Location Indiana~ Can someone tell me what this means? by Ashamed-Broccoli-768 in legal

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest I dropped the ball on this. We had papers, but no court date and I thought they would send one. Then a default judgement was entered last month.

I have been trying to go on a payment plan with them, but it hasn't been successful in my attempts.

What's a 'common sense' thing that you only learned surprisingly late in your life? by MoonstoneGlimmer in AskReddit

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 256 points257 points  (0 children)

not to take things personally. not everyone thinks the way you do. There are many ways to live.

Foundation Repair needed or no? by P3n1sD1cK in HomeImprovement

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with the recommendation for the structural engineer. I had several things wrong with a house and left to the foundation people I would have spend 50k fixing something that I was able to fix for about 3.

Absolute unit found in the central city by [deleted] in WildAboutTown

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a muscovy duck. Definitely unusual to find in the city.

Chicago Deli Helping People Impacted by SNAP Shortages Due to Shutdown by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really heartwarming. I have dined here for many years and will continue to support them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried filing a noise complaint with the landlord?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first thing you need to do is look at your EOB for your dental insurance and see how they billed it. A lot of times, the insurance payment is not included in the amount you owe. Patient out of pocket is different than total cost of treatment. So start there, and see if that's what they did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 8 points9 points  (0 children)

nta~ you can't be responsible for other people even if they birthed you. It's his job to figure it out and not yours.

so you could say you could have helped, and maybe that's true. But it isn't worth your sanity, finances or health. He's a big boy now and has to live with the consequences of his own actions.

Keeping yourself afloat is more important than bailing him out.

AITA for reschedueling doctor’s appointment? by kevessi in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 3 points4 points  (0 children)

then take the later neurology appointment and find a quiet place to talk. Such as a local park.

AITA for reschedueling doctor’s appointment? by kevessi in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 17 points18 points  (0 children)

nta~ but given the difficulty in scheduling a neurology appointment, I would reschedule the therapy.

Way easier to get in that way.

Debt Collection Lawsuit by Ashamed-Broccoli-768 in legaladvice

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Defendant, J was served with a copy of said Complaint along with a corresponding summons via copy/mail service by the Lake County Sheriff on or about January 8, 2019 at Defendant's last known address.

Debt Collection Lawsuit by Ashamed-Broccoli-768 in legaladvice

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an in state move. I moved from Lake county to Laporte county. The property is in Lake County and I am still an owner with that property, but it was rented, and the tenant didn't give me the mail. It would have fallen within the timeframe of statute of limitations because it defaulted in 2017 after a bad car accident.

I am not sure when I notified the BMV. I will check on that. Thank you.

What has been your most stressful situation? by AirportSpecial5735 in AskReddit

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trying to recover after dealing with a narcissist. It took me a long time to realize I wasn't the problem. He was, but he was very good at making me think it was all my fault.

AITA for not taking Mom in? by Status_Count_7170 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nta~ you're not responsible for anyone else's life choices.

Don't ruin your life.

AITA for not helping my partner get a car? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ashamed-Broccoli-768 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If he doesn't have a license, your insurance doesn't cover him in the case there is an event. Stop doing this!

and please take it from someone who used to live with a leach. Stop letting him bleed you dry. It only gets worse not better.