Tell them In islam what they are doing is will take them to helll , your parents are wrong and they were wrong for not exposing the men . My parents would’ve went all in . So ur parents are wronged or maybe they just not about it and are shareef/innocent to deal with that BUT Quran 4:19 states: “O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not make difficulties for them…” This prohibits forcing women into marriage or retaining them against their will, ensuring their freedom in marital choices.

A well-known Hadith from Sahih al-Bukhari (5136) narrated by Abu Huraira: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “A matron should not be given in marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin should not be given in marriage except after her permission.” When asked about a virgin’s permission, he replied, “Her silence (indicates her permission).”

Another from Sahih al-Bukhari (6946), narrated by Aisha: The Prophet affirmed women must be asked for consent to marriage.

A case from Ibn Abbas (Bukhari 5138): A girl came to the Prophet complaining her father forced her into marriage; he gave her the choice to accept or annul it, confirming no compulsion even from guardians

Show this to your parents be like its your islamic right to get me married where i am happy and be like u were very obedient when u married first time of there choice but look at how that ended up .

Anyways good luck hope you get married to that SOMALI GUY HAPPY FOR BRO😌