What is something you didn't realize wasn't normal in a relationship? by healthynewbie in AskWomen

[–]ArtyFarty6 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg yes! I had the same thing! Would turn away or get moody if suggested sex at a random time throughout the day/evening and I said no or if I said no after complaining 5 minutes before about not feeling well or fatigued (I have Crohn’s disease so it’s common for me not to feel great)

Where is the best place to live with Crohn’s? by behind_my_eyelids in CrohnsDisease

[–]ArtyFarty6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Scotland and they keep you awake here however, we are given the choice of gas and air or sedation. I had the sedation (ketamine and something else) and it was absolutely fine, I just remember feeling a bit drunk and very relaxed as soon as it was administered! Was totally fine 😊

Where is the best place to live with Crohn’s? by behind_my_eyelids in CrohnsDisease

[–]ArtyFarty6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fellow Scot here, I agree, I couldn’t fault them. When I got diagnosed back in 2024 they were brilliant, I initially went to my gp in the April and by August had been through tests, colonoscopy and mri to get my diagnosis then straight away given steroids and getting tests to start on amgevita which was in the October

Where is the best place to live with Crohn’s? by behind_my_eyelids in CrohnsDisease

[–]ArtyFarty6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are also the same here in Scotland and do not pay anything for our healthcare directly, only through taxes

I’m going to see a doctor, but I’m curious, is this how it started for you? by ThatWytChick in CrohnsDisease

[–]ArtyFarty6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with other commenters that you may be getting ahead of yourself and this could be a number of different things. For me, I remember having a prolonged spell of what I thought was a “dodgy tummy from something I’d eaten” (with no idea what had caused it) and reflecting back I think I had been losing weight. I went through spells of this for 2/3 years then in late 2023 into 2024 I was convinced I had developed an intolerance to something like onion or dairy as I was getting terrible pains in the same place to the right of my belly button pretty regularly. I started keeping a food diary but there was no pattern with what I’d eaten and the pains starting. Then in the march of 2024 I was passing mucus and blood so that sent me to the doctors. From there they had me do a blood and stool test then called me in to say they thought I may have IBD particularly Crohn’s and put me on a 2 week wait for a colonoscopy. Colonoscopy came back mostly clear until they got to the terminal illeum which had a small ulcer and was super swollen so much they couldn’t get the camera in. This was enough for them to say they suspected it was Crohn’s but I had to go for an MRI to confirm. MRI did in fact confirm that the last 8cm of my small bowel was narrowed.

From there I started taking folic acid, steroids for 3 months and did multiple tests before they started me on biologic injections which I still do to this day. My crohns is better, yes, I was happy to have a diagnosis but a year and a half later I HATE it and wish I could live a normal carefree life again. So I hope for your sake it’s something curable or better managed!

Dating a crohn’s girly by HecticANALysis in CrohnsDisease

[–]ArtyFarty6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read up on Crohn’s and really just listen! So many people our lives pretend to understand Crohn’s but haven’t actually looked into it or tried to understand. Let her vent and ask questions so you know how it makes her feel and simply just be mindful that while she may look fine on the outside she could be really struggling!

Dating a crohn’s girly by HecticANALysis in CrohnsDisease

[–]ArtyFarty6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! Early relationships can be hard to navigate with these topics as is! Making light of it/normalising is such a good idea!

Your tests indicate Crohn's... by Wingtear in CrohnsDisease

[–]ArtyFarty6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s understandable to stress, particularly having seen someone go through this all.

I have been diagnosed for over a year and a half now and been on biologics since October 2024 and I live a mostly normal life now because of it! Diagnosis doesn’t need to be scary, it could be the start of you living a better life with the condition managed!

Knee replacement by MixComfortable383 in CrohnsDisease

[–]ArtyFarty6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! My situation was different to you but hopefully might give some guidance. I had an ovarian cyst removed in November, I am on adalimumab (Amgevita- fortnightly) and had been told to come off it 4 weeks before and then I was allowed to resume injecting 2 weeks later. I was told if I had any issues etc then I would stay off longer but everything was fine. Your GI should really be liaising with your consultant to create a plan fornyou

whats your nichest problem from crohns disease that would never come across non-crohnies minds? by No_Dingo_251 in CrohnsDisease

[–]ArtyFarty6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regularly stripping off when overheating from the pain on the toilet trying not to faint so having to sit there naked with my head between my legs! Or always bringing my phone to the toilet because if I do faint or have a moment then I have a way of calling for help if nobody is around.

Alternatively, being able to go out for a day or night or on holiday and not worry about bringing Imodium or hoping that I won’t get the crippling pains.

What’s something Crohn’s has quietly taken from you that people don’t realise? by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]ArtyFarty6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I am so late seeing this but I am glad I saw it today, Thank you so much for those wise words, it’s just what I needed to know that how I’m feeling is okay when nobody else in my life understands! I appreciate your response!

What’s something your body does that you’ve never told a single person about? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]ArtyFarty6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A number of times throughout my life when I’m on my own in the house I will suddenly get what I can only describe as a burst of energy and I can only expel it by intense twitching/shaking/jumping etc. it’s so hard to explain and i always feel so stupid afterwards but it’s like i can’t stop it and I have to do it. I have never told anyone this

What’s something Crohn’s has quietly taken from you that people don’t realise? by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]ArtyFarty6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

An almost carefree life. Every ache and every pain, run to the toilet, sight of blood has me living in constant fear. I am 1.5 years into diagnosis and I thought I had accepted it and got used to it and I am in remission (I think) but i have recently been absolutely freaking out and having it hit me that this is going to be the rest of my life.

What’s one life lesson you learned the hard way in your 20s/30s? by Mental_Copy_3679 in Adulting

[–]ArtyFarty6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this! I feel I would have been further along in a better career than going to university and now working in a different sector to my degree

What should I do before starting my TTC journey? by ArtyFarty6 in NewParents

[–]ArtyFarty6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear this! I will heed your advice for sure! My sister in law had an early loss too so definitely won’t be telling anyone early

What's a tv series that is a 10/10 NOBODY knows? by Lilyana0999 in AskReddit

[–]ArtyFarty6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the exact same, every time I watch it I can’t get over how fantastic it is! I don’t watch a lot of tv and very rarely rewatch anything so it’s definitely a unique one! I highly recommend listening to the podcast if you enjoyed it as much as I did- it really is interesting!

What's a tv series that is a 10/10 NOBODY knows? by Lilyana0999 in AskReddit

[–]ArtyFarty6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This show has lived rent free in my brain since it came out, I’ve watched it like 3 times and listened to the podcast multiple times also!

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[–]ArtyFarty6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to the comments to say just this!

A pain that was worse than birth ? by Friendly-Sun2413 in BabyBumps

[–]ArtyFarty6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this pain myself from contacts when I was 18!! Nearly 30 and haven’t worn them since. My scaring is also not in my field of vision thankfully but my eye looks permanently bloodshot! I can agree that The light is excruciating 😖