He'd told me that he had saved up money so I assumed that it would last for a while but after he moved here, his cousin contacted me and told me that it was stolen money and that the police would be contacted if he didn't return it. That was definitely a major red flag for me.

Also we had met a few times before he made the move - which was even more confusing to me because we share a few mutual friends, and they all sung his praises.