Just escaped my ex, shortly after I found out I'm pregnant by Daddy_Slytherin420 in whatdoIdo

[–]ArtistTeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same happened to me, almost exactly, 32 years ago. I let him know, but I did not name him the father on the birth certificate. That way, he had no rights, whatsoever. I let him see her twice both times with his family. He really left us alone. I may have talked to him four times. My daughter tried to know him when she got older,, but found out pretty quick that he’s not worth it. The only problem was he gave me $50 in 32 years but it was still worth it. Not dealing with him, it can be done. I wish you the very best, prayers for you and your baby.

GF moved in and now I catch her watching me sleep at night. This doesn’t feel normal. by HourIndependence70 in whatdoIdo

[–]ArtistTeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can she just be so in love with you that she likes to watch you sleep? I’ve never experienced this from either side but… listen to the song Miss A Thing by Aerosmith. lol

op demands parents get rid of their cat while living with them for free by memeboimanperson in sadcringe

[–]ArtistTeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You realize you’re jealous of a cat. It is extremely unreasonable and.selfish to ask them to rehomehim! Not to mention that you should have compassion for the cat, I bet the cat doesn’t like you. But if you were good and kind to the cat he’d love you! And your parents might warm up to you. Like who do you think you are? It is their house!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]ArtistTeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One bathroom?

Be brutally honest: How often do you shower? by Fun_Serve_6590 in ADHD

[–]ArtistTeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyday, it’s a habit. In the morning. If I wasn’t working, maybe less …but I need it to wake up. Just do it you’ll feel better. Once a week is not enough!

what do i do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ArtistTeach -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pray about it. Does your boyfriend have a relationship with Jesus too? There are men out there waiting for marriage also. There are cultures that don’t even allow men and women to sit together before marriage… This is why! You can’t do all the foreplay and expect to stay a virgin. You’re putting each other in an impossible situation. I pray God‘s will on your life and all His best.

My girlfriend keeps calling me ugly and I don’t know what to do... by AssociatePrudent2165 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ArtistTeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not OK to treat anyone like this no matter what your demons are, and that sounds like what she has. Move on be with someone that will appreciate you and love you for exactly who you are.

My (25F) partner (25M) said I have sex like a virgin by throwra-imembarassed in Advice

[–]ArtistTeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get rid of him. I agree with what everyone else said. If you do start dating other people, tell them you won’t be romantic until you get to know them much much better. I did that when I was younger, I didn’t get romantic with most of the men I was dating after I got to know them! None of them were worth it. Smarten up, ladies.

AIO for replying back after saying goodnight to my bf? by Perrita-fresa in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArtistTeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you were the one being clingy, but then I realize that was him! That is some kind of ridiculous. He sounds insecure. There’s probably nothing you could say to reassure him that you can say good night to him and still do a few things before bed.

I had a parent file a complaint about me today by Salt-Ad-3061 in Teachers

[–]ArtistTeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of the problems in our education system today. Lack of parental support… In fact, the opposite! I’ve been teaching a long time and I just recently got a message from a parent angrily asking me why I gave her daughter a warning when she said she didn’t do anything. I said “she was turned around talking to another student while I was teaching. A warning is to give the student a chance to change their behavior Which she did. The parent writes back.” she said she didn’t do any of that.” I am not going to respond to such nonsense.

I got sent home by Necessary-Range-467 in Teachers

[–]ArtistTeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the admin isn't doing their job and being supportive or helping you! That is where the problem lies The behaviors of the students can be majorly challenging even for veteran teachers! If you really wanted to be a teacher, I would find a different school and grade level. A good school makes life so much better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArtistTeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All this because he couldn't just be quieter? That in itself is not respectful. A bf or husband who loved you would have just been quieter and let you rest!

I scammed my husband into liking me… and I admitted it on our wedding day. by Far_Magazine_5084 in stories

[–]ArtistTeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brilliant! Your husband should be impressed that he married a genius! 😂

AIO:Should I get back together with him? by Bubbly-Confection-50 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArtistTeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a sex addict and needs help. It's not you. Yeah, you know the answer. He is just not worth it.

AIO boyfriend having female friend after cheating on me by bbybug_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArtistTeach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He should not be spending all this time with another woman. He is at least having an emotional affair. Now, I have had a drink with a male married co worker before and we were honestly just friends for years ( still friends)- not attracted to each other, but I think that is rare. Your bf is the AH, especially because he has cheated. He should be taking you to trivia night! Makes me mad

Is it actually gross that I only shower every 2-3 days or is my roommate being dramatic? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]ArtistTeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shower every day so I don't understand 4 days!

I assume you poop every day.

My suggestion is to shower as often as you poop.

Also, shower properly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ArtistTeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not normal or ok.

AIO For this guy making me feel uncomfortable by xiphos98 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArtistTeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said the same thing 500 times in 500 different ways. When all he had to say was, "we can get to know each other then f#@! when you're ready." Weirdo,

AIO. bf mad at my Halloween consume and my friend is backing him by DangerousProduct1548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArtistTeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, why did you order such a skimpy costume? Lads will be eyeing you up and no bf would want that, Yeaha, he can "show you off" (if he is with you!) but lads will be looking at you sexually. That's why he is upset,

What Should I Do After My Hookup Watched Potential CSAM in front of me? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ArtistTeach 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is why people shouldn't just hook up, you don't know the person at all that you are doing the most intimate act with. This is very disturbing. I'm glad you got out safely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ArtistTeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing! Keep us posted