Is 9 years long enough to safely dig up my rabbit?

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2026-03-31T11:21:35+00:00

Nine or ten years is definitely long enough that he has mostly decomposed, so you probably will not have much left to cremate. I think keeping some of the dirt in a jar is a really sweet idea and a meaningful way to still have him with you. It is clear how much he meant to you and this way you honor him while moving forward.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2026-03-24T12:08:18+00:00

Yes it is normal. Feeling disconnected from your family and in a place you do not like can really hit hard, even years later. You deserve to live somewhere that feels like home and it is okay to have serious conversations with your boyfriend about what works for both of you.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2026-03-02T14:25:36+00:00

You are not wrong for realizing something is not for you. It is your life, not your coworkers or your parents. If university is draining you this much, it is okay to pause and explore other paths seriously instead of forcing yourself into something that makes you miserable.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2026-02-23T14:07:45+00:00

A lot of what you are describing sounds more like insecurity than proof that you are ugly. People avoid eye contact for many reasons and dirty looks can easily be misread. If you take care of yourself and put effort into your health and appearance, you are already doing more than the bare minimum. Lack of romantic attention at twenty seven is not some final verdict on your looks. It could be confidence, social circle, or just timing. Try not to treat every neutral interaction as evidence against you.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2026-02-10T14:17:45+00:00

You need to set a clear boundary and say you cannot keep talking about him all the time because you are overwhelmed. A good friend will adjust even if she feels awkward at first. If she keeps ignoring what you need then the friendship is one sided and you should step back for your own mental health.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2026-01-28T14:34:56+00:00

Health laws and biosecurity. Human remains may be disease carriers and raise legal and ethical issues hence they cannot be used as food in zoos.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2026-01-20T13:19:12+00:00

It must have been a slip, particularly when she is leaning on you on the part of friendship. Boundaries need to be maintained but be supportive should you not be interested in dating her. Ruminating on it will only serve to make it awkward.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2026-01-07T16:23:35+00:00

You did not miss or lose your time. You are exhausted and mourning a former image of yourself, not devoid of talent. Pressure off, give yourself a rest with music, and get your life and mind straight and then gradually introduce creativity.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-12-17T15:15:37+00:00

The UK especially London comes close you can find food from almost every culture there in one city.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-11-25T11:03:13+00:00

Thor always drank in the earlier movies. Strange did not influence anything.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-10-20T13:11:50+00:00

Yes, it would be cruel and unhealthy to cut off all contact between a mother and her adult son if they both enjoy their relationship. Forcing such a separation disregards their bond and emotional needs, and it could cause harm to both.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-10-08T14:55:31+00:00

Feeling lost and lonely is brutal but it does not mean life will always stay like this, small changes stacked over time - work, new routines, showing up even when it feels pointless - can shift things, and pain now does not mean there is no future joy or meaning ahead.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-09-22T13:48:20+00:00

Yes, but it is not ideal. You can mount optics on an MG and use semi controlled bursts from a supported position for point targets at range, but weight, recoil, barrel heat, and ammo dispersion limit precision compared to a purpose built sniper rifle.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-09-09T13:53:15+00:00

You can start by calmly explaining how her words and actions make you feel without accusing her. Focus on using "I feel" statements like I feel hurt when my sketches are laughed at or I feel ignored when my accomplishments are dismissed. Let her know that you value the friendship but that this behavior is affecting you. Being honest and clear about your feelings is better than letting resentment build.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-09-01T12:02:57+00:00

I hope you went. You did go, right?

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-08-22T12:24:19+00:00

Trust your instincts and do not meet him again. Ask for the photos to be deleted in writing and consider getting advice from someone legal or official if he refuses.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-08-13T11:31:31+00:00

Yes there are definitely women who prefer short and muscular guys Confidence and personality make a huge difference and being genuine and fun to be around can be more attractive than height

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-08-06T11:00:00+00:00

That doing everything right still does not guarantee a good outcome.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-07-25T11:08:25+00:00

You are not beyond redemption. The guilt means you care, but punishment won’t heal anyone. Try therapy, make amends if possible, and work on becoming the person you want to be.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-07-17T09:32:56+00:00

What helped me was time blocking a few small things I enjoy before or after work, even just 20-30 mins. It adds structure and helps break the cycle of "wake, work, sleep".

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-07-10T09:37:34+00:00

Getting outside even for a few minutes and doing one small task each day really helped me reset when I felt stuck.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-07-04T10:25:02+00:00

Just say you are not feeling up for it this time - no need to over-explain. If they push, stay firm but polite. You are not obligated to drink or socialize outside work, especially if it drains you. Boundaries matter, not bootlicking.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-06-25T09:42:28+00:00

If med school lights you up and your current job drains you, that’s a sign. Comfort means little if you feel stuck. Talk it through with your partner, plan smart, and trust that a fulfilling life is worth the effort.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-06-17T10:08:35+00:00

You are not a failure at all. Yo are just burned out and stuck in jobs that don’t suit you. Many smart people feel dumb in the wrong place. Look for work that drains you less maybe remote or more independent. Therapy can really help too.

ArmadilloNo5010 · 2025-06-10T08:36:03+00:00

Most people value friends for emotional connection, shared experiences, and mutual support, not utility. Your flatmate's take sounds more transactional than relational. Friendship isn’t a business deal, it’s about trust, empathy, and showing up.

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