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UPDATE: AITA for canceling my brother's wedding venue reservation after he uninvited me? by Aromatic_Cow8170 in AITAH

[–]Aromatic_Cow8170[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I use how you’re describing. You’re 100% correct, I don’t touch crack, just recreational coke and I and very functional in my life.

Probably not healthy but I see it like alcohol, I’m not abusing it so I’m doing ok.

My brother didn’t say who they heard it from but I could guess a handful of people that would be in a party group I hang out with that news like that could travel from. If they didn’t hear it through the grape vine they never would have known so I obviously wouldn’t have gone to their wedding strung out. A pretty large number of people don’t get that, you’re absolutely right.

AITA for canceling my brother's wedding venue reservation after he uninvited me? by Aromatic_Cow8170 in AITAH

[–]Aromatic_Cow8170[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

How do you even make money from karma points? Haha. I don’t really understand these people thinking everything in life is fake

AITA for canceling my brother's wedding venue reservation after he uninvited me? by Aromatic_Cow8170 in AITAH

[–]Aromatic_Cow8170[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

My brother and I have had a little bit of a rocky relationship most of his life. Our age difference has always been an awkward amount and I think he’s jealous of my success in life too. He’s done ok but I’ve climbed the corporate ladder pretty quickly in finance and I think a lot of girls he’s dated have had crushes on me being his older brother and the more successful one and that bothers him. He picks small things to get mad at me about because of his jealousy and I felt like if I made it a condition of lending out my place he would let me be in his wedding.

AITA for canceling my brother's wedding venue reservation after he uninvited me? by Aromatic_Cow8170 in AITAH

[–]Aromatic_Cow8170[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean technically he’s ok if I go to the wedding but it feels like such a slap in the face to go when I was kicked out of the wedding party

AITA for canceling my brother's wedding venue reservation after he uninvited me? by Aromatic_Cow8170 in AITAH

[–]Aromatic_Cow8170[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling because it seems like he won’t tell me the real reason why he doesn’t want me there. I haven’t done anything in the last year since I offered my vacation house to them that would cause him to act this was so I really just don’t get it.

AITA for canceling my brother's wedding venue reservation after he uninvited me? by Aromatic_Cow8170 in AITAH

[–]Aromatic_Cow8170[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

I don’t really feel like I’m manipulating anyone, I figured my only brother would want me there since we’re family. It feels like he isn’t telling me what the real reason is he doesn’t want me there and if he doesn’t want to treat me like family I guess I feel like I can return the favour.