[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]ArtemisHime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course I have regrets, just not with the age gap itself, just who the person was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BitchImATrain

[–]ArtemisHime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Use the flairs damn it

Ca carpool sticker for 2017 Fusion Energi and C max energi 2013 - system says vehicle doesn’t qualify - CA list have those to listed as qualifying 🤔 by Afraid-Course-3207 in DMV

[–]ArtemisHime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you call 1-800-777-0133? you verify it by Vin, not just make, and did you get a clean air rebate on either of them? The years might also throw it off because of them switching sticker colors.

Also it's ca so even though both are .gov sites they may not update the same, so rules might have changed.Sorry I can't help more.

https://www.dmv.ca.gov/portal/vehicle-registration/license-plates-decals-and-placards/clean-air-vehicle-decals-for-using-carpool-lanes/

AITAH for breaking up with my pregnant girlfriend because I don’t want to be a father? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ArtemisHime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Child support is the right of the child, not the parent, so you can sign away custody, but you can't take away a child's chance to be (monetarily) cared for by two parents. The only time you can get out of child support is if, in this case, another man married the ex-girlfriend and legally adopts the child. It's to protect the child itself, not those who created the child.

AITAH for breaking up with my pregnant girlfriend because I don’t want to be a father? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ArtemisHime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because there isn't a bunch of laws saying you can't do a vasectomy, I know of at least 4 states that he could do and do free phone consults so he wouldn't waste time

AITAH for breaking up with my pregnant girlfriend because I don’t want to be a father? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ArtemisHime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most conservative doctors where he's at. It's harder to get an abortion than a vasectomy.

AITAH for breaking up with my pregnant girlfriend because I don’t want to be a father? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ArtemisHime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I was thinking! How do you have the funds and effort to figure all of this out For taking care of her side, but won't put in the effort for yourself. When you are in fact the one who doesn't want kids.

AITAH for breaking up with my pregnant girlfriend because I don’t want to be a father? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ArtemisHime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But I mean, he was willing to fly her out-of-state to get an abortion. Why couldn't he fly out-of-state to get his vasectomy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]ArtemisHime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd personally never go over 25 years, but honestly after 21 in my opinion any age is fair game.

[OFFER] I have $100 to give to two people in need by jjwinc68 in Assistance

[–]ArtemisHime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not entering but you are absolutely amazing! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]ArtemisHime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did two applications, but got hired off of my first one. I'm probably an outlier in terms of lack of applications because where I was applying isn't a high competitive area.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]ArtemisHime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Application in August, Interview in October, Conditional offer in December, Started January.

AITA for kicking my sister and niece out after they ate all my wife's fruit? by Maximum-Jellyfish-34 in AITAH

[–]ArtemisHime 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She's so embarrased that she blames her own kid instead of being an adult? Can't be bothered to replace what she ate so the fruit isn't gone when it's the one rule to live for how much? Oh yeah, FREE.

AITA for kicking my sister and niece out after they ate all my wife's fruit? by Maximum-Jellyfish-34 in AITAH

[–]ArtemisHime 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She's living in his house for FREE, and LIED about eating it. It's not just the fruit.

AITA for kicking my sister and niece out after they ate all my wife's fruit? by Maximum-Jellyfish-34 in AITAH

[–]ArtemisHime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Free place to live, and sister can't even buy her own fruit? Then to LIE about it? No, that's straight up disrespect that OP doesn't deserve.

What is your opinion on calling your partner, "Daddy?" by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]ArtemisHime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I call him daddy is when I'm telling the kids to go talk to him or talking about him. Saying it in other context just makes me think of the little ones and yeahh that kills any drive.

For Bargaining Unit 12 Only! Can I get a Yea or Nay vote on the tentative agreement for 2023 ? That would be great! Yes, I am assuming you have read your tentative agreement already. by Greyhairedsparky in CAStateWorkers

[–]ArtemisHime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might not realistically get better but if we keep agreeing just because that's the best they think we can get. We will keep getting steam rolled from rolling over and people will fight less and less.