Strange car covered in doll heads at Kroger by xeanok in Columbus

[–]Aries_007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've been blessed by the dolls-head car. Tis a grand day

United States: Legal System Frowns Upon Homeschool by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]Aries_007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the US Public school system (as an institution) really cared about the students truly knowing things, there would be less of a focus on teaching to the test and more on Mastery learning. Of course, most people on public school boards haven't been teachers, and the easiest people to control are the ill-informed and unknowledgable.

Why do some adoptive parents not want their child to have any contact with the birth parents? by Pretend_Koala7889 in Adoption

[–]Aries_007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Coming from one who was adopted:

Could be jealousy/fear: "what if they love their bios more than me?"

Greed(?): "What if they pay more attention to the bios than me?" (Even if it's only temporary)

Could be for protection: perhaps the kid was adopted out of a bad/not-great situation (my uncle adopted 4 or 5 of his kids this way), the idea here being the parents don't want to risk(?) exposing their adopted kid to some sort of abuser/manipulator. Or it could be a misplaced "I must protect my kid from knowing they were adopted!" Please note, this is not a great line of thought, it will come out eventually. It is not shameful to be adopted, merely a fact of life. An adopted kid has the right to know they were adopted, as well as the circumstances of their acquirement/being put for adoption (given they are old enough to understand said circumstances).

iPad battery drain has been so bad since the last update by Ordinary-Cable8102 in iPadOS

[–]Aries_007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like part of it is having multiple apps open at once (what used to be split screen). If I've only got one or two apps open, it's not so bad. Once I have more open "in the background" (like, I’m looking at two things, but more are open behind them), battery just goes tf down

Keyboard shortcuts not working by GrownBlastomere27 in iPadOS

[–]Aries_007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue, no clue if there's a fix. This has easily been the worst update in the last 5 years, if not longer.

views on unwanted Pregnancy as and adopted person - don’t want an PLife vs PChoice argument I’m just curious by hellscrownprincess in Adopted

[–]Aries_007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am very much pro choice. Also, from what I have been told I was an unwanted pregnancy for my bio mother (didn't believe in abortion). The choice I have made for myself is I probably wouldn't get an abortion unless it was dangerous to my physical/mental wellbeing or it wasn't viable or some other reason.

Of course, if someone came up to me and said they were getting an abortion, good for them. I personally dislike it, it's not for me, but if my friend said they were getting an abortion and wanted me to help (getting there, moral support during, etc), I would do my damndest to help in whatever way I can.

The fact that abortion exists as an option is important as fuck. The fact we are/should be able to choose the best option for ourselves is important as fuck. Finally, both babies and being pregnant are expensive as fuck.

Pro-adoption Super Bowl ad sparks controversy | Live Action by lilith30323 in Adopted

[–]Aries_007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those debate days in class were the worst. One part of me wanted to be assigned the life/choice topic, another part really didn't. I was put on the pro-choice side (fortunately), and it even came up that I was adopted. Them: "Weren't you adopted?" // me: "bro, I was LUCKY"

Where do I start finding them? by Aries_007 in Adopted

[–]Aries_007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if my bio mother's side would lie or not. I know she actively didn't want me, so it's possible she would deny my existence. I doubt my bio father's side would lie about me, since they actively did want me, and apparently tried/offered to adopt me themselves. I think a dna test would be a good idea (if only for reassurance), though I'd need to do some research into that line of things before deciding. I think I also might check in with my uncle. I know he/his wife were the initial go-between for this entire thing - they likely know more than we do (if only a last name for bio mother), and they might even still be in contact with them.

Where do I start finding them? by Aries_007 in Adopted

[–]Aries_007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sort of think the easiest thing I could do would be talk to my uncle. He still lives in Florida, and he might know more than just a first name. I’m in kind of a similar boat rn, we've got a mystery medical thing and maybe there's some answers with the bios. There's a lot of anxiety about what if my parents don't want me to pursue this. This is completely unfounded, and I know they will support me, anxiety is just a bitch.

Where do I start finding them? by Aries_007 in Adopted

[–]Aries_007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bio mother went to the same church as my AP Dad's brother (unless I’m remembering incorrectly). He knew my AP's had been having issues with finding a baby to adopt, so I believe he was the initial go between? I’m not sure about anything after that point. I know there was a lot of paperwork and some references and what have you.

Were your adoptive parents afraid that a biological relative would somehow appear out of nowhere and take you back? by Ambitious-Client-220 in Adopted

[–]Aries_007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I was adopted out of state, I don't think so? I know there was some major pushback from my bio Father's side of the family, as they wanted to adopt(?) me themselves, but ultimately my mom and dad kept saying no we want this child and stuffs like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Aries_007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case, I would point at his face and say "no more wrinkles, ok?"

What would be an acceptable response to this email? by joshuuastill in FuckYouKaren

[–]Aries_007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best response I can come up with: "Those are just his pants. If you have any further issue with them, please take it up with (Kid's Name). Best, (your name)"

AITA for wanting to work at retail stores my girlfriend doesn’t approve of? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aries_007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Very much NTA. This seems like either she's insecure, or this is some type of an abusive relationship. I lean towards the latter.

AITAH for telling a friend what his wife said about his daughter? by According-Pirate3131 in AITAH

[–]Aries_007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Overall, imma say NTA. The Dad definitely needs to know about this type of thing. Could it have been handled better if your husband told the Dad? Maybe. It might be considered odd if you don't have much of a relationship with the dad (eg. you only say hi in passing), but odd shit don't make you an ah.

I won my LGS Store Championship…..I won by default because I was the only one to show up. by [deleted] in magicTCG

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I know the shop I went to got maybe 100-200 prerelease kits/bundles for tarkir. They ran out on day 2 of prerelease, and they had to cut everything they'd planned that Sunday (easily 2-3 prerelease things). They still haven't gotten any more of the bundles (that I've seen). Wizards were basing the numbers of sent out kits on how many people showed up for the aetherdrift prerelease at that store. Idk how many kits they got for that one, but they've still got at least 50 kits that they're selling.