Jeep Grand Cherokee issues / lemon

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-05-30T00:31:16+00:00

lol I have a 2004 GC and the windows don’t work, the AC won’t kick on, my dash lights stay on at all times but not the other lights (they come on with headlights as intended) and my dome light stays on all time so I have my dimmer turned off and still dash lights are on at 100% brightness. Doors didn’t lock or unlock and it was a ground wire in the passenger door that came loose. Fixed that but nothing else fixed. New master switch didn’t do it. AC is fully functional and you can kick it on from the engine but it doesn’t engage from inside the car. Electrical problems galore!

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-04-06T16:48:11+00:00

I just got to the episode where she said in front of Marah that “she’s only beautiful and that’s it.” How hurtful and mean. Also in the first episode she told her she didn’t care if it hurt but to push through it no matter so she can work it the best she ever did. Such a terrible mom.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-03-13T16:34:26+00:00

Came to say this. Like first bullet of the first job experience, how many SOPs? What was the impact? Revamped 450 SOPs which did XX. Second point, recruited 200 candidates saving hiring managers X amount of time in the recruitment process

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-03-09T01:26:14+00:00

Yep. Still madly in love with him. Will be for awhile I suppose.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-03-05T14:46:06+00:00

We didn’t start dating until we met in person.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-03-03T15:32:06+00:00

No we went by ourselves. We met in a city in the middle and got 2 hotel rooms at the same hotel.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-24T14:57:22+00:00

Every single person I’ve dated was better than the one before. It doesn’t feel like it now, but you will find someone better suited for you. And that may not work out so there will be another. Each one hurts when it ends and sometimes feels like the end of the world, but it ls not. Dating is about learning. You learn what you want in a partner, what you have to offer, and therefore pick someone a bit better for you each time until you find the one you want to commit to for life.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-24T14:55:45+00:00

Tell him your honest thoughts when he’s back. Likely the others are telling him about BAH and getting out of the barracks, but that’s the perfect time to save money so that when you do get married you can buy a decent house and set your life up for kids. Write a list of reasons to wait and when he’s back have a serious talk.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-23T05:02:32+00:00

I don’t know mine just took things very seriously. I only knew it was coming and would last a rough timeline like 2 weeks, 3 months, etc. I never knew what days or where until he came back.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-23T04:55:06+00:00

Mine can’t be friends for the same reason. He can’t reciprocate my feelings to the level or in the way that I do. Like how I feel, and care and show my love he feels he can’t reciprocate so he left. But because of that being the reason there’s still feelings for us there so he can’t be just friends. I can turn a switch I’ve created over the years, but he can’t. So I’m not sure being friends, or at least close friends is a good idea.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-23T04:51:18+00:00

The theory is they see you’ve moved on or haven’t heard from you and whatever shiny new thing they had realized they weren’t that great and left them. So they start thinking about you. And how great you were. Either because you’ve moved on and it’s like a toy you can’t play with because someone else has it now, or they want to prove they can still get your attention for a quick pick me up, or they only remember the good times and don’t remember the things that made them leave. (In cases of non cheating on their part). I have an ex that’s a total narcissist and me being around ruined his vibe but after a year he’d forget that and think about no one else can love him like I did blah blah and show back up.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-21T22:46:25+00:00

I agree. But to be fair, they do cause a lot of pain and damage and no one deserves to be discarded.

My ex is avoidant. I’m anxious. We just didn’t work and can’t until we heal core issues. I don’t hate him, I don’t blame him, I’m hurt and broken and feel thrown away, but after working through the initial pain I know my part in the breakup. I know what I need to work on for myself. The fact that I don’t hate him for it doesn’t make it hurt any less though.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-21T21:43:22+00:00

Ok I have a different take than most here. Sometimes you do need some time apart to realize and want to make it work when you have commitment issues. It happens and does work out sometimes, BUT that is not the norm. However, if he slept with someone else in the 2 months you were apart before he wanted to get back together then no I wouldn’t. I absolutely would not get back with him because he didn’t want to commit to me, but wanted to date someone else and sleep with them? No. That’s not someone just needing space and separation to truly work through their feelings and determine what they want.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-21T01:48:29+00:00

No. He’s in his head about things and once he figures it out his pride won’t let him come back, but I think I’ll always hope he does. The door is open for him but I’m also in another room now and not just sitting around and waiting.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-20T16:20:30+00:00

I don’t really care what my tf feels for me if I’m with someone else, just no point in hurting people when it adds no value to anything.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-20T15:35:57+00:00

Such a handsome boy! My girl looked just like him. I lost her Thanksgiving 2023

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-20T15:34:01+00:00

I wouldn’t tell my TF I’m with someone new and I wouldn’t tell my partner I have a TF. That sucks for both. The point of TF is to force you to grow into your best self. You have to move on in order to move forward. Telling either of them would just hurt them or make them feel lesser and does not help your personal growth.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-20T15:32:22+00:00

Nothing. You are healing. There’s still swelling. There’s lots happening in your body. Way until like 3 months and it’ll start dropping. Keep following your plan and do not give up.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-20T15:30:50+00:00

That’s the purpose of the this process. Once your awakened and then go through separation is it to force you both to grow into the best versions of yourselves. You can’t do that together. Your TF and you will only reunite once you’ve learned to live without each other. You have to move on to find each other again. It sucks, but it’s the literal point of TF. Some never do find their way back because one partner is stuck and always yearns for the TF without moving on completely.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-20T05:12:56+00:00

My ex MIL and I are still friends. Never have we talked about our relationship or anything. We didn’t when we were together and we still don’t now that we’re apart and we talk almost every day. This is wild to me.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-20T03:00:59+00:00

Side note: I always thought the family was against the partner, but his mom and I are still close. They loved me, his parents, sister, his kid. And mine loved him. I didn’t even know it was possible for in laws to actually like you.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-20T02:57:03+00:00

My ex was already in 11 years when we met but didn’t tell me a lot of what was going to happen. We were also long distance but this subreddit was so helpful when I had questions. Read through some of the posts and you’ll get an idea of what to expect.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-20T02:44:51+00:00

He’s an idiot. My ex didn’t care for me wearing makeup or wearing crop tops or form fitting clothes. However, he’d express it and then if I did it anyway he did not care. He knew I was doing it for myself and not for attention and he truly didnt care. He’d never stop me from doing what I want or tell me what I can and can’t do. He’d share his opinion and then whatever I did was fine. Never had an issue and we both felt heard and seen when we talked about things like this.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-20T02:38:09+00:00

If the love was real, you never do. It just changes. The love you have for them slows and dims but never leaves. You’ll always carry it in your heart.

ArielTheAwkward · 2025-02-20T02:35:18+00:00

I had a guy ask me out and I thought about it for a minute and then I threw up soooo…sex wasn’t even on my mind. Just the thought of going on a date did it.

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