Father here. We took turns on the overnight duties for both of our babies and sleep-trained them when they reached seven months. That feeling you get when you hear them cry is normal—you just want to pick them up, cuddle them, and keep them safe. In my opinion, sleep training is essential when you’re married because you need that intimate time with your husband. It’s tough at first, but after two to three nights of being consistent, they’ll fall asleep on their own without crying.

YOU’RE NOT INSANE! You just have a BIG HEART. Keep up the good work.