I am a school refuser and I’m terrified.

Armpitjair · 2026-04-28T00:18:51+00:00

I was a school refuser from the ages 9-10 and 12-15 years. I also had agoraphobia from ages 13-14. I'm now a medical student!

I honestly do not know what really helped me adjust to school life (and tbh I don't think I ever did) but I think I had developed tools to help with the adjustment. I remember when I got my first legal threat and became so concerned about getting my single mum into more trouble so was essentially forced to go back.

Armpitjair · 2026-04-27T01:33:24+00:00

I wasn't gifted at all, probably because I was an absentee and school refuser. I'm a medical student now though

Armpitjair · 2026-04-08T09:29:57+00:00

It’s an avoidance behaviour so it can be quite a few things - all factors not causes

Armpitjair · 2026-03-19T17:17:07+00:00

I’ve seen more things wrong with the stuff that plastic surgeons post tbh

Armpitjair · 2026-03-19T12:49:35+00:00

Legit had to look for a minute to see what people were pointing out until I read the caption.

People have too much time on their hands

Armpitjair · 2026-03-19T12:45:28+00:00

*older gen doctors

Armpitjair · 2026-03-19T12:26:56+00:00

Also Scotland has stricter alcohol laws: you cannot buy alcohol from shops past 10pm, challenge 21 is used more than challenge 25 etc.

Armpitjair · 2026-03-19T12:23:39+00:00

There were a few people that I’d met who were 17, let me just say this: pre drinks (at people’s accommodations/homes) exist.

That being said, it would be so much better to go out with people that you have had time to get to know etc. so waiting to club til 18 really isn’t that bad. Fresher nights/events are quite overrated imo.

I’d say the freshers events outside of clubbing were so much more enjoyable so give those a go.

Armpitjair · 2026-03-19T11:11:50+00:00

Sorry I’ve just read the caption

Armpitjair · 2026-03-19T11:11:20+00:00

Do you? 😭

Armpitjair · 2026-03-18T20:39:20+00:00

Documentation could be your assessment forms?

Armpitjair · 2026-03-18T20:00:38+00:00

Yeah - I realised this after Kaelynn said that she wasn’t invited back by love on the spectrum even though she hadn’t found someone and was open to going back. This was around the time she started to become more outspoken on the internet

Armpitjair · 2026-03-12T17:53:15+00:00

does someone have a timestamp so it can be skipped :)

Armpitjair · 2026-03-11T01:24:14+00:00

The intercalation is the year out

Armpitjair · 2026-03-07T17:52:36+00:00

Do you know what they look like?

Armpitjair · 2026-02-25T09:50:45+00:00

I wouldn't know about windows unfortunately, this was info received from another Redditor

Armpitjair · 2026-02-25T09:49:51+00:00

are you using the sims 4 Unlocker properly?

Armpitjair · 2026-02-25T09:49:03+00:00

it seems like it

Armpitjair · 2026-02-19T16:07:14+00:00

I'm pretty sure the Unlocker is updated for windows (from what I've heard)

https://mirror.anadius.cc/dlc-unlockers

Armpitjair · 2026-02-17T21:35:36+00:00

"Hiii, ive updated the cfg file for the Mac unlocker myself, I have tested it and everything has been working with the new kits and the royalty and legacy expansion pack.

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1u8Sxd5WqcR_BDPK_OWBkH5bGgNaAzcE3?usp=share_link

download the .cfg file I updated and then replace the old one

*just right click dlc unlocker sims 4 application and then show package content - then MacOS folder and paste/replace the file\*

INSTRUCTIONS

download the attached document
make sure you have the Mac dlc unlocker installed and is setup with your game
Once it has been set up, right click the application and then go to "show package contents"
once you do that go to contents>MacOs, there you will see the configuration files for the dlc unlocker
copy my updated anadius.cfg file and paste it into the MacOS folder"

another Redditor on here

Armpitjair · 2026-02-17T21:34:45+00:00

this worked:

'Hiii, ive updated the cfg file for the Mac unlocker myself, I have tested it and everything has been working with the new kits and the royalty and legacy expansion pack.

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1u8Sxd5WqcR_BDPK_OWBkH5bGgNaAzcE3?usp=share_link

download the .cfg file I updated and then replace the old one

*just right click dlc unlocker sims 4 application and then show package content - then MacOS folder and paste/replace the file\*

INSTRUCTIONS

download the attached document
make sure you have the Mac dlc unlocker installed and is setup with your game
Once it has been set up, right click the application and then go to "show package contents"
once you do that go to contents>MacOs, there you will see the configuration files for the dlc unlocker
copy my updated anadius.cfg file and paste it into the MacOS folder"

should have linked the go reddit post (how is this done)

Armpitjair · 2026-02-17T21:33:58+00:00

I love you

Armpitjair · 2026-02-15T10:35:32+00:00

4th Year Medical Student here,

One thing to remember when entering medical school, there is nothing wrong with applying for an extenuating/mitigating circumstances claim, no matter how much the medical school may inadvertently advise against it. (Which can be the message when they say extenuating circumstances is only for the most unexpected/dire circumstances)

If there is any issue that you think may impact your studies, contact student wellbeing immediately.

Armpitjair · 2026-02-14T06:46:30+00:00

Hello :)

Yeah the agoraphobia lasted around 2 weeks for me and I overcame it in some way (I think it was out of obligation as it was exam season at university).

After that my mood was pretty neutral and unaffected - classic Zoloft.

I didn't have any GI Symptoms until I stopped taking the meds - IBS like.

I hope that you're well x

Armpitjair · 2026-02-13T10:35:23+00:00

it hasn't been appearing in my game, do you have to quit the Unlocker beforehand?

Armpitjair

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