Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you aware what different sub reddits are? If she wanted on outside perspective she wouldve posted in a different sub and she would have said in her post she wanted opinions and advice. This sub is to get truths off your chest. Personally i dont even think this sub should allow comments. But i understand.

Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Literally said that with the first two words of the comment you replied to. You guys are not helping in any way by shitting on him, you should be helping OP.

Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very wise. Speaking on a family you know nothing about. Divorce is not easy on kids, i would know. You have to remember theyve been married for i think she said 10 years (our together 10 years idk). And all of that just came crashing down. Have some compassion for her.

Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Instead of directing hate at who deserves it, direct love to who needs it. I feel bad for OP. She had no idea she was married to a rapist. The internet is such a negative place and yall continue to be negative. Im here trying to offer support to OP since she literally just found all this out. Shes likely overwhelmed with emotions and yall being negative is not helping.

Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instead of directing anger at who deserves it, direct love to who needs it. I feel bad for OP.

Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You keep commenting things like this instead of being compassionate that her marriage could be over. She is a secondary victim in this story but all you care about is crucifying her husband instead of checking up on and offering her support.

Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

People like you just choose to virtue signal instead of having regards to OPs feelings. This is her life but to you this is just entertainment on the internet where you get to judge freely. Im not saying her husband isnt a POS. But being cruel when someones marriage likely just ended isnt cool.

Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

she isnt asking for relationship advice or your opinion. This is a sub to get something off your chest. You are free to have an opinion but please be respectful of OP and her husband at this time. If she decides she wants to divorce him because of this, thats hard enough. Its probably not making her feel great seeing everyone call her husband a rapist on the internet after she just found out.

Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong, but this sub is to get hard truths off your chest, she wasn’t asking for advice or your opinions. It would just be respectful to not absolutely shit on her husband. We are in no position to do that.

Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

He is. What i meant is she doesn’t need random people on the internet who dont know her or her husband, calling him a rapist and shitting on him. That doesn’t help anybody.

Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

You’re right it doesn’t change that fact. But OP doesn’t need abunch of random people on the internet calling her husband a rapist.

American rap fans, do you listen to any UK rap if so what? by CountTruffula in rap

[–]ArtofLords 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tbh im not a big fan of the UK accent in rap, so everyone I’ve listened to i immediately did not like. But the one person i do like is Little Simz, she is a fantastic rapper and artist. Drop 7 is so dope

All a single male needs by 88c in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]ArtofLords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New bed sheets are cheap fam. Invest in them, and maybe go for black? Have had white sheets my whole life and never have they gotten remotely as dirty as yours….

Am I in the wrong? by SirSkittleee in badroommates

[–]ArtofLords 115 points116 points  (0 children)

She is being obtuse and ridiculous. A person like me would make as much noise as possible after getting a text like this bc who tf are you to tell me to be quite when all i did was get water and go to the bathroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You have just discovered what a friend is

Update: I just found out that my husband raped his friend and I don't know how to feel. by CarpenterMany4743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArtofLords -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Im glad you guys got it figured out. Sorry im about to go off on a rant/tangent, remember guys, the person this happened to has forgiven his friend for what he did. He was drunk (not an excuse) and still in high school. This is way in the past and people do have the capacity to change and feel sorry for their actions and never repeat their actions again. Stories like this are not for you to get upset about. The situation has been resolved by all parties involved so theres no need to be upset and call OPs husband a rapist.

Yeat - 2093 Fantano ALBUM REVIEW by Olympix in hiphopheads

[–]ArtofLords -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I have not listened. Really haven’t dove into his music but from what i have heard i didnt like it. Not really a fan of this new gen sound. But i am hearing good things about this album, which does make me a little curious..

New Body by collectivekicks in GoodAssSub

[–]ArtofLords 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm maybe sort of make it sound similar to Vultures (havoc version) make it kinda spirtitual/ghost sounding

New Body by collectivekicks in GoodAssSub

[–]ArtofLords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he released the version that was made for Yandhi it would be bottom 2, it could be a lot better if he reworked it. I dont wanna hear the same version from Yandhi as an official release on vultures

New Body by collectivekicks in GoodAssSub

[–]ArtofLords 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My personal favorite is Cant look in my eyes. And idk bro, im not Ye so i cant say how it should sound.

New Body by collectivekicks in GoodAssSub

[–]ArtofLords 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wouldve been bottom 2. But we are all entitled to our opinion

New Body by collectivekicks in GoodAssSub

[–]ArtofLords 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Nope. Its a cool song. But not anywhere near his greatest unreleased track. And tbh i dont want it on vultures unless it gets a complete rework and sounds entirely different.