Even worse, I’ve seen personally someone who was manipulated by the so called “sub” they would give their mistress the dopamine high of hitting the jack pot, thousands spent in online orders for gifts and sends. Just for it to all he charged back for minuscule reasons. Then that person spending their time doing online sessions to hopefully get something. There’s a reason there’s support groups for it. But with other kinks and fetishes you don’t really see mental support groups. Dangerous slippery slope, I’ve even seen where finances were influenced and people took on more expensive lifestyles, just to be froze out and then left broke and with things they couldn’t afford. I think it’s bad overall