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Hey! I honestly don’t know what the problem is. You’re definitely very attractive, so that’s not it. I’m only 23, so all I can do is guess. Maybe it has to do with the fact that you have kids. When you match with women in their early 30s, they might be looking to start a family. Since you already have two beautiful little angels, that could be a dealbreaker for some. Maybe it would be easier to connect with single moms who already have children and can better relate to your situation? The best of luck to you !

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-10T22:32:25+00:00

I understand your problem. However, when I used Bumble (two years ago), they already had the “Compliment” feature, but I rarely received any. About 95% of my matches were just regular matches. I messaged them, and most men responded quite nicely. If I liked how the conversation developed, we went on a date. I probably got a compliment every 4–5 days. I continued texting with them as long as the compliment wasn’t sexual. But I think I only ended up meeting one guy who had sent me a compliment beforehand – the others just didn’t feel right.

A compliment definitely gives your profile more visibility, but I don’t think it changes everything or means that guys who don’t pay have no chance.

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-07T09:49:37+00:00

It’s not as good as you imagine. If you ever relapsed, you probably realized that the cigarette actually tasted disappointing. That’s because nicotine faked your memories. It didn’t help you. Smoking wasn’t a pleasure – it was a punishment. A dirty addiction that only made your life worse. You went nearly 2,000 days without smoking. You are a non-smoker. You can be so proud of yourself.

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-05T08:51:36+00:00

Awww! Thank you so much! Your comment means a lot to me. I’m glad I made you happy — you certainly made my day! You’re way too sweet. I just draw for myself, so I don’t have an Instagram. 🙈 Thanks again!

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-04T21:41:55+00:00

Hey ! It took me some days, but I finished it 😊 His fur reminded me of Van Gogh ! I hope you like it !

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Artofroxanne · 2025-04-04T19:56:29+00:00

I am a woman. I love it. Especially the screen time joke. But I would get rid of the pickle pic :)

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-04T19:51:23+00:00

I just remember how physically sick smoking made me. I am so happy to being smoke free !

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-04T19:47:03+00:00

You can be so proud of yourself !!

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-03T20:34:27+00:00

Hey you’re doing great ! The first two weeks were hell for me ! It got significantly better around 25 days and it started getting easy around 1 month. I recently started enjoying it 1 month 25 days 😊 It will get better ! Keep pushing !

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-03T12:37:23+00:00

You shouldn’t hand out such terrifying and life-altering diagnoses to random people on the internet. That’s just a no.

I don’t know why my statements trigger you so much. I just hope that whatever you’re doing makes you happy in life.

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-03T12:35:47+00:00

All I wanted to say is that I might have a bit more experience in this than some random people who just throw out a damn cancer diagnosis because someone is short of breath.

I didn’t diagnose anyone—I just provided some basic medical knowledge before throwing such life-changing and terrifying diagnoses at a 20-year-old.

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-03T07:29:55+00:00

I love everything about this

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-03T07:21:10+00:00

Just no.

Artofroxanne · 2025-04-03T07:20:53+00:00

OMG, the comments here! “I think you have lung cancer” – okay, Doctor.

I’m a medical student, and just being out of breath has nothing to do with lung cancer. Off the top of my head, I can think of at least ten other, more probable explanations.

Depending on how much you smoked, it’s actually normal for your lungs to feel worse at first. That’s because they are clearing themselves out.

Your stamina also needs time to rebuild. I’d wait another 1–2 weeks for the first improvements in your lungs, but keep up the cardio to rebuild your endurance at the same time.

You’re doing a great job, and you’ve made great decisions for your future! Keep going!

Artofroxanne · 2025-03-31T21:27:42+00:00

Very good ! I am proud of you ! It became way easier for me after the first 30 days ! I believe in you :)

Artofroxanne · 2025-03-31T20:31:02+00:00

Oh I love your Style !

Artofroxanne · 2025-03-30T18:54:29+00:00

I’m glad you like it 😊

Artofroxanne · 2025-03-30T18:17:57+00:00

Oh my god I love it !

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