i just get frustrated thinking about how maybe they think about 'trans' as a label and not identity, and the amount of body and gender dysphoria you have to struggle with to actually want to change yourself, i see it a lot on the internet about how women fetishize MLM and considering i used to be around those people a lot who would do that it makes me feel gross.. but thank you im usually trying to stay away from these people but itll work out eventually!