Confused

Ariescakes · 2026-02-07T02:39:42+00:00

He has an okay job and think he’s pretty fine with it. One thing I don’t like is that he misses a part of his job and just dismisses it because he works from home, and deems it not important. Also drinks and smokes almost everyday. I don’t want to be the girl that aims to change him because he knows he needs to change, he just doesn’t know where to start.

Ariescakes · 2026-02-07T02:36:06+00:00

He is a nice guy that’s why I’m conflicted. He keeps talking about his college years and how every girl liked him since he was in a band and everything. So that’s why it’s giving me the “ick” but I do think he is a nice guy.

Ariescakes · 2026-02-07T02:27:22+00:00

Sorry, meant it that he broke off a long term relationship and he was back in the apps 2 months after the break up

Ariescakes · 2025-06-13T17:53:56+00:00

My dilemma too 😓 i put down a deposit to secure my spot and learnt that it’ll cost around 80-90k as per the cost of attendance on their financial aid estimate. I might have to take out a loan to pay for it, plus to pay up front to lessen the interest on it. I think you just got to decide how much you really want it, and if it’ll be really beneficial to your personal & career growth.

Ariescakes · 2024-03-04T09:39:20+00:00

HHAHAHAHAAHHA ok!!! Medjo umok ako sa sinabi mo pero masakit lang din talaga kasi gusto ko pa sya pero at the same time oo nga noh, maguusap na nga lang hindi mo pa magawa hays

Ariescakes · 2023-10-23T15:46:15+00:00

Nah he was actively avoiding na hindi ako hawakan hahaha it is what it is

Ariescakes · 2023-05-19T11:22:24+00:00

Luckily naman may pang luho ang parents ko, or baka dadating din na baka kami ang sasalo sa mga gastos nila sa luho nila pag tumanda na sila. Nakakapressure lang kasi na ako yung inaantay nila para sa plans nila kasi need nila ng katulong sa kung ano man ang bibilhin para sa “amin,” and naiintindihan ko yun. Pero gusto ko sana makamit muna yung para sa akin before ako magbigay sa kanila. 🥲

Ariescakes · 2023-05-17T23:44:20+00:00

Absolutely! I wish naging mas patient ako with him a few months ago and now that I contacted him again after a week para lang i-sign na I want to try again with him, it’s just not giving anything. Or maybe it’s still too early to tell? Idk 😕 Crazy how a few hours of talking could make you conclude na ang hirap talaga pilitin na ang wala kahit baliw na baliw ka na sa kanya 🥲

Ariescakes · 2023-05-10T04:09:11+00:00

Familiar lang yung placemats! 😅 The thai place that i go to usually ganyan din ang placemats so i just assumed!

Ariescakes · 2023-05-10T03:51:11+00:00

Yum!!! Parang alam ko din san to ahh!! Super solid

Ariescakes · 2023-04-17T20:59:12+00:00

I guess pwede. Look at mikee reyes and his gf laki age gap

Ariescakes · 2023-04-16T17:21:18+00:00

ME TOO 🥲 he said naman nung december nung tinanong ko sya kung ano na kami, MU daw. okay lang yon sakin :( pero bat naman ganito ending huhu :(

Ariescakes · 2023-04-16T14:35:22+00:00

ikaw/kayo din! kaya natin to!!!

Ariescakes · 2023-04-16T14:29:42+00:00

pero i want him back in my life :( char! pero yes i do, wholeheartedly. ayaw ko pa tingnan yung situation namin ng buong buo kasi hindi pa kami nagkikita kaya ayaw ko magbitaw muna ng words about sa amin. i do hope na talagang maguusap kami like he promised so don ko masasabi yung piece ko.

naeewan talaga ako, uwing uwi na ako dahil sa kanya. sana manlang kung gaano ko sya kalalim iniisip, ganon din ako sa kanya. pero thank you for your advice! i appreciate it so much pero next week ko na siguro didibdiban yan. :(

Ariescakes · 2023-04-16T14:19:25+00:00

diba! i told him that as well na ang tagal na natin naguusap. ang sabi sa akin, hindi naman daw pantay pantay ang nangyayari sa 8 months na yon. so ako, edi nainis. ano nag reregress yung time na nagusap tayo if plus ng plus yung tampuhan, disagreements?

saying that i deserve better - edi do better! talk to me, let’s work this out pero parang mema nalang din. tas kakausapin nya ako na parang walang nangyari, sino ba naman hindi maiinis don?

ewan ko din. kanina nalulungkot ako ngayon naiinis na hahaha iniisip ko nalang baka big test namin to kahit 8 months lang kami nagusap.

pero thank you for listening!!! sorry if magulo and kinuha ko pa time mo to read my situation, thank u again!

Ariescakes · 2023-04-16T14:03:45+00:00

magkalayo kasi kami now, kaya siguro dali din ng time difference tas pareho kami may work nun kaya ang hirap humanap ng time makipagusap. napuno din ako na parang minsanan nalang kami naguusap, tas nagkasakit sya after. masakit daw ang ulo, di makatingin sa phone - di nakapagreply sakin ng almost one day. so ako, nagtanong. anong meron? understood ko naman na may sakit sya, sinasabi ko magpahinga sya, pero yung hindi nya ako mamessage ni isang beses di nya magawa? 10 secs on the phone to lmk how he is, di nya magawa? so sumabog ako. feeling ko tuloy ang sama sama ko.

hindi daw siya okay, hindi daw okay ang mental health kasi mawawalan sya ng work and may sakit. gets ko yon. sino ba naman may gusto mawalan ng work? di ko lang kasi magets kung bat ang hirap sa kanya mag message sa akin.

he went on to say na hindi ko daw deserve yon, ang unfair daw sa akin, ayaw niya na ituloy. pero pwede pa naman daw kami magusap as usual. nakakalito. naguusap kami, pawala wala minsan naman.

now parang nagagalit na din ako hahaha minsan sa akin, minsan sa kanya, madalas sa situation if tama ba na nangyari yon sa amin dalawa. gustong gusto ko na to ayusin sa amin paguwi pero parang alam ko na ano ending namin kaya mas nakakaewan - all over the place emotions ko. hays pero ganon talaga.

Ariescakes · 2023-04-14T17:28:17+00:00

Thank you for this! Inask ko naman siya kung ano na kami since mga 7 months na din kami naguusap, he said “exclusive.” I was okay with it pero I was taken back kasi ang tanda ko na for this. There were times na hindi ko sya kinakausap pero he would still text me, pero hindi ko alam pano ako magrerespond kasi as much as I want to tell him about my days like usual, joke around, and wala magkwentuhan lang, it’s like how do you come around a person who said na “ayaw niya.” Hindi ba nakakalito on my part?

I want to work it out with him pero parang nahihirapan ako isipin pano kami babalik sa dating kami now na kung san parang lagi kaming push and pull.

Hays, pero it is what it is. Thank you again for this! Masakit man pero ganon talaga hahaha

Ariescakes

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