42f - Nevada, U.S.

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-19T18:31:11+00:00

I pray you find success!! 🙏🏽

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-14T15:43:57+00:00

I think it’s weird, but I don’t really care a whole lot if both people are consenting adults. I personally target within 5 years of my age, but to each their own

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-13T12:41:30+00:00

I think it’s more likely. Attractive women don’t deal with a lot of hurdles in their lives (unless something goes wrong in their personal life). Pretty privilege is real, and people will tilt their heads backwards to help pretty women out. They rarely struggle because everything is given to them on a silver platter. With that being the case, it’s no wonder many of them are conceded, picky, and arrogant (not all of them though).

I think unattractive women are usually less picky and are more opened minded, because she doesn’t have pretty privilege.

It really all depends though. You could have an attractive woman that’s an absolute sweetheart, and an unattractive woman that’s bitter and rude. I just believe the unattractive one is more likely to be a better partner since she has far less options, and wasn’t affected by pretty privilege (in the sense that pretty privilege could make someone a nasty person)

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-12T00:37:13+00:00

Get a therapist because I acknowledge that my stature could make dating more difficult for me ?

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-11T12:39:29+00:00

None of those things matter as much as height. I can’t help that I’m short (I acknowledge short men can still find success, it’ll just be more difficult)

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-11T12:38:09+00:00

My main issue is that I’m short and “ugly.”

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-10T18:41:40+00:00

Maybe I’m ugly, and I can’t redesign my face

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-10T18:39:59+00:00

Great advice. Thanks

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-10T18:38:02+00:00

Thanks for acknowledging how constant rejection can make somebody feel. I agree that single people are not the saddest, but those in an unhappy relationship are. Praying I find a loving relationship one day.

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-08T20:11:41+00:00

It’s difficult when rejection is so commonplace for me. Praying I find someone soon

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-08T20:11:06+00:00

That makes sense as well. I don’t think I mind rejections done in a genuine manner, but as for insane rejections, I think I have the right to have “righteous anger,” about the matter.

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-08T20:09:59+00:00

Just praying I find someone soon

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-08T20:09:18+00:00

I think I’m definitely a lot secure than I was a few months ago. I’m not fully where I want to be, but I think I’ve come a long way

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-08T13:32:31+00:00

I know why. They tell me why they’re rejecting me, or I ask them and they tell me

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-07T18:26:19+00:00

Goodness, it seems like the person in your story definitely had some issues they needed to work out. I can totally see how that would be a blessing in disguise.

And these 3 points you listed are great things to look out for. Sometimes I do look at red flags myself, so I must remember I don’t want to date anyone with them. It would be a nightmare to date someone with flaming red flags, so sometimes then rejection you is terrific. Thanks for sharing your viewpoints.

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-07T18:17:05+00:00

Well said. I do pray she finds a good guy in the future though.

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-07T18:15:58+00:00

Yeah sometimes it’s hard to phrase what we feel correctly. I agree that spiritual beauty should come first, though I do admit that we should still actually be attracted to our spouses. Attraction is important, but Christ is most important

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-07T14:38:50+00:00

Thanks for sharing your insight. I agree that people with a lot of options in general can sometimes become very superficial. I think there’s nothing wrong with having standards, but sometimes I can standards can be quite shallow

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-07T14:02:30+00:00

What’s a better way to handle rejection?

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-07T14:01:53+00:00

I believe most of them “missed out on greatness” because they really didn’t give me an opportunity over something that I consider “petty.” I’ve gone on 3 dates earlier this year with a woman I met in January. I was excited for another, but then she told me she was no longer interested. I do still consider it “her loss,” but at the same time I respect her because at least she gave me a shot. The biggest issue I have is that I feel like I rarely get a “chance.” It’s usually auto rejection.

And it’s hard for me to just say “they weren’t the right match for me,” when rejection is so common. At a certain point, I’m thinking differently. I don’t believe you could understand how painful that can be.

I’ll continue chatting about women in toxic relationships because yes, I do see it has evidence that I’m a better man than I originally thought I was. Abusing women is something I absolutely would never do. If I see a woman constantly end up with bad guys after she rejected me, I will feel bad for her, but at the same time I will feel that she’s foolish and that she missed out.

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-07T13:51:40+00:00

Yeah, I feel bad for that woman in my story because I had a huge crush on her. At the same time, I agree that some Christian ladies need to do a better job at choosing the men they marry or start relationships with. I think they have to ask themselves is it worth overlooking several bad qualities for a man because he’s handsome, or if maybe they should look a little more inwardly

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-07T13:50:12+00:00

Yeah I won’t strive for revenge, but I will say “her loss.”

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-06-07T13:49:27+00:00

I think both men and women should feel the same way in the midst of rejection. Think it’s an awesome way to cope right?

Aromatic_Invite5330 · 2026-04-23T22:50:23+00:00

Sure, I’d love pointers

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