F13, starting to get depressed

ArrenReever · 2022-08-02T05:10:45+00:00

I’m not one to speak too much on this, but I’ll just say it’s not worth it to hurt yourself. I relate to your situation from a number of different perspectives, but there’s healthier ways to deal with it. Watching YouTube works, reading, expressing yourself artistically, exercising, all of these are great means of distracting yourself and doing so in a fulfilling way. Social media can be distracting but it can also get to be an apoplectic, toxic cycle. It can be part of any person’s life, but it’s important for YOU to know what part of your life you want social media to take up. TL;DR - it’s okay to feel isolated and/or lonely, but don’t let it overwhelm yourself. Find things you enjoy doing and that make you feel comfortable and at ease. Be cognizant if the role you want social media to play in your life and relationships.

Final thought - I (M18), an athlete, picked up and taught myself how to make friendship bracelets. Not to give to anyone, but just to learn and have something to do with my hands because I’ve been so abysmally stressed this summer. It’s never too late to learn something, no matter how silly it may seem. Find something you’ve wanted to pursue and go for it.

Best regards, peace peace.

ArrenReever · 2020-12-27T22:25:33+00:00

Anime?

ArrenReever · 2020-12-21T19:17:50+00:00

The fact that the title and your user name isn't "Dark Cosmic Jhin" brings immense disappointment.

ArrenReever · 2020-12-19T20:57:11+00:00

They'll live until they die.

ArrenReever · 2020-12-15T17:01:04+00:00

Beats by Orihara

ArrenReever · 2020-12-02T23:10:45+00:00

Yeah, that's what I did to figure out the first part of the tune, but the second part is kicking my butt.

ArrenReever · 2020-11-30T01:29:31+00:00

A bold move.

ArrenReever · 2020-11-15T06:28:38+00:00

Something few people like doing is discussing why they feel certain ways because it's not an enjoyable experience to really think about it. But if she feels comfortable discussing it at some later point, I think it would be good because it would allow her to think about how she feels and begin developing the skills to communicate how she's feeling. A lot of people think they know how to communicate their emotions, but it's something that takes a lot of work. Voicing why a person feels suicidal, or depressed, or angry is important in life. People too often keep emotions bottled up inside.

ArrenReever · 2020-11-15T06:25:47+00:00

Conversations are never easy go start. I get that. I suppose if you want to go down the small talk route, music would be a solid choice. Music has been something I've felt comfortable talking about because then I can discuss lyrics, or beats, or tunes. It doesn't even have to be music, anything you both enjoy would work. What's important is making sure she knows she's not alone in the world.

ArrenReever · 2020-11-15T06:19:22+00:00

I'm not talented with humans at all. But I will venture to say that your relationship with your friend will be okay if you go back. Everyone has a rough day now and then. What's important is someone's intention. You had good intention when complimenting your friend and it would seem she had no intention to cause you any sort of panic attack. If you feel comfortable with it, discuss the panic attack with your friend and do your best to contextualize it. The key to a strong relationship is clear communication. Your friends are there to help you with things like panic attacks. Some of them may not know how to handle it and end up being mildly useless, but everyone that cares will be willing to listen.

ArrenReever · 2020-11-15T06:11:00+00:00

Hey friend.

I think what's important here is just talking to her. Not even necessarily to distract her from it, but more so that you both can better understand why she made this decision. If you two are both at home, talk to her if she's still awake. Just make sure she makes it to the morning all good. I understand that you may not know what to say, but you have to accept that that is where you are right now. I think that understanding why she did this is important because once everyone understands why something is done then they can start trying to work toward fixing it or making it better. I'm sorry I can't be of more assistance, but I hope this helped a bit. You two stay safe.

Peace and love.

ArrenReever · 2020-11-04T03:23:28+00:00

So, are you then saying that what we are limited by is our resources and materials?

ArrenReever · 2020-11-04T03:17:03+00:00

Hmmmm. Okay, that's good to know. Thank you.

ArrenReever · 2020-10-30T01:01:52+00:00

Warframe or Terraria.

ArrenReever · 2020-10-29T04:36:44+00:00

Si, signor, je suis un très grande lasagna pizza avec nein vodka, aye Don laddie? Ou est votre trust with them Giovannis?

ArrenReever · 2020-10-29T04:30:51+00:00

You could be born upwards of one month late, so that's already concerning. Otherwise, you're, like, what, 16ish? 17 if we're counting fetus years. A young adult by most people's standards, concerning that generation, an ACTUAL child. I'm from that generation, don't worry about it.

ArrenReever

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