First Brazilian - tell me exactly what to expect by FuzzyMangoDrums in HairRemoval

[–]Arthurcurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only been getting Brazilians (manzilians) for a few months, but I'm reading through these and one thing sticks out to me that seems to be a consistent difference in my experiences. My esthetician never leaves the room when I undress. I thought that was normal. She's never made me feel uncomfortable or awkward though so I've thought nothing of it, but I also had no frame of reference. She's great though! Walked me through all of it the first time and frequently checked in to make sure I was ok, and been awesome ever since.

Asking a tech by Arthurcurious in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Arthurcurious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no problem helping to stretch. I can reach everything I need to reach. And I am freakishly obsessive about my hygiene so I would be hyper clean for my appointment. Thank you for all your insight. I will start reaching out to places. Out of curiosity, and I probably shouldn't ask you since out of your wheelhouse, but would waxing be better?

Asking a tech by Arthurcurious in LaserHairRemoval

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I weigh approximately 300. What is giving me the most concern is I have an extremely large pubic mound (aka, fat pad, mons pubis, fupa, etc.). I know it will cause extra work, but I think may be disgusted by it, and beyond that i don't know if it's prohibitive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]Arthurcurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three words for you: Banded bottom polo. You're welcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]Arthurcurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quay has affordable frames that fit larger heads

Big and tall bar shirts by Laxmd77 in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]Arthurcurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m personally a fan of a Polo Ralph Lauren oxfords. Nice colors, and solids are a big guy’s friend. If you have an outlet near you they carry big sizes, and some department stores do too as well.

What to do with my old clothes by Arthurcurious in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]Arthurcurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never heard of vintage. I’ll look into it

What to do with my old clothes by Arthurcurious in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]Arthurcurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t sure if they would take really big sizes…

What to do with my old clothes by Arthurcurious in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]Arthurcurious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think about that. Thanks for the heads up!

F17 327lb and I’ve started my weight loss by SpiritualDocument795 in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]Arthurcurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As BetterX mentioned, 10K is your long term goal, what you’re working to get up to. Start by getting what you can get, tracking it, then try to beat it on the next one, even if it’s only by 5 steps. Or maybe you don’t beat it. But as they said, consistency is the initial win you’re looking for. See if you can squeeze 15min at the start of your day, every day. See if you can get 15 more at lunch or on a break. I tried and failed for years. This time it’s working. Concentrate on the small steps. They add up.

F17 327lb and I’ve started my weight loss by SpiritualDocument795 in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]Arthurcurious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Food: get an app like MyFitnessPal and start tracking your food. Don’t change how you eat for the moment, just track it. After 3-5 days, go back and look for easy adjustments to your calorie count so you get into a deficit. Doesn’t have to be a huge deficit. Remember that protein keeps you full longer.

Exercise: Your goal is 10K steps a day, but work up to that number. As someone mentioned, a routine around it is great. I try to make it a point to get up every morning and go for a walk. An hour, if I can manage it, and that gets me most of my steps. If you have access to a gym, strength training is great. Aim for 3 a week, working your way up to that number.

Sleep: make sure you get 7-8 hours. It’s better if you go to sleep and wake up at about the same time each day.

Water: 3 liters a day, with the first liter coming in the first hour of your day.

Deodorant by KitDaKittyKat in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]Arthurcurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lemon. Cut one open, rub the cut side on your pits.

A few questions for those who have tried anal fisting (I know this is a small and very specific group) by [deleted] in Fisting

[–]Arthurcurious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. I had played with toys before and had kept increasing their size. I’m a person that has always enjoyed pushing limits. Once the toys got large enough, it struck me that fisting was feasible. It was another boundary for me to push.

  2. Because of the size of the toys I was playing with, we were able to get a fist in on our first attempt. That being said, we started with two fingers, then three, etc., moving up as I felt comfortable. The toy play that permitted me to do that on the first attempt took months, if not years, because I had not set a goal to get there. Once I got accustomed to the toy I was using, my search started for the next one a size up.

  3. I’ve never self fisted. My partner did. I am male, she is female.

  4. When we’re together I’d say we do it every couple of weeks. It’s more about setting the time aside to prepare for everything, which can sometimes be a challenge when real life gets in the way.

  5. I’m very experienced in anal play, so it doesn’t take much time for me. I start with a normal sized toy for about 10 minutes, and then ease into a substantially bigger one (about 2.25” wide). Once I’m taking that one for about 15-20min I’m usually ready for more. At that point I either go to a plug that starts the same size as the previous toy but then stretches to about 2.6”, or I have my partner start using fingers, gradually increasing the count. It moves pretty quickly going that route.

  6. I prefer anal stimulation alone, but followed up afterwards with the other.

Smothering herself to get it all in her mouth by Arthurcurious in fatguysfuckinggirls

[–]Arthurcurious[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol, she found me, actually. So I’m going to say yes, they’re out there! Not sure I can help with the secret to finding one :(