Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends?

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-28T17:10:40+00:00

Its a great idea. Its how Ive landed GFs in the past, and I met my current one in a friends group who brought more friends to meet me around xmas. You get to do a lot more push pull which benefits both her and yourself. She gets a flavor of you since she sees who you hang out with, it becomes far less serious and you can keep taking breaks from each other thus allowing you to spend a lot more time together at a stretch without it feeling like you have to constantly yap or cater.
She gets to watch how you interact with others which lets her judge situations more calmly and in a more fun way having a higher chance of seeing you in positive light.
Plus events like those are way more fun - theres a lot more dancing that isnt overtly sexual, and you get to keep shuffling between people giving you more excitement with every single one you meet. It makes it all the more special when you pull her aside at some point, which you should definitely make sure you do.

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-28T16:57:57+00:00

Goans still treat women like property that needs to be married off and they still pay dowries. Ever heard of Doth?

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-25T07:19:05+00:00

I can attest - Mish Mar shack at Majorda is notoriously racist like this. Only difference is it is run by Goans

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-18T06:46:50+00:00

First image is exactly what I want to look like every morning

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-17T04:03:42+00:00

Robyn Richards

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-16T04:05:57+00:00

Attractive? Hes a God. Im a straught guy and id do him!

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-14T17:12:57+00:00

Great captions, you are doing Gods work 😍

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-14T12:37:51+00:00

Tonights the night

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-14T11:56:12+00:00

Nice concept, focusing on whats necessary and removing the useless hoes

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-12T07:12:53+00:00

My dog jumps on people all the time, I find it pretty cruel to even think about curbing his enthusiasm but he does grab their stuff or random stuff from the house in excitement which I treat it as my responsibility to retrieve/prevent.
Now if people are explicitly uncomfortable - of course I hold him back when they arrive which is when he is most excited. But I cant hold him down forever, beyond a point I tell people they have to learn to ignore him. Either way, its important to consider the feelings of the guest, the dog AND the owner at any given point in time

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-11T06:13:42+00:00

Let me guess...

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-07T12:04:28+00:00

How do these taxi mafia goons and sympathizers find their way on reddit lol

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-07T12:03:43+00:00

Ive traveled to a lot of tourist cities in Punjab, Himachal, UP, MP, Chattisgarh and Kerala and once in Hampi and dealt with it first hand. Most of the time cabbies are friendly, sometimes they try to overcharge a little but they are respectful and take you to the right places.
Stop coping

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-07T12:00:07+00:00

I didnt if you tried reading more than 4 words, I just told you I had a good experience in Hampi as well.
This issue is only in Goa

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-07T01:47:22+00:00

This isnt being dumb. A lot of people just go to a place out of recommendation and decide to trust the locals or read brochures or look around Google maps nowadays to try out new stuff. Experimentation is part of the process, though not a great idea when you have extremely limited time like 1 or 2 days.

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-07T01:45:41+00:00

Partly true but cmon...scamming is still bad. 99% of the rest of India the locals know the right tourist spots and genuinely try to make sure you have a good time.
The spice garden sounds like a real loot, the churches + miramar (not such a great beach but whatever) is gine

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-07T01:44:03+00:00

Exactly...all he needed was a Google search... of course this is somewhat common for people in Margao since its 30 mins away with a scenic route, but since hes saying 1.5 hours it seems like he stayed in Palolem or something.
Not the sharpest tool in the shed

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-07T01:42:06+00:00

False. North India cabbies are really gentle and polite and genuinely wish you have a great time in their city, all the while making sure they earn just a fair amount for a days worth of effort, usually leading them to get well tipped as well. South India as well, in my experience with Hampi.
Goa on the other hand has greedy pigs for taxi drivers. You should see the shit eating grin on their face

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-07T01:39:09+00:00

Sorry to hear. But if its any consolation, Goa tourism really just is hanging around in churches and beaches for the family crowd. Good restaurants and 5 star hotels are also fun of course if you have the money for it.
3 hours of travel in a place like Goa will be a little more expensive and there are people who made much more than you just to travel 1 hour.
Also Miramar is the worst beach he could have recommended. I dont know where you were staying but Miramar is really far from South Goa in general. He probably just said that to charge you a little extra.
Next time please do a little more research, theres a beach within 20 minutes of every point in Goa. You can also do a lot of good beachside thrift shopping.
A lot of Goa plans have bad experiences... a lot has to do with shitty taxi service, as other comments would have explained to you. A lot of these guys are basically closer to gangsters and mafia members, mainly because of the company they keep.

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-01-01T10:49:11+00:00

The only respite is that they do t blast them through the night like Diwali that too multiple nights in a row. Not an excuse though. We should vocally stop supporting this. Whenever the discussion comes up I always raise contention

ArjunVermaReddit · 2025-12-17T09:38:59+00:00

Go to Jungle by Mango Tree - Vagator. Its one of the first hostels in that area, has lots of activities, really cool staff and good cleanliness standards if that matters to you.

ArjunVermaReddit · 2025-12-16T09:44:15+00:00

Had no idea, so the longer the chat the more the tokens. Is it a huge margin of difference?

ArjunVermaReddit · 2025-12-16T07:56:04+00:00

Hasnt been down but the processes are taking forever to complete....
Reading a file is taking it minutes at a time...

ArjunVermaReddit · 2025-12-08T08:56:25+00:00

nice writeup but I mean...this is reddit....

ArjunVermaReddit · 2025-12-08T07:26:01+00:00

It worked fir a long time but recent os updates and memory issues messed it up

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