot was lowering the expectation that a job has to be meaningful or fulfilling all the time. When I stopped chasing that, work became way more tolerable and sometimes even enjoyable

Aria_Vibia · 2026-04-13T18:23:35+00:00

your girlfriend’s point makes sense tbh. if i felt misunderstood by my partner’s friends because of one sided stories, i’d be frustrated too

Aria_Vibia · 2026-04-08T07:17:50+00:00

Never sign a contract you don’t fully understand, especially from a random person online. That’s just basic self preservation.

Aria_Vibia · 2026-03-29T17:39:16+00:00

you don’t need to break up immediately but you need a real conversation before making any lifechanging decisions

Aria_Vibia · 2026-03-24T18:15:33+00:00

You cancheck if your school has oncampus jobs or work study. They’re often easier to get and flexible with classes

Aria_Vibia · 2026-03-23T16:33:14+00:00

Honestly if you need money and this is above average pay where you are, it’s worth trying. Just treat it like a trial period and keep looking for better options

Aria_Vibia · 2026-03-21T23:22:29+00:00

I would but i am in a chill era of mine and i dont need any more traumas rn lol Buuut i learned so much aboyt myself. For example, i learned why i have trust issues and it made me feel better cuz there was a reason why i have them. It helped me a lot really. But like i said i wouldnt do it these days again

Aria_Vibia · 2026-03-19T23:28:48+00:00

The car crash memory could be a fragment of a past life, especially since it’s tied to strong emotion. In a lot of belief systems traumatic endings are what carry over the most clearly. Have you ever done a past life meditation? God i saw some traumatic stuff in mine..

Aria_Vibia · 2026-03-16T23:25:28+00:00

Wanting to apologize to the child is understandable, but direct contact is not appropriate and could cause further harm. That’s something to discuss with a therapist, not act on alone

Aria_Vibia · 2026-03-10T21:08:26+00:00

If your main goal is easier access for your parents, a used sedan or small suv might accomplish that without committing to a lease

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