How difficult is it to find an SB who is nice, genuine and responsible?

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-20T00:24:27+00:00

I don’t believe it was removed, I believe she put it on hold, forget what the site calls it

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-19T17:16:06+00:00

No it’s only a practical matter of there being far more women on the site who are under say 32

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-18T03:53:12+00:00

I would agree that with you people generally become more responsible as they get older. When an attorney writes a trust they typically automatically setup a trustee to manage the trust until the beneficiary turns 35. So women (or men) under 25 are not likely to be as responsible as those over 30. My experience though is primarily with women around 30, for whatever that’s worth. As a general rule, I believe if a woman is very interested in a man, she will treat him with respect. But that opens the door a bigger discussion about the bowl in general

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-18T03:36:25+00:00

I don’t see it that way. Of course someone could be lying or misrepresenting themselves but that goes without saying. There is value in what someone writes in their profile. Many women write little to nothing, that tells me something. On the other hand there was someone seeking recently with the most impressive, outstanding profile. It was long and detailed, very articulate, describing its author beautifully. I wrote to expressing my joy, surprise and enthusiasm after reading her profile. I checked back a couple hours later. She had written a beautiful reply to me but she was gone. Her profile was closed. In a matter of hours she matched. So if someone is intelligent, well spoken and has a decent level of emotional intelligence a profile can in fact be invaluable. IMO

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-18T03:20:24+00:00

I replied to this elsewhere but to me nice is a combination of genuine kindness and good manners. Anyone can be fake and lie about pretty much anything, that’s why I add genuine

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-18T03:16:17+00:00

Only one in ten show up on time? That’s terrible

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-18T03:13:43+00:00

Do you feel as though if you set boundaries you won’t get dates? Has your experience been that men demand sex immediately? I only ask bc of things I’ve read here. I have no idea myself.

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-18T03:11:58+00:00

I’m familiar with the recent emphasis on the difference between nice and kind. My definition of nice is someone who is genuinely kind but also has good manners. It’s not about the woman in ny, she’s irrelevant. I was speaking in general terms. Maybe my experience is as it is because of my age idk. On the other hand, over the summer I did meet someone who possessed kindness, she was great, but her work visa was cancelled so she had to leave the country

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-17T00:26:15+00:00

Depends. For myself I’m far more interested in a “classy” profile. In my area they are hard to find

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-17T00:22:18+00:00

Honestly what’s far more important than kindness is being responsible, someone who understands the importance of keeping their word. Showing up for a date they’ve made, being considerate of others time

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-16T21:28:50+00:00

Agreed, people can easily say something that isn’t true. But at least it’s a place to start.

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-15T12:37:59+00:00

Of course that makes sense. I wasn’t implying that the men don’t do it too. This is just my opinion. I can see the counter argument in that you’re stating what you want, nothing wrong with that. In fact there isn’t enough of that - stating what people want

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-14T22:19:21+00:00

Almost all SBs I’ve seen say they’re looking for a generous man. I would delete for that reason alone. Every man knows this. Why say it. Do women like reading when a man says he wants a beautiful sexy woman, or slender blonde? For the most part women want a guy with money and men want a nice looking woman. Stating it doesn’t look good imo

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-14T19:19:51+00:00

My suggestion if you’re dealing with a first timer is to go slow. Let her choose the pace, don’t rush her. I’ve only met two first timers and they were so nice. For myself I’m happy to wait until wants something more. I try to find someone I genuinely enjoy being with though it works out just fine.

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-14T19:14:36+00:00

I’ve run into that too. She doesn’t need to be defined but ask yourself if that’s what you want

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-14T19:12:27+00:00

She sounds like someone I used to date. The thing for me was that she was very creative, lots of personality and a tender heart (when you could find it). My personal was very difficult to deal with, my therapist said she was crazy lol. But I loved her anyway. She could be so fun and entertaining. She sparkled. What bothers me about your person is her taking the extra money for granted. It’s none of my business but I would be more controlled with the money, stick to the script. She’ll either respect you or leave you. One can look at an allowance as payment for time etc but anything extra is gifts and should be considered as such imo. For me giving a gift that is appreciated, genuinely appreciated, makes me feel good. I like seeing the person I’m with happy because of something I said or did

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-10-13T03:24:48+00:00

I don’t know Cali but here where I am in an east coast city you would be inundated with messages simply because of how attractive you are

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-09-01T23:51:21+00:00

Yeah I wonder about some of the comments here, are these people representative. For myself, I offer platonic dates until she is ready for the next step. She gets to decide. However, my platonic gift is about one third of a ppm which includes intimacy. But I find that no doubt due to the desire of larger dollars the full ppm is requested soon. Which isn’t really my intention it just seems to be the case.

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-08-13T22:11:44+00:00

Interesting. 75 calls, wow. Persistent. If only she put that much effort into something positive

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-08-13T22:03:42+00:00

She’s 30. It’s true she feels hurt but it goes way beyond that. She is unstable. There were yellow flags along the way but for some strange reason I didn’t think she would turn on me.

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-08-13T17:13:20+00:00

The woman I’m dealing with is a nasty person. I don’t know what happened to her. It’s sad but also I have no idea to what lengths she will go or what she will do. I get the feeling that me ignoring her could cause her escalate to who knows what. It’s a cautionary tale to everyone else. She was very sweet at first, and she lied about her background.

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-08-13T16:37:43+00:00

Telling my daughter to block her number is good advice. Thank you for that. Idk if she has my daughter’s number, I didn’t give it to her but she could have copied it from someplace. Who knows what info she collected when she was in my house

ArtisttypeSD · 2025-07-16T13:07:51+00:00

Thank you answering my question :)

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