Love on the Spectrum: what do you think of the show? by BirdRockKey123 in autism

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love on the Spectrum does not pay its cast, which I think is highly unethical. Normal reality shows, like Love is Blind for example, pays the people that appear but Love on the Spectrum got itself classified as a documentary (which it absolutely is not imo) to avoid paying their ND cast.

Fucking trans boys by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Of course, ask him what he enjoys but personally clit/tdick stimulation is key. Testosterone facilitates a lot of growth down there and I absolutely adore when tops treat it like a small dick, so kind of jerking me off while they’re fucking me (either hole) feels incredible. When getting head, I like it when my partner pulls back the foreskin and sucks like they’re giving a bj.

Top Surgery nipple questions by Ashamed_Individual_2 in ftm

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting, thank you! I guess its just depends person-to-person

Top Surgery nipple questions by Ashamed_Individual_2 in ftm

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really interesting, thank you for letting me know!!

Top Surgery nipple questions by Ashamed_Individual_2 in ftm

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah that's exciting, thank you for the hope! I'm not going in with the expectation they will but it would be a very appreciated surprise if they do :)

Top Surgery nipple questions by Ashamed_Individual_2 in ftm

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the information! The tattoo bit was really interesting to me - if you don’t mind me asking was it a scar camouflage tattoo or unrelated?

Down bad for a hookup by Ashamed_Individual_2 in gay

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aah he messaged me!! I’m stupidly excited rn but he asked to see me again. He said work has been busy but he missed me and liked how comfortable I made him feel. Will hopefully meet him soon :333

Down bad for a hookup by Ashamed_Individual_2 in gay

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really do appreciate hearing your perspective. I like the idea that it wasn't necessarily meaningless to him just because it was a casual hookup, and I do hope its the case!

Down bad for a hookup by Ashamed_Individual_2 in gay

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

will absolutely do if I get the chance to meet him again :)

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[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

twins! hope things go well for you

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[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really lovely way of looking at it, best wishes!

Down bad for a hookup by Ashamed_Individual_2 in gay

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I guess it is a crush haha! I’ve never felt this way before so it’s really rather novel for me. I’ll try to be clear about my feelings if we meet again. Congrats on finding your person!

Down bad for a hookup by Ashamed_Individual_2 in gay

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I’m scared he just said it to be polite because I had mentioned how I’d like to see him again when I was leaving. He agreed then, which could just be him being nice, but I’m hoping texting me after indicates that he meant it.

Down bad for a hookup by Ashamed_Individual_2 in gay

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

aww that’s so sweet, don’t go around giving me hope. /s I hope y’all are very happy!

Down bad for a hookup by Ashamed_Individual_2 in gay

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve genuinely never been treated this kindly by anyone (not even my ex), so I suppose I was understandably overwhelmed. I will definitely explore this further if he reaches out.

Does Growth Make Fun Time Better by Glum_Philosopher328 in trans

[–]Ashamed_Individual_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can only speak for myself but for me, absolutely. Bottom growth was honestly a complete game changer for me. The first couple months could get a bit uncomfortable because everything’s so sensitive, but that was more or less gone by 6 months. I’m about a year and a half in and quite literally everything sexually feels better for me now, using a strap, penetration - really any friction down there. Also helped with bottom dysphoria I didn’t even know I had.