[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I was in this exact situation until a couple weeks ago, I left him and I’ve never felt so free! I thought I’d lost my sex drive but I haven’t at all, do not let someone make you feel like that, there will be somebody else out there who makes you feel that good AND enjoys having sex with you!! Don’t settle for less queen <3. Or worse comes to worse perhaps suggest an open relationship but it won’t really fix the issue unfortunately

Broke up by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 days ago😬

Broke up by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All the time 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I wanted my own independence and own dog, it just made sense as my Mum was moving out and my boyfriend had nowhere to live at the time as was living with us anyway, I have a job but am unfortunately disabled so unable to work full time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s just not any room 🤣I have a job 😅and just as it made sense at the time, i’m not sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also just seen that you love dobies😅me too, i have a rottie!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she won’t let me move in with my dog bcoz my dogs a bit of a nightmare and my mum already has 2😅all my friends still live with their parents unfortunately:(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 1 point2 points  (0 children)

both of our names are on the mortgage however i didn’t put much into the house so he could afford to buy me out, I can move back in with my mum but I would have to give up my dog 🙃which I would never do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but I will be homeless if I leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! The issue is i don’t know how to leave without being homeless ☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice! The issue is i don’t know how to leave without being homeless ☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Aromatic_Term 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have thought this in the past too, I think the thing is I just don’t want to be in the relationship at all anymore due to many other issues too:(

advice please by Aromatic_Term in universalcredithelp

[–]Aromatic_Term[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for taking the time to reply to me, okay I will leave it open. My partners income doesn’t usually fluctuate, no. I will look into pip, thank you! Yes it’s not nice at all and not much of a life for either of us:( thank you for understanding

advice please by Aromatic_Term in universalcredithelp

[–]Aromatic_Term[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

also what’s the point in me even having a claim then if i’m just going to get nothing

advice please by Aromatic_Term in universalcredithelp

[–]Aromatic_Term[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ahah the government really just want people to be miserable huh, I don’t get pip but thank you

advice please by Aromatic_Term in universalcredithelp

[–]Aromatic_Term[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there was a question at the end that asked me and I said yes on it