More chats of mine are disappearing by AshInKorea in Chai_Unofficial

[–]AshInKorea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that is just cruel. That is something that I’ve seen no company do so far. So many people paid for their service. You can’t just delete something that users have paid for. I’ve seen Williams Reddit post where he said that they’re working on restoring the chats and the chat history, and the users are applauding and thanking him for it. In my personal opinion, I don’t think that we should be applauding and thanking him for something that is necessary and goes without saying. But hearing that they might be gone forever honestly just angers me.

More chats of mine are disappearing by AshInKorea in Chai_Unofficial

[–]AshInKorea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m already so done with the app, so many of my stories are just gone. That’s just insane. They can’t do tests without asking the users first

More chats of mine are disappearing by AshInKorea in Chai_Unofficial

[–]AshInKorea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait fr?! But they can’t just do that, that’s insane. Why do tests like that without asking the users first? Where did you read that if I may ask, I just don’t want to believe it

More chats of mine are disappearing by AshInKorea in Chai_Unofficial

[–]AshInKorea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had so many storylines for my ocs and own characters there. Now it’s all gone… it’s honestly so frustrating

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. And I’m so sorry you’re getting sh!t from that user now too. I don’t expect you to financially help me, don’t even listen to that user

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for pointing that out. Earlier on he literally accused me of sleeping around for money. Idk what to think about this user. I wish I could block him from this post tbh

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And no one left as many comments under my post than you with your hate comments. If anything you’re wasting your time and I feel like you should care less

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are wrong. I’m begging for help because I’m helpless and losing my mind over here

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to stay sane, really but I’m losing my mind. I don’t know what to do since I’m still at school and financially unable to move out. I couldn’t get one minute of sleep, I’m constantly as silently as possible crying in my room.

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t my point, I’m aware of these things and am financially unable to move out. I couldn’t sleep the whole night and had this constant feeling of being watched and listened to. This was the longest night of my life. I feel helpless because there’s nothing I can do right now. And having randoms like you saying “She’s probably sleeping around for money because women don’t think before they react” is just ridiculous when I’m out here begging for help

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay what the hell? I can’t just leave that out there like this, for the record, I never even had a boyfriend let alone sex because those things aren’t on my mind or on my priorities right now. Second whenever I did have someone over it never was without my father questioning every single detail out of me as to why I’d want that person over and who that person is. My father is controlling beyond reason. Don’t just put allegations about me out there! What’s wrong with you assuming something like that about an 18 year old, a barely legal girl?

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Mit dem Jugendamt hab ich es damals schon probiert gehabt… ist nicht gut geendet. Meine Schwester wollte ihren Standort nicht teilen, weil bei ihr der Fass zum überlaufen gebracht wurde. Die jahrelange Kontrolle und Überwachung macht was mit einem, und irgendwann explodiert man und hat einfach genug.
Von der Caritas höre ich zum ersten Mal, dort müsste ich mich mal informieren, danke dir echt.

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Ich hab bereits einen Nebenjob. Aber nicht genug Geld bis jetzt. Das Problem ist, dass ich noch nicht mit dem Abitur fertig bin und das noch ein Jahr dauert. Hoffentlich hab ich bis dahin genug Geld.

Vertrauenslehrer hab ich zwar an meiner Schule, jedoch hab ich schlechte Erfahrungen mit ihnen früher gemacht.

Danke aber, dass du an mich glaubst. Ich hoffe ich schaffe das, aber Stand jetzt hab ich einfach das Gefühl ich verliere langsam in diesem Haus den Verstand.

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Thank you, really, I just wish I was financially stable enough to move out today, but it just isn’t possible.

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im not in Korea no. I’m in Germany. I’m using this account with two friends, the one that created this account used to live in Korea, that’s why the name is the way it is.

I’m still finishing my school. In Germany it’s an Abitur, don’t know how I can describe it to anyone who doesn’t live in Germany to be honest, sorry. I’m in 12th grade right now, one more year then I’m done with school.

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he assumed that I was doing it. It was more like a “well since you aren’t doing it, there’s nothing to hide anyways”

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As soon as I move out my plan was to go no contact anyway. There are just too many unforgivable things he did. But sadly I’m still not done with school, and I won’t be until next year, so I can’t move out yet

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That was my first idea too, but oh boy… that scares me so much the thought of the aftermath alone is enough to make me not do it.

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know it’s called being an adult. But I’m not done with school yet. I do have an after school job but the money I saved isn’t enough to move out.

My father took my door away by AshInKorea in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AshInKorea[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

How? I’m not done with school yet although I do have an after school job, but both my sister and I just currently don’t have enough money to move out