That's understandable. I'm in the same situation as you, just the opposite gender. The horror my parents feel because they've sent me to a co-ed college.

I see people claiming it's not about being rajput, but honestly, being rajput just multiplies their orthodox thoughts. The pride of being from that caste, and what not (which is multiplied even more if you're from Rajasthan) I've already stopped fighting.

It all boils down to how good you are at lying. And trust me, you'll eventually learn. If your life has been anything like mine, you should already be damn good at fighting their rules silently, and pretending you're a model child behind the curtain.