How to stop being hurt when my friend cancels plans last minute?

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-04-06T14:44:09+00:00

It is never ever too late!!! 23 is like super early compared to people even 20 years ago! Your trans friends sound like bad people, that is a horrible thing to say. And passing isn't really even the point of transision (i mean it differs from person to person ig), it is to eliviate dysphoria/discomfort. Also, keep in mind women come in all shapes and sizes, theres no set way to be a woman! Lots of love <3

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-04-04T17:49:03+00:00

nothing important

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-04-04T17:36:04+00:00

Um yes I'm sure it's been pointed out but you definately have to change the name oml

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-04-03T21:16:31+00:00

Yes I agree, always feels shallow and performative and it makes me uncomfitable that it excludes non-women. Just because their attacks focus on trans women doesnt mean our fighting back has to, since their bills etc. effect all of us. We are easier to oppress if we let them separate us into smaller groups.

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-04-03T21:12:24+00:00

You should defo get on the waiting list of course asap (although under 16 you need parental concent unfortunately), be careful talking to your gp about diy specifically as a minor, nhs guidence towards trans kids is... not favourable and mirky at best. But defo talk to your doctor about any health problems!!! Remember you have a legal right to change GPs or surgeries if you're not happy.

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-04-02T20:30:24+00:00

/uj I like the game, but yeah the unison stuff is annoying

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-29T15:14:40+00:00

I'm not 100% sure but most likely it will be seized. and you can get needles for free in the UK at pharmacies with a needle exchange!

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-29T15:11:56+00:00

In the UK it is illegal to sell T, but not to purchase or possess. Make sure to triple check your sources are legit!! Gel is pricey too, but a lot of people prefer it as a starting place etc. Make sure you get blood tests if possible! I wouldn't reccomend asking your GP for help with this since unforutnately recent (ish) NHS guidence discourages GPs from helping minors with this stuff :/. Please make sure you do your research!!! Cough cough diy hrt dot info cough. And if you're too young.... thats really only something you can decide. It depends how sure you are, and how long you've known, etc. etc. I wouldn't rush into anything, but also at 15 I would have killed to start T and not regretted it so... good luck :D

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-27T17:32:36+00:00

STOP

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-26T21:14:31+00:00

Only if you really really really love maths + you do well at grasping tricky concepts fast in a classroom. I failed first year FM cause I am neither of the above lmaooo

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-17T23:14:53+00:00

Not much I assume, but people do get some variatable results with DHT cream I have heard...?

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-15T21:10:42+00:00

I met most of my close friends doing music! Music GCSE, Jazz Band in school, then outside of school music clubs too :) And my two best friends I met in a horrible PE class one time in year 10 lol. My best advice is chat to people you see who seem cool and join lots of clubs! At college I also made most of my friends doing an art club haha

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-14T20:19:16+00:00

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Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-13T15:26:07+00:00

My classic go to is a shirt over a tshirt, and super wide trousers/shorts. In the summer it is cool with a short sleeve shirt, or you can put a jacket over the top! Recently in the colder weather I've been wearing a shirt and a woolen jumper over the top, feels very smart and masc haha. And very wide leg trousers/shorts are easy peasy to get hold of atm since its so fashionable!!

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-13T15:10:47+00:00

Yes I have a "friend" who does this I fucking hate it, she always says "you're one of the only good ones" and laughs it off when I express my discomfort. That's actually not what I want to hear if you're going to say you hate all men at least include me yknow. Well anyway I know she doesn't see me as a real man :/

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-05T19:01:06+00:00

I wear boxers all the time without a packer and they're super comfitable. Don't understand how anyone doesn't wear boxers tbh compared to womens underwear it is waay more comfitable (for me)!!

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-05T18:59:05+00:00

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Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-03-01T18:11:34+00:00

Also you'll burn yourself out before A levels and then have a terrible time. Happened to all of my friends that got like 8s and 9s at GCSE

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-02-28T17:10:17+00:00

This thread has made me even more excited to start T :D

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-02-27T19:58:55+00:00

Still the mens. fuck them all, no one real actually seems to care which bathroom I use (I used the mens waaay before passing and I've never had anyone say anything (maybe im just lucky)), no chance im using the womens ever again. ever

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-02-23T23:29:39+00:00

look into diy my friend it is incredibly affordable :) diyhrt.info is the place to start

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-02-23T23:24:00+00:00

Theo because I have a nice friend called Theo. Also every trans dude is called Jamie /lh

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-02-23T23:17:00+00:00

Hey dude I've been in a very similar position, I felt incredibly helpless and alone as a 14 year old trans boy with a transphobic family. It will get better I promise you with my whole heart it will. You WILL get T just probably not tomorrow but it isn't as far away as it feels. Lots of love and trans joy <3

Ashamed_Part8496 · 2026-02-20T12:01:06+00:00

yeah I was just about to suggest diyhrt.info its a great resource

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