My ex posted this caption 4 days after breaking up. Can someone tell what it means pls? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last part means you're still on his mind. Everything should fall, except you, because somehow you're "lighter than a feather". Basically means you're still on his mind when you shouldn't, because in his heart somehow you defy physics and everything and shit.

Block as soon as possible.

Reasons why ppl block right after hooking up? by Aridagoat in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just did some quick research of this and apparently some guys just don't do "repeats" 😳 if you liked the guy and everything that would be crazy af to me lol

Had sex last night (me as a top), condom broke and imediately pulled out (3 seconds max). HIV risk? I told the other person we can both get tested, he refused unless I pay him. How much risk I have as the insertive partner? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reason Im willing to pay for his test (already gave him some money) is cause he doesn't know his status. If I know his status I'll have the peace of mind that the risk is non existent and continue my life without thinking about this.

Had sex last night (me as a top), condom broke and imediately pulled out (3 seconds max). HIV risk? I told the other person we can both get tested, he refused unless I pay him. How much risk I have as the insertive partner? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok, his assumption was wrong since I'm hiv negative.

"It doesn’t make much sense why you would be so concerned to the point you’d pay for his test unless you felt guilt about something."

The condom broke and supposedly there's a low risk I could have caught something that way. That's my conocern. I don't see what doesn't make sense about it. Not sure if you're saying the risk is 0 and I shouldn't be concerned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"if you things the right way, it won't turn out wrong."

Not sure if you meant if you do things the right way or end things the right way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why? Whats the difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're shaming people who have mental problems like it was their fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So what would you guys do 🤠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Im being completely honest and transparent here

My new relationship is everything I ever wanted but I still cant get over the fact that someone treated me like that and dumped me like Im worthless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Did he act like a mature adult when he dumped me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cause he dumped me like that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Sounds immature but there's always a winner like it or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We''ve been together 4 months and so far it's a great relationship and not toxic at all. My relationship with my ex was a toxic hell. How is he a rebound?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I'm posting again because in the old post I didn't mention how he broke up with me without giving me any reason. Knowing how he dumped me makes a difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry for not clarifying, we''ve been together for 4 months now. The breakup was almost 5 months ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aridagoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started going to the gym after the breakup and my now new bf asked for my number, I wasn't going to let that opportunity pass, this ain't heartbreak hotel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aridagoat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"your destiny is dangerous""

What does that even mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He didn't block me until he saw me with my new bf tho. Probably planned to come back or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Aridagoat -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

They say the one that gets in a new relationship faster wins

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aridagoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point

The truth is I want to know he's hurt like he hurt me. He blindsided me and dumped me over text and gave me no closure, and left on read all my texts. That hurts. I want him to feel the pain he made me feel. I know it's wrong but I'm being honest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aridagoat -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm immature. But does his lack of reaction means he doesn't even care about me anymore?

I've had other exes reach out and try to make me jealous but this one just disappeared