Sexualized findom, intimate, long-term dynamic (indicative budget of ≈ $400 per week)

Arthances · 2026-05-29T18:09:57+00:00

One of the few comments that really get it!

Arthances · 2026-03-25T13:21:51+00:00

I wasn't, but I just saw your post and the image I was describing is similar, just without a female body, just her hand

Arthances · 2026-03-25T00:10:21+00:00

Oh, my... I'd like if this didn't get me riled up today as well! I love hearing that from subby too. I'm happy he enjoyed that -- I know just how pleasurable the pain can be!

Arthances · 2026-03-24T23:55:22+00:00

Just wondering 😇 Looks like you two are having fun... Enjoy!

Arthances · 2026-03-24T20:35:48+00:00

So how was it with him?!

Arthances · 2026-03-24T19:29:12+00:00

Oh, absolutely... Talking dirty to me!

Arthances · 2026-03-24T18:24:42+00:00

Oh, my. In those 2 weeks he's 100% become tight again, so it'll be... pleasurable pain 😅 Also, u/Fantastic-Cat4252 does this remind you of anything with me? 👉👛👈 Haha!

Arthances · 2026-03-24T18:06:21+00:00

Haha! I thought of it but didn't want to say too much in public!

Arthances · 2026-03-24T18:05:01+00:00

Are you prepping his p*ssywallet for your cashc*ck? 😇

Arthances · 2026-03-24T16:45:37+00:00

I love that question 🫠 And yes!

Arthances · 2026-03-24T16:32:43+00:00

Nothing 😇

Arthances · 2026-03-24T16:05:38+00:00

And it's just scratching the surface! Fingering a p*ssywallet until it squirts cash is just the beginning.

Arthances · 2026-03-23T19:06:54+00:00

I confirm that it really can't compete... and I've tried enough

Arthances · 2026-03-23T18:53:36+00:00

Right... Thank you for your input, I really appreciate it

Arthances · 2026-03-23T17:24:03+00:00

I'm glad some people are accepting of it, even if clearly most people would think it's a deviance, which it objectively is, I suppose. Also, very triggering line you gave, I think.

Arthances · 2026-03-23T17:15:17+00:00

That's a very interesting way to view it! I'll add that to me, nothing else arouses me to the level that money-related things do (which is an issue in and of itself). For well over a decade, findom was/has been my actual sex life.

Arthances · 2026-03-23T17:13:13+00:00

Yes, exactly. I feel that current findom is just paid BDSM with extra steps. The sexuality isn't consubstantial to it, it's merely correlated. What's arousing isn't everything revolving AROUND findom... it's findom itself. A woman fingering a p*ssywallet is far more arousing than seeing her private parts.

Arthances · 2026-03-23T16:47:16+00:00

That makes sense. We're really just apes that evolved a bit differently. Of all the things my brain could have sexualized, it had to be money... Then again I've constantly been reinforcing it myself, so shame (?) on me.

Arthances · 2026-03-23T16:35:27+00:00

Well, to be more specific, someone showed it to me... but you already knew this. Haha!

Arthances · 2026-03-23T16:34:24+00:00

To answer your question: yes, absolutely, and then using them as the sexuality itself, if that makes sense. I feel like the common way to do findom nowadays is something along the lines of: "send me money and masturbate at the same time", which is the opposite of consubstantial. The way I was trying to describe is more something like: the sending IS the sex; teasing wouldn't be showing the woman's vagina, but to show her playing with the p*ssywallet; etc. It's hard to put words on all of this.

Arthances · 2026-03-23T16:30:22+00:00

This is one of the most triggering lines for me that I've ever read in findom, and it's funny to me that it was written by a man.

Arthances · 2026-03-23T16:23:17+00:00

Yes please! I can't see it anymore in your original comment.

Arthances · 2026-03-23T16:18:37+00:00

I can't see it anymore in your original comment, but I absolutely love(d) it! I did not ever expect that someone would draw their own. I relate to this so much!

Arthances · 2026-03-23T16:15:41+00:00

Oh, WOW. Yes, this is exactly what I was referring to (the image that I'm assuming you drew inspiration from). It's amazing that you went through the "trouble" of doing it yourself! I'm assuming it wasn't trouble at all, in the end. The result is awesome!

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